Fiction should be in its way subversive. I don't think books should be neat or gentle or genteel or comforting. I think they should be raw. They should be written as perfectly as possible, but what they do is to stir up, to lance the reader.
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Mean nothing more than meow to an animal THEY MIGHT BE GIANTS To be or not to be. That's not really a question. JEAN-LUC GODARD Do I have the courage of being a ruthless man to myself with the complete knowledge on my manner or ... FEREIDOON YAZDI The quest of the Inner Ring will break your hearts unless you break it. But if you break it, a surpr... C.S. LEWIS To be or not to be is not a question of compromise. Either you be or you don't be. GOLDA MEIR To be mad is worse than not to be if this is what it is. JOHNNY RICH Hamlet's Cat's Soliloquy "To go outside, and there perchance to stay Or to re... HENRY N. BEARD To be or not to be isn't the question. The question is how to prolong being. TOM ROBBINS I've been misquoted a lot, and there's this tendency for people to put on to you how they th... MAURA TIERNEY I think picture books should stretch children. I think they should be full of wonderful, amazing wor... JANE YOLEN Women should not be enlightened or educated in any way. They should, in fact, be segregated as they ... SAINT AUGUSTINE I think people should be able to do what they want to do. BODE MILLER For me, I think people should be held accountable for what they put on the air or in print. WILLIAM KRISTOL I think journalists have the right to their opinions but I think their opinions should be based on h... MARC JACOBS The press should not get special privileges - if they drive recklessly or put people in danger, they... ADAM COHEN I think it's important because everybody should be treated fair. Nobody should be treated on how the... BEN CHAPPELL A book cannot apologize for what people may think it should be. It has to be authoritative. That'... PATRICK NESS I know that David Tennant's Hamlet isn't till July. And lots of people are going to be doing Dr Who ... NEIL GAIMAN I don't think people should be unduly alarmed, ... They should try to keep the mosquito population d... DANIEL BLUMENTHAL They should fine the referee. That's who they should fine, for that bad call. I do think referees sh... JEREMIAH TROTTER I think people should do whatever they want to do. That's the point. Why should you care what ot... FRANCESCA ANNIS Why do I write books? Why do I think? Why should I be passionate? Because things could be different,... ZYGMUNT BAUMAN For every answer, I like to bring up a question. Maybe I'm related to Alfred Hitchcock or maybe I go... KIM NOVAK differences as to who should be in command of what, differences as to where forces should be reinfor... DONALD RUMSFELD Poetry, fiction as novels or short stories - these are autonomous as created by their authors. They ... F. SIONIL JOSE I don't like docudramas. Documentaries should not go together with fiction, or half-fiction or q... ELIE WIESEL Supercookies are legal, but I don't think they should be. JOE BARTON To date or not to date that is the question. It's almost as important as Shakespeare's to be... AL GOLDSTEIN People do make mistakes and I think they should be punished. But they should be forgiven and given t... DAVID MILLAR People seem to think that you should be willing to speak to them whether they're jerks or not. MARTHA PLIMPTON I don't believe any religion should be exclusive or feel superior in any way, or be judgmental. ... CATHERINE HICKS I'm not a masochistic reader. If something is just too dense or not enjoyable, even though I'... JOSH RADNOR Nothing is ever as good or as bad as it appears to be. JEFFREY FRY The way I've been playing, I should be down, way down. I haven't done anything to think I should be ... MICHAEL JORDAN The writer's object is - or should be - to hold the reader's attention. BARBARA W. TUCHMAN Men should be what they seem;Or those that be not, would they might seem none! WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE They should be concerned but definitely not panicked or alarmed. BOB CANNON I think people should be free to engage in any sexual practices they choose; they should draw the li... ELTON JOHN Good riddance to bad rubbish. RODMAN PHILBRICK Who cares what THEY think, what do YOU think? You can't control others' perception of you, so just b... DAN O'DONNELL Sheep don’t need the shepherd to be what they are. The shepherd needs sheep to be what he is. LJUPKA CVETANOVA When we treat people merely as they are, they will remain as they are. When we treat them as if they... THOMAS S. MONSON All people, regardless of whether they're athletes or not, should treat people the way they want... WALTER PAYTON I was thinking that when I have children, that I should always dress as a character for them, so the... GWEN STEFANI Interreligious dialogue is extremely important for religious people as well as secular people or non... LOBSANG TENZIN No one should be harassed or mistreated because of