Do something that takes you out of your comfort zone but makes you feel good about yourself. Give yourself the gift of feeling good about who you are.

You have to fall in love with yourself before anyone will fall in love with you. Define yourself by who you are, not who you're with.

It's about celebrating love. Acknowledge the people you love today. Acknowledge love. Where is there a written rule that you have to do something on Valentine's Day?

Give yourself the gift of what you want. What do you want to do to make yourself feel good that day?

I just don’t understand how you can get so much comfort from a religion whose language does so much harm.”…I realized that what troubled me most was her use of the word “comfort,” so in my reply I addressed that first. I said that I didn’t think it was comfort I was seeking, or comfort that I’d found. Look, I said to her, as a rush of words came to me. As far as I’m concerned, this religion has saved my life, my husband’s life, and our marriage. So it’s not comfort that I’m talking about but salvation.

Comfort is your biggest trap and coming out of comfort zone your biggest challenge.