Action, reaction, motivation, emotion, all have to come from the characters. Writing a love scene requires the same elements from the writer as any other.

If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. If you don't step forward, you're always in the same place.

You can fix anything but a blank page.

Good fiction creates its own reality.

I can fix a bad page. I can't fix a blank page.

Aren't most romance heros, or heros in fiction of any kind, generally superior to real men? Same goes for heroines and real women.