Disclosures of childhood sexual abuse have frequently been discredited through the diagnosis of hysteria. In this view, women/female children were seen either as culpable seducers who were not really damaged by the sex abuse or as dramatic fantasizers projecting their own incestuous wishes onto the father. I will argue that this view pervades the false-memory movement and can be found, for example, in Gardner's work (1992).


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Personally I believe it is important for mankind to respect nature - for homeostasis - and I have vo...
JUDITH ANDERSON
I am inspired by many mediums and use them to express varied aspects of my philosophies and life obs...
JUDITH ANDERSON
All of my work is based on nature. I grew up in a rural environment and living in the Bay Area allow...
JUDITH ANDERSON
This technique requires both sides of your brain -- analytical and creative.
JUDITH ANDERSON
Innovation, creativity, and enthusiasm are all linked. When you walk into a warehouse and the manage...
JUDITH ANDERSON
Etiquette does not render you defenseless. If it did, even I wouldn't subscribe to it. But ruden...
JUDITH MARTIN
Chaperons, even in their days of glory, were almost never able to enforce morality; what they did wa...
JUDITH MARTIN
Chaperons don't enforce morality; they force immorality to be discreet.
JUDITH MARTIN
Understanding Hamas/Hezbollah as social movements that are progressive, that are on the left, that a...
JUDITH BUTLER
We're now seeing email that people thought they had deleted showing up as evidence in court. You...
JUDITH MARTIN
When I do uptempo songs, I like to bring in the funk and world music and different elements.
JUDITH HILL
I make a distinction between manners and etiquette - manners as the principles, which are eternal an...
JUDITH MARTIN
Victorian racehorse owners frequently named their horses after murderers. That was so astonishing. C...
JUDITH FLANDERS
On the one hand, shopping is dependable: You can do it alone, if you lose your heart to something th...
JUDITH KRANTZ
What restricts the use of the word 'lady' among the courteous is that it is intended to set a woman ...
JUDITH MARTIN
A young lady is a female child who has just done something dreadful.
JUDITH MARTIN
There is nothing enduring in life for a woman except what she builds in a man's heart
JUDITH ANDERSON
Looking at you has been my favorite pastime from the moment you asked me to describe your face," he ...
JUDITH MCNAUGHT
No letter from a lover is ever more welcome, brings more joy, than a publisher's expression of inter...
JUDITH BROCKLEHURST
A young lady who faints may awake chivalrous sentiments in gentleman; a young lady who weeps engende...
JUDITH BROCKLEHURST
The biblical account of Noah's Ark and the Flood is perhaps the most implausible story for fundament...
JUDITH HAYES
We are all born charming, fresh and spontaneous and must be civilized before we are fit to participa...
JUDITH MARTIN
What you have when everyone wears the same playclothes for all occasions, is addressad by nickname, ...
JUDITH MARTIN
There are three social classes in America: upper middle class, middle class, and lower middle class.
JUDITH MARTIN
It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.
JUDITH MARTIN
One of the things that made Epic strong when I wrote the original code was that it never occurred to...
JUDITH FAULKNER
The more facts one introduces, the more truth one shows, the more determined the bigot is to cling t...
JUDITH TARR
You are about to begin the hero's journey. Travel well on the quest. A life of More is your birthrig...
JUDITH WRIGHT
He had led off being a perfectionist when he discovered that not promptly kept appointments, not a h...
JUDITH GUEST
The great thing about costume jewelry is that there's something for everyone - there are very hu...
JUDITH MILLER
I would say that I'm a feminist theorist before I'm a queer theorist or a gay and lesbian th...
JUDITH BUTLER
Sexual harassment law is very important. But I think it would be a mistake if the sexual harassment ...
JUDITH BUTLER
Rawn did her own thing in her own way. She cast the female gaze on a genre heavy with all-male quest...
JUDITH TARR
It frustrates me about myself when I see I'm not taking the road that demands more of me.
JUDITH LIGHT
It's far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.
JUDITH MARTIN
My Girl Scout leader. She told me if I listened more and talked less, I could grow up to be a good w...
JUDITH VIORST
I was an undergrad math major and a grad student in computer science. I'm hugely introverted, no...
JUDITH FAULKNER
As we get past our superficial material wants and instant gratification we connect to a deeper part ...
JUDITH WRIGHT
Maybe it's a generational thing, but I never wanted to be the best black dancer in the world. I ...
JUDITH JAMISON
I heard directly from my source that I should testify before the grand jury,
JUDITH MILLER
Obama's failure to close Guantanamo is yet another instance where the rhetoric of democratic and...
JUDITH BUTLER
Parents should conduct their arguments in quiet, respectful tones, but in a foreign language. You...
JUDITH MARTIN
I got that experience through dating dozens of men for six years after college, getting an entry lev...
JUDITH KRANTZ
If judged only by the results that challenge the laws of probabilities, then the power of prayer is ...
JUDITH HAYES
My mother was a huge, huge reader. I think I picked up very early how precious it was to write thing...
JUDITH VIORST