W. H. Auden quote: "What people don't realize is that intimacy has its conventions as well as ordinary social intercourse. There are three cardinal rules -- don't take somebody else's boyfriend unless you've been specifically invited to do so, don't take a drink without being asked, and keep a scrupulous accounting in financial matters."

Perhaps there is only one cardinal sin: impatience. Because of impatience we were driven out of Para...
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May it not be that, just as we have to have faith in Him, God has to have faith in us and, consideri...
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All that we are not stares back at what we are.
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A poet can write about a man slaying a dragon, but not about a man pushing a button that releases a ...
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To save your world you asked this man to die; would this man, could he see you now, ask why?
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You owe it to all of us all get on with what you're good at.
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In relation to a writer, most readers believe in the Double Standard: they may be unfaithful to him ...
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'Healing,' Papa would tell me, 'is not a science, but the intuitive art of wooing nature...
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Art is born of humiliation.
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Good can imagine Evil; but Evil cannot imagine Good.
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In times of joy, all of us wished we possessed a tail we could wag.
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Death is the sound of distant thunder at a picnic.
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What the mass media offers is not popular art, but entertainment which is intended to be consumed li...
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If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving be me.
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The ear tends to be lazy, craves the familiar and is shocked by the unexpected; the eye, on the othe...
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Among those whom I like or admire, I can find no common denominator, but among those whom I love, I ...
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In those whom I like, I can find no common denominator; in those whom I love I can: they all make me...
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Continuing a short series on forgiveness: Tout comprendre, c'est tout pardonner. ("To know all i...
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All theological language is necessarily analogical, but it was singularly unfortunate that the Churc...
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Commemoration of Cecile Isherwood, Founder of the Community of the Resurrection, Grahamstown, South ...
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All sins tend to be addictive, and the terminal point of addiction is damnation.
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Perhaps there is only one cardinal sin: impatience. Because of impatience we were driven out of Par...
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Evil is unspectacular and always human, and shares our bed and eats at our own table.
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Proper names are poetry in the raw. Like all poetry they are untranslatable.
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We are here on earth to do good to others. What the others are here for, I don't know.
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A tremendous number of people in America work very hard at something that bores them. Even a rich ma...
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Like everything which is not the involuntary result of fleeting emotion but the creation of time and...
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Eagerly, musician,Sweep your string,So we may sing,Elated, optative,Our several voicesInterblending,...
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The words of a dead man are modified in the guts of the living.
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The ear tends to be lazy, craves the familiar, and is shocked by the unexpected; the eye, on the oth...
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You have to see the sex act comically, as a child.
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We are here on earth to do good to others. What the others are here for, I don't know.
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You know there are no secrets in America. It's quite different in England, where people think of a s...
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When I find myself in the company of scientists, I feel like a shabby curate who has strayed by mist...
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In a land which is fully settled, most men must accept their local environment or try to change it b...
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A man has his distinctive personal scent which his wife, his children and his dog can recognize. A c...
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Slavery is so intolerable a condition that the slave can hardly escape deluding himself into thinkin...
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Precisely because we do not communicate by singing, a song can be out of place but not out of charac...
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It is already possible to imagine a society in which the majority of the population, that is to say,...
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Choice of attention - to pay attention to this and ignore that - is to the inner life ...
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Dogmatic theological statements are neither logical propositions nor poetic utterances. They are sha...
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A real book is not one that we read, but one that reads us.
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Some books are undeservedly forgotten; none are undeservedly remembered.
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America has always been a country of amateurs where the professional, that is to say, the man who cl...
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To pray is to pay attention to something or someone other than oneself. Whenever a man so concentrat...
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There's only one good test of pornography. Get twelve normal men to read the book, and then ask them...
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The belief that politics can be scientific must inevitably produce tyrannies. Politics cannot be a s...
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My deepest feeling about politicians is that they are dangerous lunatics to be avoided when possible...
