Even good things can hurt you if you do them to the point of neglecting family, friends, or other interests.

It's amazing that people can push family members and friends away and never realize the hurt they have caused. Just cause they are thinking more of themselves, and feel they are right and they are wrong

As for the family members of victims, slap-on-the-wrist sentences compound the grief process.

It's a close-knit group. When someone in your family is hurting, you hurt.

I figured they are deeply sorry. He hurt his family. It's not just one-sided.

They called my 73-year-old father and they told him they were going to hurt his whole family. They said they were going to hurt me and my daughter.