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ALDER The moment you have to recruit people to put another person down, in order to convince someone of yo... SHANNON L. ALDER Words don’t have the power to hurt you, unless that person meant more to you than you are willing ... SHANNON L. ALDER You are not an option, a choice or a soft place to land after a long battle. You were meant to be th... SHANNON L. ALDER You will know if you are on the right path when God directs your choices, not your spouse or signifi... SHANNON L. ALDER When dealing with critics always remember this: Critics judge things based on what is outside of the... SHANNON L. ALDER If you were born with the ability to change someone’s perspective or emotions, never waste that gi... SHANNON L. ALDER I rather be a stupid person wanting clarification and answers, in order to be wiser, than be a stupi... SHANNON L. ALDER You might not get the apology you deserve. You might not get answers to explain the actions of other... SHANNON L. ALDER It is the subtle things in life that you have to look for because the deepest love speaks at a whisp... SHANNON L. ALDER Judgement of others and ourselves always comes from a place of fear. It is fear that keeps us from l... SHANNON L. ALDER Vulnerability gives us freedom, power and connects us to a network of injured souls. It is through t... SHANNON L. ALDER People often tell themselves lies, in order to reach what they consider acceptance in difficult situ... SHANNON L. ALDER Some will wear masks their entire life because they care about what other people think, while others... SHANNON L. ALDER You will never change, unless you are honest with yourself or you are forced to be authentic by some... SHANNON L. ALDER Anyone can possess, anyone can profess, but it is an altogether different thing to confess. SHANNON L. ALDER The only difference between you and the person you admire is their perspective on life. SHANNON L. 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ALDER The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go. SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love says goodbye you can stare long and hard at the door they closed and forget to... SHANNON L. ALDER Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the qu... SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: If they made you an option you will always be an option vs. the person they rea... SHANNON L. ALDER You can't compare men or women with mental disorders to the normal expectations of men and women in ... SHANNON L. ALDER Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neith... SHANNON L. ALDER People that have been consistently hurt by others in life will only see the one time you hurt them a... SHANNON L. ALDER victim noun \ˈvik-təm\ 1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorder... SHANNON L. ALDER Feelings are something you have; not something you are. SHANNON L. ALDER The greatest thing a father can do for his children is to respect the woman that gave birth to his c... SHANNON L. ALDER A heart worth loving is one you understand, even in silence. SHANNON L. ALDER Perspective is as simple as answering this question: If I had 5 months to live would I experience th... SHANNON L. ALDER Whenever you can’t balance what you see with what you believe you have conflict. SHANNON L. ALDER Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you fin... SHANNON L. ALDER Do not conform to seek the seekers, but leave the leavers. Wisdom comes from facing what you do not ... SHANNON L. ALDER Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-e... SHANNON L. ALDER Honesty is vulnerability. Sadly, not everyone can handle someone’s honesty. However, lying allows ... SHANNON L. ALDER Regardless of your faith, you can never escape uncertainty. SHANNON L. ALDER Half of the time, the Holy Ghost tries to warn us about certain people that come into our life. The ... SHANNON L. ALDER The only person that should wear your ring is the one person that would never… 1... SHANNON L. ALDER Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it. SHANNON L. ALDER It is not the hand that rocks the cradle that rules the world; it is the woman that holds the keys t... SHANNON L. ALDER When I was a child, an angel came to say, A true friend is coming my warrior to sweep you away,... SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love dies, you are given the gift of "second chances". Their eulogy is a reminder t... SHANNON L. ALDER One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many pe... SHANNON L. ALDER Her wounds brought her a great source of power because they lived in the same place as her heart. SHANNON L. ALDER You're only a victim to the degree of what your perception allows. SHANNON L. ALDER Your most important “want” should be the one you can control! SHANNON L. ALDER If he emotionally cheated on you remember this before you take him back. It was a choice to do it an... SHANNON L. ALDER The number of chances you give someone doesn't tell the world how loving you are without telling the... SHANNON L. ALDER A deceitful man will go as far as to trample all over a woman’s reputation and spirit, in order to... SHANNON L. ALDER Be leery of silence. It doesn't mean you won the argument. Often, people are just busy reloading the... SHANNON L. ALDER I am tired of people saying that poor character is the only reason people do wrong things. Actually,... SHANNON L. ALDER Temptation goes both ways. Sometimes, you can be tempted to live a half life because it pleases some... SHANNON L. ALDER