DEAR MISS MANNERS: When does a gentleman offer his arm to a lady as they are walking down the street together? GENTLE READER: Strictly speaking, only when he can be practical assisstance to her. That is, when the way is steep, dark, crowded, or puddle-y. However, it is rather a cozy juxtapostion, less comprising than walking hand in hand, and rather enjoyable for people who are fond of each other, so Miss Manners allows some leeway in interpreting what is of practical assisstance. One wouldn't want a lady to feel unloved walking down the street, any more than one would want her to fall of the curb.
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JUDITH JAMISON I heard directly from my source that I should testify before the grand jury, JUDITH MILLER Obama's failure to close Guantanamo is yet another instance where the rhetoric of democratic and... JUDITH BUTLER I got that experience through dating dozens of men for six years after college, getting an entry lev... JUDITH KRANTZ If judged only by the results that challenge the laws of probabilities, then the power of prayer is ... JUDITH HAYES My mother was a huge, huge reader. I think I picked up very early how precious it was to write thing... JUDITH VIORST Some of his comments suggested insubordination on my part. I have always written the articles assign... JUDITH MILLER I started buying bits of broken porcelain. I furnished our first flat with pieces of 'junk.'... JUDITH MILLER Obama was late to affirm the Egyptian revolution as a democratic movement, and even then he was eage... JUDITH BUTLER Without Mark Felt there would have been none of the revelations that showed what began as a third-ra... JUDITH MILLER As a Jew, I was taught that it was ethically imperative to speak up and to speak out against arbitra... JUDITH BUTLER Why is it that almost every human culture yet discovered has found it necessary to believe in an aft... JUDITH HAYES The message of transformation and how we all can live from our heart, not just from our head, was a ... JUDITH LIGHT Identifying Israel with Jewry obscures the existence of the small but important post-Zionist movemen... JUDITH BUTLER