Anaïs Nin quote: "From the backstabbing co-worker to the meddling sister-in-law, you are in charge of how you react to the people and events in your life. You can either give negativity power over your life or you can choose happiness instead. Take control and choose to focus on what is important in your life. Those who cannot live fully often become destroyers of life."

I often see how you sob over what you destroy, how you want to stop and just worship; and you do sto...
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We are going to the moon that is not very far. Man has so much farther to go within himself.
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In chaos, there is fertility.
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In the world of the dreamer there was solitude: all the exaltations and joys came in the moment of p...
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Do not seek the because - in love there is no because, no reason, no explanation, no solutions.
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Man can never know the loneliness a woman knows. Man lies in the woman's womb only to gather strengt...
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I am an excitable person who only understands life lyrically, musically, in whom feelings are much s...
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Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by...
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The possession of knowledge does not kill the sense of wonder and mystery. There is always more myst...
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Reality doesn't impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shack...
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Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back, a new life, a...
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We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect.
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We travel, some of us forever, to seek other states, other lives, other souls.
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Everything with me is either worship and passion or pity and understanding. I hate rarely, though wh...
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What we call our destiny is truly our character and that character can be altered. The knowledge tha...
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Someone told me the delightful story of the crusader who put a chastity belt on his wife and gave th...
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I must be a mermaid, Rango. I have no fear of depths and a great fear of shallow living.
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We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are.
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Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies ...
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We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; ...
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And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to bl...
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I hate men who are afraid of women's strength.
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I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, w...
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The monster I kill every day is the monster of realism. The monster who attacks me every day is dest...
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How wrong is it for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it...
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Societies in decline have no use for visionaries.
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Then at certain moments I remember one of his words and I suddenly feel the sensual woman flaring up...
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She lacks the core of sureness, she craves admiration insatiably. She lives on reflections of hersel...
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I don't hear your words: your voice reverberates against my body like another kind of caress, anothe...
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This great handsomeness I took into myself later when he desired me, but I took it as one breathes a...
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His life rushes onward in such torrential rhythm that...only angels and devils can catch the tempo o...
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And sometimes I believe your relentless analysis of June leaves something out, which is your feeling...
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I love her for what she has dared to be, for her hardness, her cruelty, her egoism, her perverseness...
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I'm sick of my own romanticism!
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I want to make my own discoveries…….penetrate the evil which attracts me
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What can I do with my happiness? How can I keep it, conceal it, bury it where I may never lose it? I...
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I will always be the virgin-prostitute, the perverse angel, the two-faced sinister and saintly woman...
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Sometimes we reveal ourselves when we are least like ourselves.
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There are two ways to reach me: by way of kisses or by way of the imagination. But there is a hierar...
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If I fall asleep, it is because I am overloaded. I sleep because one hour with Henry contains five y...
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But I lie. I embellish. My words are not deep enough. They disguise, they conceal. I will not rest u...
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The impetus to grow and live intensely is so powerful in me I cannot resist it. I will work, I will ...
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He, who had done more than any human being to draw her out of the caves of her secret, folded life, ...
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I don’t really want to become normal, average, standard. I want merely to gain in strength, in the...
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All those who try to unveil the mysteries always have tragic lives. At the end they are always punis...
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You have a right to experiment with your life. You will make mistakes. And they are right too. No, I...
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Last night I wept. I wept because the process by which I have become woman was painful. I wept becau...
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I see enormous loves growing immense and finally crushing me.
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There is a perfection in everything that cannot be owned.
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You live like this, sheltered, in a delicate world, and you believe you are living. Then you read a ...
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Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstasy.
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I had a feeling that Pandora's box contained the mysteries of woman's sensuality, so different from ...
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I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my fe...
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There is not one big cosmic meaning for all; there is only the meaning we each give to our life, an ...
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When your beauty struck me, it dissolved me. Deep down, I am not different from you. I dreamed you, ...
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I’m restless. Things are calling me away. My hair is being pulled by the stars again.
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No man and woman know what will be born in the darkness of their intermingling; so much besides chil...
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The potion drunk by lovers is prepared by no one but themselves. The potion is the sum of one's whol...
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His entire body was pleading for reassurance, and if her whole love was not enough what else could s...
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And it is that which draws me to you, too, for you are the tropics, you have the sun in you, and the...
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The magic beauty of simultaneity, to see the loved one rushing toward you at the same moment you are...
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Every word spoken in the past accumulated forms and colors in the self. What flows through the veins...
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So many broken promises, each day an aborted wish, a lost object, a misplaced unread book, clutterin...
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In this instant of danger they realized they were each other's reason for living, and into this inst...
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When you're in my arms, I know you're mine. But your feet are so swift, so swift, they carry you as ...
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You are that to me, an oasis. You drug me and at the same time you give me strength.
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Love the great narcotic was the revealer in the alchemist's bottle rendering visible the most untrac...
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When you trust, you are tender and delicate, but when you doubt, you are dangerous and destructive
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I gathered poets around me and we all wrote beautiful erotica. As we were condemned to focus only on...
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At first she beckoned and lured one into her world; then, she blurred the passageways, confused all ...
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Paul, Paul, this is the claim you never made, the fervor you never showed. You were so cool and ligh...
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The fascination exerted by one human being over another is not what he emits of his personality at t...
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Ali Baba protects the lovers! Gives them the luck of bandits, and no guilt, for love fills certain p...
