Empowered Women 101: If he’s with you, it’s a given that he finds you attractive. Don’t talk him out of his attraction by highlighting all your flaws and spending your time cutting down other women's qualities that you are jealous of. A real women focuses on what she has and fixes what she doesn't like. She doesn't blame people for not seeing what she doesn't always see in herself.
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ABU BAKAR BASHIR If it doesnt help, I damned sure dont know what will. JACK MOORE They've given me a lot of great stuff, ... She has an agenda. She is always out for herself. They ha... DENISE RICHARDS I believe that when a woman is given the chance to come to the defense of another woman, that is an ... C. JOYBELL C. When you find somebody you love, all the way through, and she loves you—even with your weaknesses,... NORA ROBERTS His eyes shone when he looked at her, green as spring grass. He has always had green eyes... CASSANDRA CLARE She wasn’t afraid of difficulties; what frightened her was being forced to choose one particular p... PAULO COELHO She focuses really well on what she does. She goes into each bout as if it is the most important. An... ERIN HOUSING Life may not be party you hoped for,But that doesnt mean u should stop dancing!Remember you are the ... ANMOL P. JAORA Thinking of you is my daily routine...thinking of something else is an event that doesnt happen all ... SEGEV LAYANI What is on that memory stick, if you don’t mind me asking?” She was following him back into... PIXIE LYNN WHITFIELD If you meet a woman of whatever complexion who sails her life with strength and grace and assurance,... SENA JETER NASLUND A part of a healthy conscience is being able to confront consciencelessness. When you teach your dau... MARTHA STOUT Cash looked at her, square in the eye, and his jaw twitched. She flinched, then braced herself. For ... SUMMER HINES She was a lovely person who involved herself with other seniors. She was very interested in what was... CYNTHIA LEE And yet, as she sits there with him on the window seat, with his strong arms around her, she knows t... JULIA HOBAN She rested her head against his and felt, for the first time, what she would often feel with him: a ... LILY KING She did not date. She did not have time for men. Men were never, ever worth a great amount of energy... 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MICHAEL MORPURGO Empowered Women 101: A man doesn't have to put down other women to prove his love for you. In fact, ... SHANNON L. ALDER Talent must be a fanatical mistress. She's beautiful; when you're with her, people watch you, they n... DAVID BENIOFF You can give away parts of your soul to loving, but you must always reserve part of your soul for yo... KATIE MISHRA A blind man can see what she feels for you and you for her. Your souls are not merely entwined; they... MELINA MARCHETTA She leaned down and looked at his lifeless face and Leisel kissed her best friend, Rudy Steiner, sof... MARKUS ZUSAK just because theres a goalie, doesnt mean you cant score BRADLEY ADAM HENDERSON She doesn't know any better, what a girl like her needs is a man with both his legs on the land. A m... MAGGIE STIEFVATER When she came to her senses again she cut off all contact with him. It had not been easy, but she ha... STIEG LARSSON In the teahouses one could hear the most absurd stories, such as how a in a certain place a huge spi... LAO SHE During my childhood I didn't need to hear stories about evil ogres eating children and so forth; the... LAO SHE Looks like someone had a mood swing.” She rolls her eyes. “Like you don’t want to know wh... VERONICA ROTH A woman must continually watch herself. She is almost continually accompanied by her own image of he... JOHN BERGER She can't help what she does to you. She is your weakness, as you are hers. MICHELLE HODKIN What if you should forget yourself in the excitement and just peddle straight through the park and o... EMMANUELLE DE MAUPASSANT She looked at him and shook her head, smiled a little as she told him, "You are so like your father.... ALLY CARTER There’s no way to tell him, if she tried she knows she’d only start crying, that there’s this ... RAINJOY How sad,” she whispered to herself. He heard it. “What?” She shook her head, meeting his gaze,... SARAH MACLEAN Another distinguished critic has agreed with Gide--that old lady in the anecdote who was accused by ... E. M. FORSTER She just has a lot of guts. She sang with heart, and that's what people liked. She had potential, yo... JENNIFER WEISS My husband was just OK looking. I was in labor and I said to him, 'What if she's ugly? You... BEVERLY JOHNSON Hermione, will you please —” “Don’t you tell me what to do, Harry Potter!” she screec... J.K. ROWLING She finds herself in New York City and she is making a living posing for photographs. A lot of it wa... GRETCHEN MOL She’s an original! She doesn’t need to compete, copy, or envy other women. The confidence that�... STEPHANIE LAHART She could light up your day. She had a wonderful sense of humor and