For girls and women, talk is the glue that holds a relationship together - and the explosive that can blow it apart. That's why you can think you're having a perfectly amiable chat, then suddenly find yourself wounded by the shrapnel from an exploded conversation.
Deborah Tannen
Related I like to open for a band as it brings on sort of a challenge and it makes things more interesting. ... KELLY JONES I think in a way, you're doomed, once you can envision something. You're sort of doomed to m... CHUCK PALAHNIUK To run an effective political party you need a degree of tribalism, it's the glue that holds eve... CHARLES KENNEDY But I think it's more that when you're young, you're invincible, you're immortal - o... DAMIEN HIRST I think that the fact that a relationship becomes public is a bit of a bummer. Because it can distra... CHRIS MARTIN Why do you think so many actors are only half-developed people? It's very easy when you're a... DAMIAN LEWIS It's important to work through things in a relationship. You can't just give up because you&... TAYLOR LAUTNER Palestine is the cement that holds the Arab world together, or it is the explosive that blows it apa... YASSER ARAFAT Stairs to climb are difficult it takes time and effort and going down is easies job... what do I mea... DEYTH BANGER I have always been a left-winger and an outsider. I loved being that. I was perfectly cheerful with ... MOLLY IVINS That's the thing with dementia. If you're with somebody who has a serious illness, you can u... JUDY PARFITT Through my research, I found that vulnerability is the glue that holds relationships together. It... BRENE BROWN You spend ten years of your life being trained to do one thing, and you're being taught to think... JONATHAN MILLER Sometimes it's just harder to remind yourself about what you're doing and why you're doi... ANDRE AGASSI You know that you've healed an issue when you can talk about it and you're not weeping, when... IYANLA VANZANT What's revolting is the body-positivity movement. What's revolting is this idea now that you... MILO YIANNOPOULOS I'm the glue that holds everything together. OTIS WILLIAMS I think that's become passe, but if you can surround yourself with a kind of monument to yoursel... SYLVESTER STALLONE I think that having comedy where people talk the way they really talk, when you talk with your frien... SETH GORDON Having been an oncologist and having cared for scores, if not hundreds, of dying patients, when you ... EZEKIEL EMANUEL I think you can learn a lot about a guy from the way that he talks to you and the way that he compli... ALY MICHALKA There's an element to songwriting that I can't explain, that comes from somewhere else. I ca... NICK CAVE Whenever you're dealing with something that's difficult to describe, that you can't get ... DIANA GALBADON When people think of the word 'drive,' they often think you have it or you don't, and th... ANGELA DUCKWORTH Someone said to me at a party once, 'Oh, yeah, you're a comedian? Then how come you're n... MIKE BIRBIGLIA Magic to me is you make a movie and it's all great and it clicks, and at the end of the day you ... JULIA ROBERTS There's a time in your life where you're not quite sure where you are. You think everything&... TOM DELONGE Anything you can do to express yourself is a form of art. That's why I love my craft so much. I ... EMILY RIOS 'Pretty Little Liars,' you know, it's a teen show that grew to be something bigger. I th... AERIEL MIRANDA I have heard, 'Never go to bed angry,' and that makes sense. Unless you're always checki... DIPLO A good heavy book holds you down. It's an anchor that keeps you from getting up and having anoth... ROY BLOUNT, JR. There's no question that you can explore aspects of yourself through roles that you play, and yo... ANNETTE BENING I think all women in Hollywood are known as sex symbols. That's what our purpose is in this busi... MEGAN FOX That's why fame freaks me out in a lot of ways - because how genuine of a connection can you hav... MARY LAMBERT I think that 'Star Wars' is the glue that holds us together. MICHAEL WISTOCK If you're comfortable with yourself, then you'll look beautiful. If you're not feeling c... OLIVIA CULPO There's two kinds of rock n' roll casualty: the one that has huge success and adoration, and... RHYS IFANS I think when you've got a passion for something, it comes out of you, and people can feel it. Th... BECKY LYNCH Whatever it is you're doing, whether it's your career or a particular focus, if you're t... GRANT ACHATZ That's the remarkable thing about baseball. The game has a way of having you scratch your head o... JOHNNY BENCH Every couple needs glue to stay together. Like all marriages, I suspect, if you're busy you don&... ANNE ROBINSON For me, every photograph is a portrait; the clothes are just a vehicle for what I want to say. You... PETER LINDBERGH There's times when you're having dinner with a good friend and you're in the middle of a... VERNE TROYER 'Saw' is like a big jigsaw puzzle. When you put a jigsaw puzzle together, you put the