A diva is someone who pretends to know who she is and looks fabulous doing it.

But a true diva has dismissed that drama. A true diva's heart is open, and she's ready to play by her own rules - rules that are gentle and kind.

A grandmother pretends she doesn't know who you are on Halloween.

I had not starred in an independent film and it's about a woman who owned a hair salon.

You think you can go into all those auditions not knowing who you are? The work came after I found my sense of self - when I wasn't so manic and desperate.

I still go to a salon where a gal does my hair, and I don't know if it's because I'm a celebrity but by the time I leave there, we are eating chicken and talking and screaming.