who they are, who they love, or what they believe... MIKE PENCE I think a newspaper should be provocative, stir 'em up, but you can't do that on television.... RUPERT MURDOCH Yes! Very funny this terrible thing is. A man that is born falls into a dream like a man who falls i... JOSEPH CONRAD I think goals should never be easy, they should force you to work, even if they are uncomfortable at... MICHAEL PHELPS I don't think tablets are where we should be focused. But I do think they could end up being an ... DOUGLAS RUSHKOFF I think more airtime should be given to Donald Trump and Orly Taitz. They should run for office toge... HENRY ROLLINS I think kids should have a mentor and a role model, but that they shouldn't take one person'... SEAN PAUL Men should be judged not by their tint of skin, the gods they serve, the vintage they drink, nor by ... LAURENCE HOPE Men should be judged not by their tint of skin, the gods they serve, the vintage they drink, nor by ... ADELA FLORENCE NICOLSON I think everyone should be with who they love. DOLLY PARTON Faith is not a political strategy and should not be a political strategy. If it is being used as a t... JOHN EDWARDS They impact the way young people dress and act more than anyone else, so I think they should be held... BOBBY WRIGHT I think the Israelis should decide what they want -- peace with Arabs or not. AZMI BISHARA I don't think the Fed is under pressure to raise rates faster than they have been but I think they'd... BILL CHENEY I think women should wear whatever makeup they want for themselves. Makeup should be fun. EMMA STONE Fiction should be an ethically safe space, free of fancy ideas. It should be dedicated modestly to r... LYDIA MILLET Both of your socks should always be the same color, Or they should at least both be fairly dark DAVE BARRY I really can't say if [Arthur Gagnon] is trying to pull a fast one. But I think it should be correct... JOSEPH LAWRENCE The Palestinians want a state, but they have to give peace in return. What they're trying to do ... BENJAMIN NETANYAHU Editorial cartoons should be smart and substantive, provocative and informative. They should stir pa... MICHAEL RAMIREZ I have great respect for people's right to believe what they want to believe. And I don't th... COLIN KAEPERNICK I say it to thee again, and doubt never the contrary, that if it were the custom to put the little m... CHRISTINE DE PISAN I never liked feeling like the world needed to have labels on everything, whether it's people or... LINDSEY STIRLING A film is -- or should be -- more like music than like fiction. It should be a progression of moods ... STANLEY KUBRICK A film is -- or should be -- more like music than like fiction. It should be a progression of mood... STANLEY KUBRICK I think they rely on me so much to have the ball. So their confidence is not as high as it should be... JASMINE WHITBY I don't think they should be able to take action on us for what we do outside of school. DANNY SMITH I don't profess to be a political rapper, like groups such as 'Dead Prez' or 'Public... JAY-Z Humans aren't as good as we should be in our capacity to empathize with feelings and thoughts of... NEIL DEGRASSE TYSON If I don't seem as depressed or morose as I should be, sorry to disappoint you. RANDY PAUSCH As soon as the time machine is invented, all religious people should be sent back in time, where the... JASON MENEZES I don't think the guy should be looked at as an outcast or be looked at in a negative way because of... LAMONT JORDAN It takes two or three generations to do what I tried to do in one; and my impulses--affections--vice... THOMAS HARDY I think a child should be allowed to take his father's or mother's name at will on coming of... JAMES JOYCE If all be true that I do think, there are five reasons we should drink: Good wine -- a friend -- or ... HENRY ALDRICH Every high school and college graduate in America should, I think, have some familiarity with statis... NICHOLAS KRISTOF I think there should be very strict limits on the pathogens that can be sold in your meat. There sho... ERIC SCHLOSSER I think a child should be allowed to take his father's or mother's name at will on coming of age. Pa... JAMES JOYCE They should invent some way to tape-record your dreams. I've written songs in my dreams that wer... ALICE COOPER This country isn't a melting pot. Think of this country as a stir fry. That's what this coun... JANE ELLIOTT I think journalism anywhere should be based on social justice and impartiality, making contributions... JUDY POLUMBAUM Kid's books should be just as good as any other books. No. They should be held to a *higher* standar... PATRICK ROTHFUSS I think everything should be in verse. 'The New York Times' should be in verse. DAVID IVES No, I don't know that atheists should be considered as citizens, nor should they be considered as pa... GEORGE BUSH I like to think I play rugby as it should be played - there are no yellow or red cards in my collect... JONNY WILKINSON Pedestrians should be aware they are more liable to be killed or injured, not motorists. LUDWIG P. GAINES I think, as women, we have to stop being scared to be the women we want to be and we have to raise o... JADA PINKETT SMITH More than any woman I ever knew, she comforted.' -Mrs. Huxley about Emma DEBORAH HEILIGMAN That's silly,' said Martha. 