Changes bring on tension, but also give you the feeling that you are alive

They fear discovery of their 'fraudulence' and undertake too much work to compensate for their lack of self-esteem and identity.

The bonds of matrimony are like any other bonds - they mature slowly.

Police forces collect information to be used in a public court to get people convicted. Security services gather information that does not necessarily lead to people being prosecuted and in many cases needs to remain confidential.

The value of marriage is not that adults produce children, but that children produce adults.

You can make a sordid thing sound like a brilliant drawing-room comedy. Probably a fear we have of facing up to the real issues. Could you say we were guilty of Noel Cowardice?