And at 19, you think you rule the world, and you can control things. And a lot of times, you don't.

There are a lot of things that you don't realize that your parents are going through when you're a kid.

Well, my mom taught public school music for almost 40 years. And she's about 5 feet - and very mighty. And she would control her kids a lot by giving them the eye, or the stare.

A lot of times when you play... you get this adrenalin that blocks pain.

I think there's a time to work, and everyone has to kind of adjust. And then there's a time to relax, and be the mom or take the kids on vacation when you need to wind down. So it's a matter of planning, and being able to map out your year or your week or let's start with the day. It is just being multi-tasking and being available.

At 20, you're cocky and you think you can rule the world, and you get it all wrong.