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Drama is based on the Mistake. I think someone is my friend when he really is my enemy, that I am fr...
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A professor is one who talks in someone else's sleep.
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It takes little talent to see clearly what lies under one's nose, a good deal of it to know in which...
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Anyone who has a child today should train him to be either a physicist or a ballet dancer. Then he'l...
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Thousands have lived without love, not one without water.
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Narcissus does not fall in love with his reflection because it is beautiful, but because it is his. ...
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We must love one another or die.
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We are not commanded (or forbidden) to love our mates, our children, our friends, our country becaus...
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A false enchantment can all too easily last a lifetime.
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In order that people may be happy in their work, these three things are needed: They must be fit for...
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A tremendous number of people in America work very hard at something that bores them. Even a rich ma...
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The center that I cannot find is known to my unconscious mind.
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Left to itself the masculine imagination has very little appreciation for the here and now; it prefe...
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The masculine imagination lives in a state of perpetual revolt against the limitations of human life...
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How happy the lot of the mathematician! He is judged solely by his peers, and the standard is so hig...
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Of course, behaviorism works. So does torture. Give me a no-nonsense, down-to-earth behaviorist, a f...
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Evil is unspectacular and always human, and shares our bed and eats at our own table.
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I and the public know
What all schoolchildren learn,
Those to whom evil is done
Do evil in...
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To the man-in-the-street, who, I'm sorry to say, is a keen observer of life. The word Intellectual s...
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Proper names are poetry in the raw. Like all poetry they are untranslatable.
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Among those whom I like or admire, I can find no common denominator, but among those whom I love, I ...
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No good opera plot can be sensible, for people do not sing when they are feeling sensible.
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If music in general is an imitation of history, opera in particular is an imitation of human willful...
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The only way to spend New Year's Eve is either quietly with friends or in a brothel. Otherwise when ...
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A verbal art like poetry is reflective; it stops to think. Music is immediate, it goes on to become.
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Murder is unique in that it abolishes the party it injures, so that society has to take the place of...
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It's frightening how easy it is to commit murder in America. Just a drink too much. I can see myself...
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A doctor, like anyone else who has to deal with human beings, each of them unique, cannot be a scien...
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Between friends differences in taste or opinion are irritating in direct proportion to their trivial...
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God is Love, we are taught as children to believe. But when we first begin to get some inkling of ho...
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Geniuses are the luckiest of mortals because what they must do is the same as what they most want to...
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No human being is innocent, but there is a class of innocent human actions called Games.
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Funeral Blues

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Literary confessors are contemptible, like beggars who exhibit their sores for money, but not so con...
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One cannot walk through an assembly factory and not feel that one is in Hell.
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Healing, Papa would tell me, is not a science, but the intuitive art of wooing nature.
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And none will hear the postman's knock
Without a quickening of the heart.
For who can bear to ...
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Every autobiography is concerned with two characters, a Don Quixote, the Ego, and a Sancho Panza, th...
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All poets adore explosions, thunderstorms, tornadoes, conflagrations, ruins, scenes of spectacular c...
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It is... axiomatic that we should all think of ourselves as being more sensitive than other people b...
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Fame often makes a writer vain, but seldom makes him proud.
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May it not be that, just as we have to have faith in Him, God has to have faith in us and, consideri...
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My face looks like a wedding-cake left out in the rain.
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Every European visitor to the United States is struck by the comparative rarity of what he would cal...
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Aphorisms are essentially an aristocratic genre of writing. The aphorist does not argue or explain, ...
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The countenances of children, like those of animals, are masks, not faces, for they have not yet dev...
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Nobody knows what the cause is, though some pretend they do; it like some hidden assassin waiting to...
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Cancer is a curious thing...
Nobody knows what the cause is,
Though some pretend they do;
I...
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I cannot accept the doctrine that in poetry there is a suspension of belief. A poet must never make ...