she always looked out for others... RONNIQUE BENJAMIN Stop!” she screamed. “Don’t hurt him.” “Back off!” Billy shouted. ... KASI BLAKE She said that certain facts are accessible only from one point of view--the point of view of the cre... JAY MCINERNEY If you try singling me out to my mother, she'll be down your throat. She has three sons, and she... LEE PEARSON When a good women loves she loves for real. When a bad woman loves she only loves your money and you... NERISSA IRVING A mistake? The most passionate night of his life was a mistake? Her first time and that’s what she... R.L. MATHEWSON She knew what all smart women knew: Laughter made you live better and longer. GAIL PARENT To this day, I've found that it doesn't matter what a guy looks like if he's really funn... CATHERINE O'HARA Just because you came to the end of a cliff it doesnt mean that is the end,find a rope to climb down... JOHN ALEXANDER TRISTRAM Who are we to say getting incested or abused or violated or any of those things can’t have their p... DAVID FOSTER WALLACE When a girl says "your beautiful" to a boy what she means by that is that she wants to be with you f... ALLIE ROBERTS Sadly, the signals that allow men and women to find the partners who most please them are scrambled ... NAOMI WOLF She nodded... and was about to turn away. Then, as if she thought better of it, she reached out and ... MELISSA DE LA CRUZ when im mad i usually punch a wall but that doesnt work so when your mad you dont need to punch a wa... DALLY SALAD She takes a lot of pride in what she does. And you don't necessarily see that in a lot of teenagers. MICHAEL STANTON Her workouts were what really got my attention. She puts in so much hard work all the time. She neve... JEFF SCOTT Phaedra keeps saying she's being selfish. That she hates herself for it, but she does it anyway. She... CORA CARMACK Not your girlfriend?” Grandmother guessed. “Well, she should be, you dolt! Don’t let her get a... RICK RIORDAN It’s not what your are, it’s what you don’t become that hurts. OSCAR LEVANT She had given him all she had - but what was it compared to the other gifts life held for him? She u... EDITH WHARTON People do the damndest things when they’re in love, Alex. Look at what your mother did. It’s a d... JENNIFER L. ARMENTROUT She stands there for a second, watching the bear go. The morning light has truly arrived, and she ca... KATHRYN HOLMES She has grown up around fashion and creativity. She has a great sense of what makes women beautiful ... JANET NOEL There speaks the passion and the rebellion that go with red hair. My second wife had red hair. She w... AGATHA CHRISTIE That’s when I realized that I really loved you.” She sat down on the floor with me. She sp... STEPHEN CHBOSKY Never be possessive. If a female friend lets on that she is going out with another man, be kind and ... BRUCE FRIEDMAN I was right there on launch pad 39B, looking up at those grand towers thinking about my teacher and ... ANDY VIOLETTE Of course, when you fall out of love, it’s rarely about just one failure or one betrayal, is it? .... FREDERICK WEISEL She told me that she did not like the idea of your being in that house all by yourself, and that she... BRAM STOKER Charity never lacks what is her own, all that she needs for her own security. Not alone does she hav... SAINT BERNARD Now is the time when you see people which you know... but they start ignoring you... and how do you ... DEYTH BANGER She shows the worst qualities of masochists. She is boastful, she tramples upon the rights of others... CAROL ARAULLO I knew another women who lost as much as you. And do you know what she did with it-the loss?' He cou... SARAH J. MAAS She said that by introducing me to all these great things, Mary Elizabeth gained a “superior posit... STEPHEN CHBOSKY Peter," she began. He looked up at her, and she could see the pain in his eyes. "I love you," she sa... SARAH BLAKLEY-CARTWRIGHT Yes, it’s vulnerable and scary to keep your love on toward someone who has become a perceived thre... DANNY SILK If you ever feel like you have no friends, than make friendship with a kid, what he/she will give yo... JIBS
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ALDER Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first. SHANNON L. ALDER When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will hav... SHANNON L. ALDER When you find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on h... SHANNON L. ALDER Often people that settle in life are those that only do what they can with what they have and where ... SHANNON L. ALDER I am convinced that the jealous, the angry, the bitter and the egotistical are the first to race to ... SHANNON L. ALDER Your tears are never invisible---there is always an insecure woman that lights up when you point the... SHANNON L. ALDER Mental illness is not a fraternity or a social club for like minds. It is its own religion to each p... SHANNON L. ALDER You might lose battles in your life time. However, every person that stands bravely on the side of j... SHANNON L. ALDER I was never weighed