Do not deny the classical approach, simply as a reaction, or you will have created another pattern and trapped yourself there.

Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own.

The doubters said,
"Man can not fly,"
The doers said,
"Maybe, but we'll try,"
And finally soared
In the morning glow
While non-believers
Watched from below.

Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves.

Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.

I don't want to be remembered as 'the son of Bruce Lee'.

Use only that which works, and take it from any place you can find it.