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It is a sad fact about our culture that a poet can earn much more money writing or talking about his...
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Poetry makes nothing happen. It survives in the valley of its saying.
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Rhymes, meters, stanza forms, etc., are like servants. If the master is fair enough to win their aff...
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As a poet there is only one political duty, and that is to defend one's language against corruption....
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You must go to bed with friends or whores, where money makes up the difference in beauty or desire.
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Almost all of our relationships begin and most of them continue as forms of mutual exploitation, a m...
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A daydream is a meal at which images are eaten. Some of us are gourmets, some gourmands, and a good ...
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But in seven weeks it was done, the frontiers decided.
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If the most significant characteristic of man is the complex of biological needs he shares with all ...
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Some writers confuse authenticity, which they ought always to aim at, with originality, which they s...
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No poet or novelist wishes he were the only one who ever lived, but most of them wish they were the ...
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The Americans are violently oral. That's why in America the mother is all-important and the father h...
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God bless the USA, so large, so friendly, and so rich.
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The actors today really need the whip hand. They're so lazy. They haven't got the sense of pride in ...
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The critical opinions of a writer should always be taken with a large grain of salt. For the most pa...
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Criticism should be a casual conversation.
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All works of art are commissioned in the sense that no artist can create one by a simple act of will...
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Now is the age of anxiety.
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The ear tends to be lazy, craves the familiar, and is shocked by the unexpected: the eye, on the ot...
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A professor is one who talks in someone else's sleep.
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It takes little talent to see clearly what lies under one's nose, a good deal of it to know in whi...
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Perhaps there is only one cardinal sin: impatience. Because of impatience we were driven out of Pa...
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One cannot review a bad book without showing off.
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A poet's hope: to be,
like some valley cheese,
local, but prized elsewhere.
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All sins tend to be addictive, and the terminal point of addiction is damnation.
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I'll love you, dear, I'll love you till China and Africa meet and the river jumps over the m...
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We all have these places where shy humiliations gambol on sunny afternoons.
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We are all here on earth to help others; what on earth the others are here for I don't know.
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A poet is, before anything else, a person who is passionately in love with language.
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The class distinctions proper to a democratic society are not those of rank or money, still less, as...
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History is, strictly speaking, the study of questions; the study of answers belongs to anthropology ...
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When I am in the company of scientists, I feel like a shabby curate who has strayed by mistake into ...
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He was my North, my South, my East and West, My working week and Sunday rest, My noon, my midnight, ...
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Perhaps there is only one cardinal sin: impatience. Because of impatience we were driven out of Pa...
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To save your world you asked this man to die;
Would this man, could he see you now, ask why?
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No opera plot can be sensible, for people do not sing when they are feeling sensible.
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False enchantment can last a lifetime.
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Evil is unspectacular and always human,
And shares our bed and eats at our own table.
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When the Sex War ended with the slaughter of the Grandmothers, / They found a bachelor's baby suffoc...
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Men will pay large sums to whores for telling them they are not bores
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'Healing,'' Papa would tell me, ''is not a science, but the intuitive art of wooing nature.'
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Embrace me, belly, like a bride.
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Murder is commoner among cooks than among members of any other profession
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O for doors to be open and an invite with gilded edges / To dine with Lord Lobcock and Count Asthma.
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I sit in one of the dives On Fifty-Second Street Uncertain and afraid As the clever hopes expire Of ...
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It takes little talent to see what lies under one's nose, a good deal to know in what direction ...
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The nightingales are sobbing in / The orchards of our mothers, / And hearts that we broke long ago /...
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The image of myself which I try to create in my own mind in order that I may love myself is very dif...
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If time were the wicked sheriff in a horse opera, I'd pay for riding lessons and take his gun away.
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If there are any of you at the back who do not hear me, please don't raise your hands because I am a...
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Sob, heavy world Sob as you spin, Mantled in mist Remote from the happy.
