Careless she is with artful care, / Affecting to seem unaffected.

Sleep she as sound as careless infancy

One of the most liberating notions is learning how many truly do not care about you, and moreover, how the few who do care about you, marvel at your indifference.

To complain is not to explain. To explain is to be plain; not pretentious and unaffected.

Tomorrow I shall be sixty-nine, but I do not seem to care. I did not start the affair, and I have not been consulted about it at any step.

Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, nor hell a fury like a woman scorned.