Every time you mistreat someone, you reveal the part of you that lacks love and needs to heal.

Everyone grows but not everyone becomes mature.

If you don't love yourself, you won't be happy with yourself. If you can't love yourself, you can't love anyone else. You can't give the love you do not have. You can't make anyone love you without loving yourself first.

Look in the mirror and be sure you're living out the person you see and not a shadow.

Ego speaks from a place of pride.
Judgement comes from a place of pain.
Courage speaks from a place of humility.
Correction comes from a place of love.
Where are you operating from?

If you spend time judging and criticizing people, you will not have time to heal from your pain or brokenness. You cannot love yourself when you judge or criticize others who are created in God's image and after His Likeness...in which you are also created. Love cannot operate from a space of pain. Love and hurt cannot reside in the same space.