bottom... TOBIN BELL Being a press secretary is like learning to type: You're hunting and pecking for a while and the... LARRY SPEAKES I think men and women are the same. Even as parents, I think we're the same. We're just cond... RACHEL CUSK There's just something about youth and comedy that go together. Maybe it's that foolishness,... JOE FLAHERTY You can talk about what you see from the outside; it's hard to tell me who I am when you're ... RAY LEWIS All you can do is really the prep work and make sure you're ready to hit each golf shot. Outside... RICKIE FOWLER I'm asking you to talk with your friends, neighbors, and relatives - even the ones you've ne... NANCY KEENAN I think there is some resistance when people talk about ethical fashion, and a tendency to panic tha... ERIN O'CONNOR And if you're singing to someone, or if they're singing along, and suddenly you're in ha... JASON MRAZ I think essentially the meaning of life is probably the journey and not really any one thing or an o... CHARISMA CARPENTER As a professional climber, that's the question you always get: Why, why, why? It's an ineffa... JIMMY CHIN The only thing that I know how to do as an actor, as a trained actor, is you can't villainize th... COREY HAWKINS The glue that holds all relationships together -- including the relationship between the leader and ... BRIAN TRACY The glue that holds all relationships together - including the relationship between the leader and t... BRIAN TRACY There are always those 'Gossip Girl' walk-and-talk scenes where you're walking and just ... CHACE CRAWFORD The two men had a conversation. Brief, cryptic, to the point. As though they had exchanged numbers a... ARUNDHATI ROY I think journaling is a key to success. You can set clear goals for yourself. You can start noticing... ERIC ANDRE Personally, I think fidelity is important. I don't see any point in being together if you're... NIKOLAJ COSTER-WALDAU If you're a musician, there's no instrument that can be withheld from you. If you're dra... CYNTHIA ROBINSON For me, surfing is as close a connection I can have with Mother Nature. To surf, you're riding a... XAVIER RUDD To exist as an interpreter of the law, you first have to follow that law yourself. Law is the glue t... REBECCA MCNUTT I think every relationship has a point where you stop and reevaluate. Are you happy? Have you grown ... COURTENEY COX You know you're getting old when you get that one candle on the cake. It's like, 'See if... JERRY SEINFELD I guess a show like 'Entourage' would be wish fulfillment, right? But 'Entourage' is... JILL SOLOWAY It's such a funny thing when you see your daughter transitioning from your baby, your little gir... JOHNNY DEPP You can't fool yourself anymore that your art is your art. When you're not getting paid for ... ANN POWERS If a script comes together, and you end up liking the people who are part of it, that's when you... ALEXA VEGA You do it for the highs, when you're totally engrossed and everything's flowing and whatever... GREG RUSEDSKI That's the thing - you do a job like 'Shameless,' and suddenly that's why you can ge... ANNE-MARIE DUFF I think there's a difference when you make fun of yourself and your own behavior, and when you d... PATRICIA HEATON If you're an artist, you're an artist; that's the only way I can explain it. MALIK BENDJELLOUL Beauty is when you can appreciate yourself. When you love yourself, that's when you're most ... ZOE KRAVITZ I think it's very dangerous for people who do anything that's public to venture on the Web a... GARRY TRUDEAU Believing in yourself and what you do is so important. It took me a long time to find that confidenc... KATE VOEGELE Love hurts the most when you really love. Sometimes you think you're in love, and then you find ... BABYFACE To the extent that you can find ways where you're making predictions, there's no substitute ... NATE SILVER Dishonesty is all about the small acts we can take and then think, 'No, this not real cheating.&... DAN ARIELY I think acting is about forgetting yourself in order to give the best of yourself. It's passing ... JULIETTE BINOCHE If you're an entrepreneur and you're starting a company, I think the first thing you do is y... DAVE GOLDBERG Communicating with teenage girls is easy unless you're an adult, and then it's like having s... W. BRUCE CAMERON When you can't remember why you're hurt, that's when you're healed. JANE FONDA It's unarguable that the right shoes can really add elegance to an outfit and to the person who&... KAREENA KAPOOR KHAN If you're going to exude naivete, you can't really... walk out there like it's a Sting s... FRANK BLACK I think becoming an actor because it's a ridiculously insecure profession to go into. I feel ver... HUGH DANCY I think that as a young lady, you start off not knowing what you want to do, and then you kinda arri... RUTINA WESLEY I can put my legs behind my head, but that's pretty much it. An early agent said to me, 'If ... DOUG JONES If you put yourself in a situation of unpredictability and then find that it's completely