All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on.

Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go.

Sometimes the strongest thing you will ever do will be to let go of someone. It will be painful, you will suffer guilt, and you will second-guess yourself, but for your own sanity and quality of life, there will come a time where you hand them to God, with your love, and trust Him to be who and what He is. May our Lord comfort you.

Stop holding-on to the wrong people. Let them go on their own way; if not for you, then for them.

Holding on when we should let go only causes more distractions and/or pain.

Your problem is you're... too busy holding onto your unworthiness.