down by beauty in my lifetime. However, I was beaten down by the sad fears of my... SHANNON L. ALDER Realize that narcissists have an addiction disorder. They are strongly addicted to feeling significa... SHANNON L. ALDER If you hold onto a man hoping someone else won't get them you have learned how to be desperate, not ... SHANNON L. ALDER You will never let go of the past by ignoring the most painful thing the person you loved has done t... SHANNON L. ALDER Often the inspiration to write music comes from the voices in your head. You’re not crazy. Just be... SHANNON L. ALDER It isn't what you will do for your children that makes you a great mother or father. It is what you ... SHANNON L. ALDER Relationships with negative people are simply tedious encounters with porcupines. You don’t have t... SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: Only an insecure woman with control issues will look outside her relationship a... SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: A man doesn't have to put down other women to prove his love for you. In fact, ... SHANNON L. ALDER Love may be blind but jealousy has 20-20 vision. SHANNON L. ALDER People that don't know what they are worth will always see their capture's wings, but never their ta... SHANNON L. ALDER I am convinced that the jealous, the angry, the bitter and the egotistical are the first to race to ... SHANNON L. ALDER Love has a way of making the sane insane and the insane normal. SHANNON L. ALDER People's behaviors are messages, not a diagnosis because I can no longer discern the world's version... SHANNON L. ALDER Often a woman that doesn’t have any business being in a fight is there because their ego thinks it... SHANNON L. ALDER Hypocrisy /hi pakrise/ noun 1. The moment you tell someone it is not important to be... SHANNON L. ALDER Narcissistic Supply You get discarded as supply for one of two reason: They find you too ... SHANNON L. 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ALDER The moment you have to recruit people to put another person down, in order to convince someone of yo... SHANNON L. ALDER Words don’t have the power to hurt you, unless that person meant more to you than you are willing ... SHANNON L. ALDER You are not an option, a choice or a soft place to land after a long battle. You were meant to be th... SHANNON L. ALDER You will know if you are on the right path when God directs your choices, not your spouse or signifi... SHANNON L. ALDER When dealing with critics always remember this: Critics judge things based on what is outside of the... SHANNON L. ALDER If you were born with the ability to change someone’s perspective or emotions, never waste that gi... SHANNON L. ALDER I rather be a stupid person wanting clarification and answers, in order to be wiser, than be a stupi... SHANNON L. ALDER You might not get the apology you deserve. You might not get answers to explain the actions of other... SHANNON L. ALDER It is the subtle things in life that you have to look for because the deepest love speaks at a whisp... SHANNON L. ALDER Judgement of others and ourselves always comes from a place of fear. It is fear that keeps us from l... SHANNON L. ALDER Vulnerability gives us freedom, power and connects us to a network of injured souls. It is through t... SHANNON L. ALDER People often tell themselves lies, in order to reach what they consider acceptance in difficult situ... SHANNON L. ALDER Some will wear masks their entire life because they care about what other people think, while others... SHANNON L. ALDER You will never change, unless you are honest with yourself or you are forced to be authentic by some... SHANNON L. ALDER Anyone can possess, anyone can profess, but it is an altogether different thing to confess. SHANNON L. ALDER The only difference between you and the person you admire is their perspective on life. SHANNON L. ALDER The secret to your purpose is to find what you feel is important, and not pursue what others would t... SHANNON L. ALDER Confidence is knowing who you are and not changing it a bit because of someone’s version of realit... SHANNON L. ALDER When you are offered a miracle take it. Otherwise, show God your tail so he can move on and give it ... SHANNON L. ALDER Behind every angry soul is a wounded child that just wanted you to love them for who they are. SHANNON L. ALDER The man that is meant to love you will have a million questions about you, but none will ever ask yo... SHANNON L. ALDER Every relationship that has hit a crossroads has asked, “What is it that you want from me? SHANNON L. ALDER There are only two ways to live your life. One as if all that matters is to have someone love and ac... SHANNON L. ALDER See it for what it is and own it, rather than rethink it so you don't have to deal with the trauma o... SHANNON L. ALDER Sometimes, we expect life to work a certain way and when it doesn’t we blame others or see it as a... SHANNON L. ALDER True saddness is when someone still thinks your the same person after all these years. They brand yo... SHANNON L. ALDER Everyone loses their