For many women - myself included - pregnancy brings on tremendous anxiety and confusion, along with the joy.

Prenatal testing is a complicated decision for many women, forcing us to confront concerns about a disabled child and risks of miscarriage.

I think we've moved to thinking of parenting and pregnancy as something in which you should lose yourself.

If you asked me which gives me more joy, my work or my family, there is no question that it's my family. Hands down. If I had to give one up, it wouldn't even be a contest.

I think women - relative to men - tend to feel that they have to do the household chores on top of everything else. This becomes even worse once you have kids. It's enough to have a full time job; a full time job plus a family is even more.

What you see in these results is that helping women avoid unintended pregnancy is not just a blue-state issue.