'Friends should always tell each other the truth. JAMES MARSHALL Kindness is the essence of greatness and the fundamental characteristic of the noblest men and women... JOSEPH B. WIRTHLIN In this long eternal quest to be more like our Savior, may we try to be “perfect” men and women ... JEFFREY R. HOLLAND And we learned that you don't have to be famous or rich or physically healthy to be a leader. You ju... JOAN BAUER There is no tomorrow to remember if we don’t do something today, and to live most fully today, we ... THOMAS S. MONSON Beauty—real everlasting beauty—lives not on our faces, but in our attitude and our actions. It l... JUSTINA CHEN
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JULIEANNE O'CONNOR There will be a time when love is beautiful and passionate and nothing else will exist but you and t... JULIEANNE O'CONNOR Where you come from is gone, where you thought you were going to was never there, and where you are ... FLANNERY O'CONNOR Once the soul awakens, the search begins and you can never go back. From then on, you are inflamed w... JOHN O'DONOHUE [I suspect] that in the drive toward the liberal universalist notion of human rights that characteri... DARREN O'DONNELL All the possibilities of your human destiny are asleep in your soul. You are here to realize and hon... JOHN O'DONOHUE If you are different from the rest of the flock, they bite you VINCENT O'SULLIVAN We do not need to grieve for the dead. Why should we grieve for them? They are now in a place where ... JOHN O'DONOHUE To love without ownership, to love with total trust and faith in that very love, to love with the sa... JULIEANNE O'CONNOR My feeling on the subject of sex with a man is - don't give it up unless you're willing to give him ... JULIEANNE O'CONNOR Life is surreal. When you step back and really take a look at it, the irony is absolute. JULIEANNE O'CONNOR Ladies, you have a ton of power if you just understand the fundamental differences between men and w... JULIEANNE O'CONNOR When it was dark, you always carried the sun in your hand for me. SEáN O'CASEY You cannot borrow half of who you are from someone else, yet people try to do it all of the time, th... JENNIFER O'NEILL For Equilibrium, a Blessing: Like the joy of the sea coming home to shore, May the relief ... JOHN O'DONOHUE Sometimes, when people speak, I cease listening to their words and zoom in instead on the cadence, a... ROSIE O'DONNELL It was a great mistake, my being born a man, I would have been much more successful as a seagull or ... EUGENE O'NEILL It could be a meeting on the street, or a party or a lecture, or just a simple, banal introduction, ... JOHN O'DONOHUE The world rests in the night. Trees, mountains, fields, and faces are released from the prison of sh... JOHN O'DONOHUE Your noble friend will not accept pretension but will gently and very firmly confront you with your ... JOHN O'DONOHUE The ego is the false self-born out of fear and defensiveness. JOHN O'DONOHUE If you try to view yourself through the lenses that others offer you, all you will see are distortio... JOHN O'DONOHUE Love allows understanding to dawn, and understanding is precious. Where you are understood, you are ... JOHN O'DONOHUE We do not need to go out and find love; rather, we need to be still and let love discover us. JOHN O'DONOHUE Beauty is the illumination of your soul. JOHN O'DONOHUE Real friendship or love is not manufactured or achieved by an act of will or intention. Friendship i... JOHN O'DONOHUE When love awakens in your life, in the night of your heart, it is like the dawn breaking within you.... JOHN O'DONOHUE No one else has access to the world you carry around within yourself; you are its custodian and entr... JOHN O'DONOHUE Your beloved and your friends were once strangers. Somehow at a particular time, they came from the ... JOHN O'DONOHUE Your soul knows the geography of your destiny. Your soul alone has the map of your future, therefore... JOHN O'DONOHUE If you send out goodness from yourself, or if you share that which is happy or good within you, it w... JOHN O'DONOHUE Every friendship travels at sometime through the black valley of despair. This tests every aspect of... JOHN O'DONOHUE All you can ever achieve is a sense of your soul. You gain little glimpses of its light, colors, and... JOHN O'DONOHUE You are as young as you feel. If you begin to feel the warmth of your soul, there will be a youthful... JOHN O'DONOHUE Behind your image, below your words, above your thoughts, the silence of another world waits. JOHN O'DONOHUE You are like nobody since I love you" -Pablo Neruda This art of love discloses the ... JOHN O'DONOHUE Real intimacy is a sacred experience. It never exposes its secret trust and belonging to the voyeuri... JOHN O'DONOHUE