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ROZONDA THOMAS The trouble when you're doing something illegal is that you know what you're doing. You'... TOMMY CHONG When you're in your early 20s, you go ahead and do everything. And it's very hard to judge y... IAN MCSHANE Doing a kid's movie is fun when you have kids. You don't want to do kids' movies if you ... LARRY THE CABLE GUY I think you learn how to fall well when you're figure skating. Your reflexes are very acute. JUD TYLOR Do something because you really want to do it. If you're doing it just for the goal and don'... KALPANA CHAWLA You can't hold back. You can't think of the subtleties of playing. You just have to get out ... MALCOLM MCDOWELL You have to be careful not to let your fear stop you doing things. It's very exciting to test yo... FRANCESCA ANNIS You cheat yourself when you don't do what it is you're supposed to do. You have an obligatio... MARLA GIBBS I think every girl needs to love herself, regardless of anything. Like if you're having a bad da... JULIANNE HOUGH You have to free your mind to do things you wouldn't think of doing. Don't ever say no. CARL LEWIS I think it's important to keep your personal life to yourself as much as you can. It protects yo... DIANNA AGRON It's so easy to fall into a comfortable groove in life where you do the things that you like, an... FLEA When you're out of your own cultural context you have conversations with yourself that you just ... DAVID MITCHELL There is a moment when you get older when your metabolism slows down and you don't feel like wor... JANET JACKSON When you're doing a job, you go out there and do it to the best of your ability and you don'... MICHELLE FAIRLEY I think it's very important to have a feedback loop, where you're constantly thinking about ... ELON MUSK You get to a point where you have to start planning, when you cross that line where you have enough ... CHRIS PRATT When you're taking a fence on a horse, you don't think much; your body does all the thinking... PATRICK O'BRIAN When you're heartbroken, you're at your most creative - you have to channel all your energie... FLORENCE WELCH Your ears love to hear, so speak to it SOTONYE ANGA When you don't feel healthy, stop the excuses and do something. Just go outside, walk, breathe. ... JESSICA STROUP Singing for stage, if you don't hear yourself, that's when you push, and that's when you... AARON TVEIT You can never control who you fall in love with, even when you're in the most sad, confused time... KIRSTEN DUNST It's easy when you're working together to let work things overtake your life, when all you... ST. LUCIA I feel like when you're in your late teens and early 20s, you just don't think about certain... ST. LUCIA When you're young you don't think, 'This person is going to change your life.' But w... FEFE DOBSON If you're suddenly doing something you don't want to do for four years, just so you've g... EWAN MCGREGOR I think it's a very dangerous game to play when you assume that just because someone's an en... WENTWORTH MILLER I think when things get hard with your family, it's really easy to want to isolate yourself. The... DOVE CAMERON It's important to raise your voice in things you feel passionate about and things that you know ... ZENDAYA It's easy to love yourself when you feel good enough, when you feel special enough, when you'... DEBBIE FORD I'm very active when I'm not pregnant, but I think fitness should be a natural part of your ... JESSICA CAPSHAW I think privacy is valuable. You don't have to share everything, and it's healthy to occasio... ASHTON KUTCHER Don't be afraid to fail. You're going to go on a million auditions, and most of them you won... IKE BARINHOLTZ When you're insecure about your technique, you close yourself off. Your shoulders tighten. The f... MARCELLO GIORDANI I just think that you have to believe in yourself and you have to work very hard. 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CARL LEWIS When you're a guest star on a movie or a TV show, I always say it's like being invited to a ... ATO ESSANDOH Things don't have to come to you in your youth. It's fine for them to come to you when you g... MIRANDA HART You love the game, but it's hard to do the things you do when you're feeling like you're... CALVIN JOHNSON Lead yourself whenever your boss' leadership deteriorates. When your boss doesn't praise wha... MARIO TEGUH Sometimes there's a sense of closing yourself off on a shoot, and I try not to do that. Sometime... BRUCE WEBER You know, there's nothing you can do about your public image. It is what it is. I just try to do... CHRISTOPHER WALKEN I'm very organized - and the best thing - when you love your work, you don't mind putting in... ADRIANA TRIGIANI Don't be afraid to be awesome. Sometimes being weird and different is good. When you think you... 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AVA DUVERNAY You have to be the one promoting yourself. If you don't think that you're worthy, you're... MISTY COPELAND Life is where you're at. Whatever you're doing is enough. You don't need to do everythin... CINDY CRAWFORD I feel that as long as you're honest, you have the opportunity to grow. It's when you shut d... TRACY MCMILLAN Long-time viewing of Internet violence tend to change a person's temperament, making the person pron... YOU QUANXI If positive and healthy materials are absent, negative materials are sure to be dominant in the cybe... YOU QUANXI In a robust global business environment, our business units operated well in the first quarter. More... HARRY YOU The Board of Directors and I are pleased to recognize Peter's outstanding contribution to the succes... HARRY YOU We are pleased to close the books on 2004 following the painstaking review of almost five years of f... HARRY YOU You just have to get rid of fear and confront the world. 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