For every group, malevolence is always somewhere else. Maybe we understand at this point in history that it can occur at night in darkened rooms where small children sleep. However, surely not in academia. Surely lying and deception do not occur among people who go to conferences, who write books, who testify in court, and who have PhDs.
At one point I complained to a Florida judge that I was astonished to an expert witness lying on the stand [about child sexual abuse research]. I thought one had to tell the truth in court. I thought if someone didn't, she didn't get her milk and cookies. I thought God came down and plucked someone right out of the witness stand if he lied in court. I thought a lying expert witness would step out of court and get hit by a bus. A wiser woman than I, the judge's answer was, “Silly you."

Confessions of a Whistle-Blower: Lessons Learned Author: Anna C. Salter. Ethics & Behavior, Volume 8, Issue 2 June 1998


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You will find that it is necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are heavy. So l...
C. JOYBELL C.
I can't decide whether I'm a good girl wrapped up in a bad girl, or if I'm a bad girl wrapped up in ...
C. JOYBELL C.
When you look for a man- what you want to look for is a man with the heart of a poor boy and the min...
C. JOYBELL C.
Don’t hate people who show you what’s wrong with you. They are your mirror, they are your true f...
C. JOYBELL C.
There are still some wonderful people left in this world! They are diamonds in the rough, but they'r...
C. JOYBELL C.
I think that we are like stars. Something happens to burst us open; but when we burst open and think...
C. JOYBELL C.
Anger is like flowing water; there's nothing wrong with it as long as you let it flow. Hate is like ...
C. JOYBELL C.
Our bodies have five senses: touch, smell, taste, sight, hearing. But not to be overlooked are the s...
C. JOYBELL C.
I cannot have a man who is afraid of everything, I don't have the time to soothe insecurities and fe...
C. JOYBELL C.
Humanity does not suffer from the disease of wrong beliefs but humanity suffers from the contagious ...
C. JOYBELL C.
I have realized; it is during the times I am far outside my element that I experience myself the mos...
C. JOYBELL C.
When I was little and running on the race track at school, I always stopped and waited for all the o...
C. JOYBELL C.
There are people who are generic. They make generic responses and they expect generic answers. They ...
C. JOYBELL C.
Growing up means learning what life is. When you're little, you have a set of ideals, standards, cri...
C. JOYBELL C.
The person in life that you will always be with the most, is yourself. Because even when you are wit...
C. JOYBELL C.
I'm unpredictable, I never know where I'm going until I get there, I'm so random, I'm always growing...
C. JOYBELL C.
The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I'm not going to let myself pull me down anymore...
C. JOYBELL C.
No, I am not bitter, I am not hateful, and I am not unforgiving. I just don't like you.
C. JOYBELL C.
And I told him, I said: "One day you're going to miss the subway because it's not going to come. One...
C. JOYBELL C.
Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people canno...
C. JOYBELL C.
Let the ideas clash but not the hearts.
C. C. MEHTA
Do not yearn to be popular; be exquisite. Do not desire to be famous; be loved. Do not take pride in...
C. JOYBELL C.
The difference between my darkness and your darkness is that I can look at my own badness in the fac...
C. JOYBELL C.
The only problem with her is that she is too perfect. She is bad in a way that entices, and good in ...
C. JOYBELL C.
People can have their opinions about everything in the world, but people's opinions end where the ti...
C. JOYBELL C.
The best love in the world, is the love of a man. The love of a man who came from your womb, the lov...
C. JOYBELL C.
There is danger when a man throws his tongue into high gear before he gets his brain a-going.
C. C. PHELPS
I don't fit into any stereotypes. And I like myself that way.
C. JOYBELL C.
The real thing that keeps men and women apart, is fear. Women blame men and men blame women, but the...
C. JOYBELL C.
Be careful not to mistake insecurity and inadequacy for humility! Humility has nothing to do with th...
C. JOYBELL C.
Peace is the number one beautiful ornament you can wear, I really believe that. They say you should ...
C. JOYBELL C.
Elegance is a glowing inner peace. Grace is an ability to give as well as to receive and be thankful...
C. JOYBELL C.
I am a person. I am not always happy 24 hours a day, 7 days a week; sometimes I feel sad, sometimes ...
C. JOYBELL C.
A bitch always smokes." He looks back at Lucy. "A bitch is the opposite of a whore. A bitch doesn't ...
C. JOYBELL C.
Acceptance" is a very important word in our lives. People drive themselves into madness and death th...
C. JOYBELL C.
Las personas más infelices en este mundo, son aquellas a las que más les importa la opinión de ot...
C. JOYBELL C.
Who we are is who we ACTUALLY are. It's never who we create in order for people to see. You might re...
C. JOYBELL C.
I think the reason why people's relationships fail, really, is due to the fact that people are alway...
C. JOYBELL C.
I see myself as a Scottish sky: there are rain clouds, rainbows and sunrays that run and overtake on...
C. JOYBELL C.
The reason why human beings fail to create real connections with others, is due to the fact that the...
C. JOYBELL C.
I am a broken person. And I know exactly where my cracks are and how deep they run. I don't pretend ...
C. JOYBELL C.
Go in the direction of where your peace is coming from.
C. JOYBELL C.
What if you could pick one day of your life, and everything would stop changing, every day would be ...
C. JOYBELL C.
A fine giornata ci sono poche persone intorno a voi che vogliono veramente vedervi sereni, felici e ...
C. JOYBELL C.
Please do not break your heart over the withering of a dream you once held, that never became yours!...
C. JOYBELL C.
Today, young girls measure the quality of their beauty based upon its entertainment value. The more ...
C. JOYBELL C.
Writing, music, sculpting, painting, and prayer! These are the three things that are most closely re...
C. JOYBELL C.
Flowers that are offered for the dead, do not know the difference of where their beauty will be plac...
C. JOYBELL C.
Beauty without grace is like a fish far displaced from the water and looking at this kind of beauty ...
C. JOYBELL C.
I really feel sorry for the many men who are surrounded by people who flatter them all the time. In ...
C. JOYBELL C.
At the end of the day, there are very few people around you who truly want to see you peaceful, happ...
C. JOYBELL C.
No, this is not the beginning of a new chapter in my life; this is the beginning of a new book! That...
C. JOYBELL C.
You can be the most beautiful person in the world and everybody sees light and rainbows when they lo...
C. JOYBELL C.
I believe in women uplifting other women. The only thing that makes our gender weaker, is the fact t...
C. JOYBELL C.
I find it odd- the greed of mankind. People only like you for as long as they perceive they can get ...
C. JOYBELL C.
My spirit is healthy, yes. But I tell you, my flesh is healthy too. I am enlightened and free, but I...
C. JOYBELL C.
Life is not compassionate towards victims. The trick is not to see yourself as one. It's never too l...
C. JOYBELL C.
‎"You shouldn't feel so bad about being afraid of so many things." "Why not?" "Because if you were...
C. JOYBELL C.
I don't know why people are afraid of lust. Then I can imagine that they are very afraid of me, for ...
C. JOYBELL C.
God is colourblind. But we are not God. God does not need to see colour and difference. God is far b...
C. JOYBELL C.
It is only when you accept how different you all are, that you will be able to see how much the same...
C. JOYBELL C.
It is when we think we can act like God, that all respect is lost, and I think this is the downfall ...
C. JOYBELL C.
I think the reason why I don't read so much, is because as I have observed, whole books all boil dow...
C. JOYBELL C.