class when they travel through hell, but only a few will regain it if they rema... SHANNON L. ALDER Don't waste your time trying to provide people with proof of deceit, in order to keep their love, wi... SHANNON L. ALDER God told us to love everyone. However, when you don’t like someone then you need to walk away and ... SHANNON L. ALDER Humility is not a one time lesson that comes when you have lost everything. It is a daily reminder o... SHANNON L. ALDER Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their ... SHANNON L. ALDER The moon will guide you through the night with her brightness, but she will always dwell in the dark... SHANNON L. ALDER Often people that criticise your life are usually the same people that don't know the price you paid... SHANNON L. ALDER No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others. SHANNON L. ALDER The only real conflict you will ever have in your life won’t be with others, but with yourself. SHANNON L. ALDER Fear is to begin with the end in mind. There is no end. Life is eternal. Live life knowing that the ... SHANNON L. ALDER A Plan B life can be just as good or better than a Plan A life. You just have to let go of that firs... SHANNON L. ALDER It is not lies or a lack of loyalty that ends a relationship. It is the agonizing truth that one per... SHANNON L. ALDER The most important thing is this: to sacrifice what you are now for what you can become tomorrow. SHANNON L. ALDER Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured b... SHANNON L. ALDER The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go. SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love says goodbye you can stare long and hard at the door they closed and forget to... SHANNON L. ALDER Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the qu... SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: If they made you an option you will always be an option vs. the person they rea... SHANNON L. ALDER You can't compare men or women with mental disorders to the normal expectations of men and women in ... SHANNON L. ALDER Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neith... SHANNON L. ALDER People that have been consistently hurt by others in life will only see the one time you hurt them a... SHANNON L. ALDER victim noun \ˈvik-təm\ 1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorder... SHANNON L. ALDER Feelings are something you have; not something you are. SHANNON L. ALDER The greatest thing a father can do for his children is to respect the woman that gave birth to his c... SHANNON L. ALDER A heart worth loving is one you understand, even in silence. SHANNON L. ALDER Perspective is as simple as answering this question: If I had 5 months to live would I experience th... SHANNON L. ALDER Whenever you can’t balance what you see with what you believe you have conflict. SHANNON L. ALDER Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you fin... SHANNON L. ALDER Do not conform to seek the seekers, but leave the leavers. Wisdom comes from facing what you do not ... SHANNON L. ALDER Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-e... SHANNON L. ALDER Honesty is vulnerability. Sadly, not everyone can handle someone’s honesty. However, lying allows ... SHANNON L. ALDER Regardless of your faith, you can never escape uncertainty. SHANNON L. ALDER Half of the time, the Holy Ghost tries to warn us about certain people that come into our life. The ... SHANNON L. ALDER The only person that should wear your ring is the one person that would never… 1... SHANNON L. ALDER Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it. SHANNON L. ALDER It is not the hand that rocks the cradle that rules the world; it is the woman that holds the keys t... SHANNON L. ALDER When I was a child, an angel came to say, A true friend is coming my warrior to sweep you away,... SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love dies, you are given the gift of "second chances". Their eulogy is a reminder t... SHANNON L. ALDER One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many pe... SHANNON L. ALDER Her wounds brought her a great source of power because they lived in the same place as her heart. SHANNON L. ALDER You're only a victim to the degree of what your perception allows. SHANNON L. ALDER Your most important “want” should be the one you can control! SHANNON L. ALDER If he emotionally cheated on you remember this before you take him back. It was a choice to do it an... SHANNON L. ALDER The number of chances you give someone doesn't tell the world how loving you are without telling the... SHANNON L. ALDER A deceitful man will go as far as to trample all over a woman’s reputation and spirit, in order to... SHANNON L. ALDER Be leery of silence. It doesn't mean you won the argument. Often, people are just busy reloading the... SHANNON L. ALDER I am tired of people saying that poor character is the only reason people do wrong things. Actually,... SHANNON L. ALDER Temptation goes both ways. Sometimes, you can be tempted to live a half life because it pleases some... SHANNON L. ALDER