Don't you go believing in sayings, Picotee: they are all made by men, for their own advantages. Women who use public proverbs as a guide through events are those who have not ingenuity enough to make private ones as each event occurs.


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"Yes, dearest," he sa...
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Meanwhile, the trees were just as green as before; the birds sang and the sun shone as clearly now a...
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That it would always be summer and autumn, and you always courting me, and always thinking as much o...
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...she moved about in a mental cloud of many-coloured idealities, which eclipsed all sinister contin...
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Tis because we be on a blighted star, and not a sound one, isn't it Tess?
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She was not an existence, an experience, a passion, a structure of sensations, to anybody but hersel...
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Never in her life – she could swear it from the bottom of her soul – had she ever intended to do...
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Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
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Do you know that I have undergone three quarters of this labour entirely for the sake of the fourth ...
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In the ill-judged execution of the well-judged plan of things the call seldom produces the comer, th...
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How very lovable her face was to him. Yet there was nothing ethereal about it; all was real vitality...
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Her affection for him was now the breath and life of Tess's being; it enveloped her as a photosphere...
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Sometimes I feel I don't want to know anything more about [history] than I know already. [...] Becau...
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I agree to the conditions, Angel; because you know best what my punishment ought to be; only - only ...
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My eyes were dazed by you for a little, and that was all.
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This hobble of being alive is rather serious, don’t you think so?
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The beauty or ugliness of a character lay not only in its achievements, but in its aims and impulses...
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Ladies know what to guard against, because they read novels that tell them of these tricks…
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Why didn’t you tell me there was danger? Why didn’t you warn me? Ladies know what to guard again...
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Did you say the stars were worlds, Tess?"
"Yes."
"All like ours?"
"I don't know, but ...
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Beauty lay not in the thing, but in what the thing symbolized.
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A novel is an impression, not an argument; and there the matter must rest.
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You overrate my capacity of love. I don't posess half the warmth of nature you believe me to have. A...
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...it is foreign to a man's nature to go on loving a person when he is told that he must and shall b...
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The purpose of a chronicler of moods and deeds does not require him to express his personal views up...
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My weakness has always been to prefer the large intention of an unskilful artist to the trivial inte...
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you dear, sweet, tantalizing phantom--hardly flesh at all; so that when I put my arms round you I al...
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Had other aims than my delight.
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Do not do an immoral thing for moral reasons.
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Indeed, he seemed to approach the grave as a hyperbolic curve approaches a straight line -- less dir...
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Many besides Angel have learnt that the magnitude of lives is not as to their external displacements...
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On a Fine Morning”
in Poems of the Past and the Present (1901)

WHENCE comes Solac...
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The sky was clear - remarkably clear - and the twinkling of all the stars seemed to be but throbs of...
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Yes; quaint and curious war is! You shoot a fellow down you'd treat if met where any bar is, or ...
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She had not heard him enter, and hardly realized his presence there. She was yawning, and he saw the...
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The beggarly question of parentage--what is it, after all? What does it matter, when you come to thi...
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My argument is that War makes rattling good history; but Peace is poor reading.
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He had just reached the time of life at which 'young' is ceasing to be the prefix of 'man' in speaki...
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But no one came. Because no one ever does.
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My opinion is that a poet should express the emotion of all the ages and the thought of his own.
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The offhand decision of some commonplace mind high in office at a critical moment influences the cou...
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And yet to every bad there is a worse.
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That man's silence is wonderful to listen to.
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Love, though added emotion, is substracted capacity
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Bathsheba loved Troy in the way that only self-reliant women love when they abandon their self-relia...
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The atmosphere beneath is languorous, and is so tinged with azure that what artists call the middle ...
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