Be bold in pursuing what others believe is unrealistic because this will achieve more than being bland and unimaginative.

Don't compete with other girls, complete goals.

Do not be obsessed with expensive things.
Instead, be obsessed with excellence.
Things don't make you excellent.
However, excellence will make you expensive.

Telling people what to do is showmanship.
Showing people how to do it is leadership.

Goals and dreams are not purposed to please others. I'd rather be the jester who adds value to those around me than a King with no vision or intention of making a difference.

Don't let people intimidate you into downgrading your goals. They intimidate only because they are intimidated by your goals.