"For some of us I think its about finding a person to call home rather than a place to call home.

When you are lost in the right way, you don't go back to being found in the wrong way.

She was a collector of reflections looking for souls that could see deeply inside her soul.

I realise now that I wanted to disappear. To get so lost that nobody ever found me. To go so far away that I'd never be able to make my way home again. But I have no idea why.

Searching represents the achievement of the goal of searching.
Finding represents the achievement of the goal of finding.

I did and do believe, after all that I've seen and done, that if you project yourself into the mass of things, if you look for things, if you search, you will, by the very act of searching, make something that would not otherwise have happened, you will find something, even something small, something that will certainly be more than if you hadn't gone looking in the first place, if you hadn't asked our grandfather anything at all...There are no miracles, no magical coincidences. There is only looking and finally seeing, what was always there.