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Blessed with riches and possibilities far beyond anything imagined by ancestors who tilled the unpredictable soil of medieval Europe, modern populations have nonetheless shown a remarkable capacity to feel that neither who they are nor what they have is quite enough.


Alain de Botton

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HODDING CARTER We are humiliated by what is powerful and mean, but awed by what is powerful and noble.
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ALAIN DE BOTTON Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure,...
THEODORE ROOSEVELT Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure, t...
THEODORE ROOSEVELT [They] agreed that it was neither possible nor necessary to educate people who never questioned anyt...
JOSEPH HELLER I have never met a man who refuses to be blessed by God. I have met many people who are not in capac...
RIAAN VAN WYK Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure t...
THEODORE ROOSEVELT Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, ...
THEODORE ROOSEVELT Neither have they hearts to stay, nor wit enough to run away.
SAMUEL BUTLER Neither have they hearts to stay. Nor wit enough to run away.
SAMUEL BUTLER Complacency is not on our agenda. It is certainly not our biggest danger. My players have worked ver...
STEVE COPPELL These people have no religion, neither are they idolaters, but are a very gentle race, without the k...
CHRISTOPHER COLUMBUS Who misses what they have never, ever even imagined?
N.K. JEMISIN However far modern science and techniques have fallen short of their inherent possibilities, they ha...
LEWIS MUMFORD However far modern science and techniques have fallen short of their inherent possibilities, they ha...
LEWIS MUMFORD There have been bombings by extremists, ... They are not representatives of Islam, they're not repre...
ED ZWICK Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure.....
THEODORE ROOSEVELT They who have reasoned ignorantly, or who have aimed at effecting their personal ends by flattering ...
JAMES FENIMORE COOPER They who have reasoned ignorantly, or who have aimed at effecting their personal ends by flattering ...
JAMES F. COOPER I dislike modern memoirs. They are generally written by people who have either entirely lost their m...
OSCAR WILDE There is neither this world nor the world beyond nor happiness for the one who doubts.
BHAGAVAD GITA Blessed are the weak who think that they are good because they have no claws.
BARUCH SPINOZA It is true that short forms of poetry have been cultivated in the Far East more than in modern Europ...
LAFCADIO HEARN You often love someone not for what they are, but for what you are when you are with them.
JEFFREY FRY We have listened to gays and lesbians describe painful rejections for an orientation they insist the...
DAVID CLARK I have neither curiosity, interest, pain nor pleasure, in anything, good or evil, they can say of me...
PERCY BYSSHE SHELLEY There are schools that would not have touched her. The medical field is not easy. Its quite intimida...
CLAUDE COLEMAN Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checked by failure...t...
THEODORE ROOSEVELT We should feel empowered by where we came from and who we are, not hide it. It is important to ackno...
LORIN MORGAN-RICHARDS Those who have the strength and the love to sit with a dying patient in the silence that goes beyond...
ELISABETH KUBLER-ROSS They who have reasoned ignorantly, or who have aimed at effecting their personal ends by flattering ...
JAMES F. COOPER There are persons who cannot make friends. Who are they? Those who cannot be friends. It is not the ...
WILLIAM HAZLITT Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, ...
THEODORE ROOSEVELT Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, ...
THEODORE ROOSEVELT Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure,...
THEODORE ROOSEVELT The most important lesson of American history is the promise of the unexpected. None of our ancestor...
DANIEL J. BOORSTIN And they who when they spend, are neither extravagant nor parsimonious, and (keep) between these the...
QURAN Blessed are they who have nothing to say and who cannot be persuaded to say it.
JAMES RUSSELL LOWELL The world does not need tourists who ride by in a bus clucking their tongues. The world as it is nee...
ROBERT FULGHUM And 'tis remarkable that they talk most who have the least to say.
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ROBERT MORGESTER I am rather disturbed by the fact that so many people—who are neither medical professionals nor tr...
JULIA SERANO The orthodox tend to think that people who, like the postmodernists and me, believe neither in God n...
RICHARD M. RORTY . . . and that sin and love and fear are just sounds that people who never sinned nor loved nor fear...
WILLIAM FAULKNER Those who chant are sanctified. All those who listen are blessed, and those who write save their anc...
SRI GURU GRANTH SAHIB Blessed are they that have nothing to say, and who cannot be persuaded to say it
JAMES RUSSELL LOWELL It is not Kafka's fault that his wonderful writings have lately turned into a fad, and are read ...
HERMAN HESSE Politics is the profession of those who have neither trade nor art.
MUHAMMAD HIJAZI What you do, say, and have reveal who you are.
LORRIN L. LEE After completing a Delaware State education, they were afforded opportunities beyond anything they m...
MICHAEL N. CASTLE 28. Feelings are neither right nor wrong. It's what you do with them that causes the problems.
JAMES C. DOBSON Evidently there are plenty of people in journalism who have neither got what they liked nor quite gr...
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ERIC HOFFER That man is prudent who neither hopes nor fears anything from the uncertain events of the future.
