Family and old friends, that was what mattered to him most.

My family talks about it. You know, their friends talk about it and neighbors talk about it ... more humiliating than anything I've ever lived through.

He always made sure we knew the extended family in New York and Connecticut and Virginia. That was very important to him.

He just loved to dance and made sure we learned to dance too. We grew up surrounded by all kinds of dancing and all kinds of music.

I will always find something that I want to try and become better at. I always love to spend more time with my friends, more time with my family, my extended family. I always want to read more books.

I would say, quite the opposite. But I was really privileged in that I had a wonderful family. They were always incredibly supportive and I guess I would call that privilege worth a whole lot more than money. To a large extent, it permeates the philosophy with which we raise our own kids.