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Look, stranger, at this island now / The leaping light for your delight discovers.
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Before people complain of the obscurity of modern poetry, they should first examine their conscience...
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Hemingway is terribly limited. His technique is good for short stories, for people who meet once in ...
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Good can imagine Evil; but Evil cannot imagine Good
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lay your faithless head upon my arm
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Now Ireland has her madness and her weather still, For poetry makes nothing happen
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I'll love you, dear, I'll love you till China and Africa meet and the river jumps over the mountain ...
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Hunger allows no choice, To the citizens or the police; We must love one another or die
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Among those whom I like or admire, I can find no common denominator; but among those whom I love, I ...
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Five minutes on even the nicest mountain / Is awfully long.
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The ear tends to be lazy, craves the familiar, and is shocked by the unexpected: the eye, on the oth...
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'In headaches and in worry Vaguely life leaks away,And Time will have his fancy To-morrow or to-day.
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Sob, heavy world Sob as you spin, Mantled in mist Remote from the happy
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A doctor, like anyone else who has to deal with human beings, each of them unique, cannot be a scien...
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But in my arms till break of dayLet the living creature lie,Mortal, guilty, but to meThe entirely be...
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Dogmatic theological statements are neither logical propositions nor poetic utterances. They are ''s...
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All sin tends to be addictive, and the terminal point of addiction is what is called damnation
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If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving be me
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A professor is one who talks in someone else's sleep
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No hero is immortal till he dies
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Let mortals beware of wordsFor with words we lieCan speak peaceWhen we mean warBut song is trueLet m...
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A poet can write about a man slaying a dragon, but not about a man pushing a button that releases a ...
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All that we are not stares back at what we are
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. . . see without looking, . . . hear without listening, . . . breathe without asking.
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Private faces in public places / Are wiser and nicer / Than public faces in private places.
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Alone, alone, about the dreadful wood / Of conscious evil runs a lost mankind, / Dreading to find it...
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Though I believe it sinful to be queer, it has at least saved me from becoming a pillar of the estab...
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Within these breakwaters English is spoken; without / Is the immense, improbable atlas.
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Our researchers into Public Opinion are content/ That he held the proper opinions for the time of ye...
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Before people complain of the obscurity of modern poetry, they should first examine their conscience...
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A poet is a professional maker of verbal objects.
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I know nothing, except what everyone knows – if there when Graces dances, I should dance.
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Of all possible subjects, travel is the most difficult for an artist, as it is the easiest for a jou...
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We are all here on earth to help others; what on earth the others are here for I don't know
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Music is the best means we have of digesting time.
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We would rather be ruined than changed, We would rather die in our dread than climb the cross of the...
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Health is the state about which medicine has nothing to say
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Choice of attention - to pay attention to this and ignore that - is to the inner life what choice of...
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Even the dreadful martyrdom must run its course Anyhow in a corner, some untidy spot Where the dogs ...
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But all the clocks in the city Began to whirr and chime:'O let not Time deceive you, You cannot conq...
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It's usually the stupid people that develop long illnesses. You need more than indolence and selfish...
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Pleasure is by no means an infallible guide, but it is the least fallible.
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Poor Poe! At first so forgotten that his grave went without a tomb-stone twenty-six years. . . today...
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Thou shalt not sit With statisticians nor commit A social science
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In the nightmare of the dark - All the dogs of Europe bark, And the living nations wait, Each seques...
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Poetry is the clear expression of mixed feelings.
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When it comes, will it come without warning/ Just as I'm picking my nose?/ Will it knock on my door ...
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Yet no one hears his own remarks as prose.
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If music in general is an imitation of history, opera in particular is an imitation of human willful...
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All works of art are commissioned in the sense that no artist can create one by a simple act of will...
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Few writers have had less journalistic talent than James, and this is his defect, for the supreme ma...
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For who can bear to feel himself forgotten?
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