ANATOLE FRANCE That man is prudent who neither hopes nor fears anything from the uncertain events of the future.
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W. H. AUDEN Dogmatic theological statements are neither logical propositions nor poetic utterances. They are ''s...
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JOHN BRADSHAW It is important to know where you came from, what your roots are. You don't have to have ancestors r...
LILLIAN TRUJILLO The community which has neither poverty nor riches will always have the noblest principles.
PLATO One who neither hates the presence of enlightenment, activity, and delusion nor desires for them whe...
BHAGAVAD GITA Neither humans nor the Gods that they have created are superior to old Mother Nature.
ABHIJIT NASKAR Talent is able to achieve what is beyond other people's capacity to achieve, yet not what is beyond ...
ARTHUR SCHOPENHAUER It is true my friend, that you are paying the tax as well as losing your hair, but try to imagine a ...
DR HITESH C SHETH We have been very blessed with the people who have vacationed here and ... are so attached to the st...
BUZ PLYLER We have been very blessed with the people who have vacationed here and . . . are so attached to the ...
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GEORGE ORWELL Blessed are they who have the gift of making friends,for it is one of God's best gifts.
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TWYLA THARP There is nothing more dangerous than to build a society with a large segment of people in that socie...
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JECON B. NADELA Some have been to Iraq and others have heard what goes on there. Mainly, what they discuss is being ...
LEE ZASLOFSKY Flowers are restful to look at. They have neither emotions nor conflicts.
SIGMUND FREUD I feel a kinship with anyone who feels that their road, their life or who they really are is not goo...
BAZ LUHRMANN The problem most nonprofits have is that they are run by romantics who are great to hang out with, b...
MOHNISH PABRAI Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure ,...
THEODORE ROOSEVELT The capacity to give one's attention to a sufferer is a very rare and difficult thing; it is almost ...
SIMONE WEIL Those intellectuals are our natural enemies; the only kind who are worth anything are the musicians ...
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JANET KOLB Nor ,the food given by those who knowingly bear with paramours ,of their wives , and by those who in...
GURU NANAK We have a lot of people who have a substantial financial interest in the outcome, and the interests ...
MITT ROMNEY Next generations will not know what is to have childhood.
DANIEL MELGAçO Rulers, who neither see, nor feel, nor know, but leech-like to their fainting country cling, till th...
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BARBARA BROWN TAYLOR What a thing, Europe. Europe! The cultured Europe! We are the barbarians, the Indians, the blacks, t...
HUGO CHAVEZ Strangely enough, they have a mind to till the soil, and the love of possessions is a disease in the...
SITTING BULL We are blessed, ... Many people back in New Orleans, they don't have anything. We feel gratitude for...
ANNE MARIE Those who have been too long at their labor, who have drunk too long at the cup of voluptuousness, w...
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ALAIN DE BOTTON Even if our loved ones have assured us that they will be busy at work, even if they told us they hat...
ALAIN DE BOTTON You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneven...
ALAIN DE BOTTON What a peculiar civilisation this was: inordinately rich, yet inclined to accrue its wealth through ...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Despite the best efforts of critics and the hopes of authors, our tastes in books are probably as in...
ALAIN DE BOTTON We would like to go and see the field that Millet…shows us in his Springtime, we would like Claude...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Our feelings of anxiety are genuine but confused signals that something is amiss, and so need to be ...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude - not a punishment for maki...
ALAIN DE BOTTON It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we c...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Every fall into love involves the triumph of hope over self-knowledge. We fall in love hoping we won...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Nature puts us all in our places. Being made to feel small isn't something we welcome when it's done...
ALAIN DE BOTTON in Flaubert’s eyes, that only entirely illiterate and uneducated Frenchmen now stood a chance of b...
ALAIN DE BOTTON A clean conscience is the preserve of those without sufficient imagination.
ALAIN DE BOTTON In the past, Flaubert implied, idiots had had no clue as to what the carbon structure of diamonds wa...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
ALAIN DE BOTTON But we would do well to meditate daily, rather as the religious do on their God, on the 9.5 trillion...
ALAIN DE BOTTON To a shameful extent, the charm of marriage boils down to how unpleasant it is to be alone. This isn...
ALAIN DE BOTTON One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
ALAIN DE BOTTON What kills us isn't one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can't turn down for fear of ...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books written bec...
ALAIN DE BOTTON It is precisely when we hear little from our partner which frightens, shocks, or sickens us that we ...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Unrequited love may be painful, but it is safely painful, because it does not involve inflicting dam...
ALAIN DE BOTTON It's clear to me that there is no good reason for many philosophy books to sound as complicated as t...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Jarenlang kwam ik bij het boodschappen doen langs een huis dat weliswaar een van de lelijkste gebouw...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Snobbery exists in all areas of life, not least literary criticism. By snobbery I mean, any method o...
ALAIN BOTTON Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writer...
ALAIN BOTTON I passionately believe that's it's not just what you say that counts, it's also how you say it - tha...
ALAIN BOTTON I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day-to-day take on things. The bare fa...
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