possib... DAVID TUDOR A show is like having a climax. It's like having an incredible, natural climax. And then suddenl... ROD STEWART I get so fed up with the making of an album taking over my life - it's all I can think about or ... IMOGEN HEAP They called you the Glue" "The Glue?" "Yeah. Probably because you're kind of the glue that... JAMES DASHNER Acting's an odd profession for a young person; it's so extreme. You work, and the conditions... MICHELLE PFEIFFER I can understand that there are those who can think and imagine the world without words, but I think... ALBERTO MANGUEL 'Girls' feels very active and stirring a conversation and controversial, and you can't r... ADAM DRIVER It's a taboo that comes back over and over, to suggest that women can feel divided - that you ca... RACHEL CUSK Truth is the glue that holds government together. GERALD R. FORD One of the things about jail that's weird is that you're sent to a place where you're su... LANE GARRISON I think that one of the things that we have to recognize is that the longer somebody doesn't hav... KEVIN HASSETT
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DEBORAH COX There is that idea of seeming crazy when you're seeing spirits or you're seeing dead people,... DEBORAH MAILMAN Social issues have been used to distract Americans from their own self interests since Nixon's s... DEBORAH KASS I prefer Princess. I would love to be known as a diva later on in life when I've had far more ex... DEBORAH COX The catheter allows us to bathe the entire abdominal area with a high concentration of chemotherapy ... DEBORAH ARMSTRONG It's the kind of thing you sort of always hope you're going to see. DEBORAH ARMSTRONG It's very good news. A lot of larger institutions have already adopted this approach. At least for t... DEBORAH ARMSTRONG This is a significant improvement in survival for women with this disease, which is most often diagn... DEBORAH ARMSTRONG IP therapy is not a new treatment approach, but it has not been widely accepted as the gold standard... DEBORAH ARMSTRONG We want to make this a model for other communities in the future. DEBORAH ABBOTT The heritage of the state is very agricultural. Re-energizing agriculture is the key to Indiana's ec... DEBORAH ABBOTT The goal is to create a new use for the manure that's surrounding the town ? as a biofuel. DEBORAH ABBOTT The goal is to create a new use for the manure that's surrounding the town ? as a biofuel, DEBORAH ABBOTT My problem is that I want to smoke the cigar and for someone else to light it. I want to blow out sm... DEBORAH LEVY I think differently, I think it's about reaching everybody on every different plane and every di... DEBORAH COX I take it to be from the greatest extremes, both in virtue and in vice, that the uniformly virtuous ... DEBORAH SAMPSON One sees more and more people who are miserable and demented and you feel it would be both kind and ... DEBORAH MOGGACH The best way to insure you achieve the greatest satisfaction out of life is to behave intentionally. DEBORAH DAY I would love to be bilingual. I think having a second or third language at my bidding would open up ... DEBORAH RANEY The biggest surprise, which is also the best, is that I didn't know I would love motherhood as m... DEBORAH NORVILLE Once upon a time, about 10 years ago, I thought maybe I could write a mystery series about a midwife... DEBORAH HARKNESS A government that operates under the guise of capitalism does not necessarily mean it is free of the... DEBORAH SIMPSON Ninety percent of board members said they were there to make a difference in the organization. DEBORAH HECHINGER Accessories in general add warmth to a room, but you can switch out your accessories to showcase onl... DEBORAH CARPENTER I teach 18- to 21-year-olds - the 'Harry Potter' generation. They grew up as voracious reade... DEBORAH HARKNESS In choosing where to live or vacation, we may be setting the stage for the play of ourselves, treati... DEBORAH TALL We always see a few orders for wedding invitations with wedding dates around college graduation time... DEBORAH GOMIA My mind became agitated with the enquiry - why a nation, separated from us by an ocean more than thr... DEBORAH SAMPSON U.S. gasoline may be rattling people's cages. We're going to see another steep draw. That, Nigeria a... DEBORAH WHITE I always thought that it was every performer's dream. That's the epitome of being an artist,... DEBORAH COX 'Tulip Fever' did change my life. It did that thing that sometimes happens when a book takes... DEBORAH MOGGACH It's not a failure if a marriage or partnership ends after a certain number of years. I think, i... DEBORAH MOGGACH It's a very quick place to come in. I'm not going on 21 at lunchtime for anything unless it's a dire... DEBORAH DURHAM They said the wreath is still on the door. DEBORAH ROBERTS In whatever I may be thought to have been unnatural, unwise and indelicate, it is now my most ferven... DEBORAH SAMPSON The song came out to be a gem, just came out to be a really, really interesting rendition of it. DEBORAH COX