African-Americans assume I'm named after the notorious Soledad prison or Mount Soledad in California. Latinos want to know if I'm lonely. That doesn't fit, because I grew up with five siblings, and I have four kids of my own, so I'm not lonely at all, though I do often seek solitude, the actual meaning of my name.

No Government has the moral authority to dismantle the universally understood meaning of marriage.

You know, I Google search my own name because I'm so self-obsessed!

Show Me The Meaning Of Being Lonely,

I would say I'm black because my parents said I'm black. I'm black because my mother's black. I'm black because I grew up in a family of all black people. I knew I was black because I grew up in an all-white neighborhood. And my parents, as part of their protective mechanisms that they were going to give to us, made it very clear what we were.

When I need to know the meaning of a word, I look it up in a dictionary.