Divorce is really just about money. People are driven by fear and control.

Men almost always wind up in a better situation after divorce. Women wind up in a worse situation.

At least 70 percent of the time the woman doesn't control the investments or know much about them -- and it's not much different with younger couples.

It's definitely a case by case thing. For the most part, there's nothing wrong with commingling, as long as spouses doing the commingling realize they are not going to get back the assets they came into the marriage with. On the other hand, it can add tension to the marriage if one spouse keeps assets separate.

Divorce lawyers stoke anger and fear in their clients, knowing that as long as the conflicts remain unresolved the revenue stream will keep flowing.

They don't fear it at all, they see it as a liberation. And when they divorce, of course, they get every second weekend off, the father is more guilt-ridden and tries to do more with his children, becomes a better father often.