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They had reached a perfect moment of human love. They had created a moment of perfect understanding ...
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Every lover could be brought to trial as the murderer of his own love. When something hurts you, sad...
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I have raged at the wall growing between myself and others. I expect intuitive, miraculous understan...
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I looked at it [revolver] as if it reminded me of a crime I had committed with an irrepressible smil...
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At first I protested and rebelled against poetry. I was about to deny my poetic worlds. I was doing ...
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If what Proust says is true, that happiness is the absence of fever, then I will never know happines...
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You cannot save people. You can only love them.
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I must know, he thinks. It must be clear to me. There is a world which is closed to him, a world of ...
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The writer is the duelist who never fights at the stated hour, who gathers up an insult, like anothe...
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..he made me understand something very important. Whether because I am a Latin, or because I am a ne...
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June, you have killed my sincerity too. I will never again know who I am, what I am, what I love, wh...
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Don't wait for it," I said. "Create a world, your world. Alone. Stand alone. Create. And then the lo...
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A big enough artist, I say, can eat anything, must eat everything and then alchemize it. Only the fe...
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I only feel close to people who arouse my energy, who make enormous demands of me, who are capable o...
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She makes use of the soft of the bread for a napkin. She falls asleep at times with shoes on, on unm...
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The other night we talked about literature's elimination of the unessential, so that we are given a ...
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I palliate the sufferings of others. yes I see myself as softening the blows, dissolving acids, neut...
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The two men who have done the greatest harm to the world are Christ and Columbus. Christ taught us g...
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The struggle to emerge out of the past, clean of memories; the inadequacy of our hearts to cut life ...
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Sex must be mixed with tears, laughter, words, promises, scenes, jealousy, envy, all the spices of f...
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Ordinary life does not interest me. I seek only the high moments. I am in accord with the surrealist...
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I can elect something I love and absorb myself in it.
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Since desire always goes towards that which is our direct opposite, it forces us to love that which ...
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I am aware of being in a beautiful prison, from which I can only escape by writing.
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If I love you it means we share the same fantasies, the same madnesses
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I would like to have your sureness. I am waiting for love, the core of a woman's life."
Don't w...
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I have no brakes on...analysis is for those who are paralyzed by life.
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In my childhood diary I wrote: “I have decided that it is better not to love anyone, because when ...
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To think of him in the middle of the day lifts me out of ordinary living.
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Ordinary life does not interest me. I seek only the high moments. I am in accord with the surrealist...
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I disregard the proportions, the measures, the tempo of the ordinary world. I refuse to live in the ...
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The role of a writer is not to say what we can all say, but what we are unable to say.
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He was now in that state of fire that she loved. She wanted to be burnt.
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I am the most tired woman in the world. I am tired when I get up. Life requires an effort I cannot m...
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The drug of love was no escape, for in its coils lie latent dreams of greatness which awaken when me...
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We are like sculptors, constantly carving out of others the image we long for, need, love or desire,...
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Woman’s role in creation should be parallel to her role in life. I don’t mean the good earth. I ...
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You don't find love, it finds you. It's got a little bit to do with destiny, fate, and what's writte...
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With her eyes alone she could give this response, this absolutely erotic response, as if febrile wav...
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Anything I can not transform into something marvelous, I let go.
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Beware of allowing a tactless word, a rebuttal, a rejection to obliterate the whole sky
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Question: I am interested in so many things, and I have a terrible fear because my mother keeps tell...
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Like the Baron, Mathilde developed a formula for acting out life as a series of roles—that is, by ...
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They courted the face on the screen, the face of translucence, the face of wax on which men found it...
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Life is a full circle, widening until it joins the circle motions of the infinite.
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The man who was once starved may revenge himself upon the world not by stealing just once, or by ste...
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And in his eyes he had the look of the cat who inspires a desire to caress but loves no one, who nev...
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I feel a little like the moon who took possession of you for a moment and then returned your soul to...
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You do not know what you are missing by your microscopic examination of sexual activity to the exclu...
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Coming near him like a ballet dancer she took a leap towards him, and he, frightened by her vehemenc...
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I'm restless. Things are calling me away. My hair is being pulled by the stars again.
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Good things happen to those who hustle.
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To hell, to hell with balance! I break glasses; I want to burn, even if I break myself. I want to li...
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Our life is composed greatly from dreams, from the unconscious, and they must be brought into connec...
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I sat there for three hours and did not feel the time or the boredom of our talk and its foolish dis...
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I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don't know why, some people fill the gaps and others empha...
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I have such a fear of finding another like myself, and such a desire to find one! I am so utterly lo...
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Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to...
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I take pleasure in my transformations. I look quiet and consistent, but few know how many women ther...
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Something is always born of excess: great art was born of great terror, great loneliness, great inhi...
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When we blindly adopt a religion, a political system, a literary dogma, we become automatons.
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Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.
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There is no bleaker moment in life of the city than that one which crosses the boundary lines betwee...
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Last night I wept. I wept because the process by which I have become woman was painful. I wept becau...
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There were always in me, two women at least, one woman desperate and bewildered, who felt she was dr...
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I am not always just living, just following all my fantasies; I come up for air, for understanding.
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What I cannot love, I overlook.
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He never treated her as a wife. He wooed her over and over again, with presents, flowers, new pleasu...
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Luxury is not a necessity to me, but beautiful and good things are.
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Dreams are necessary to life.
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To commit suicide is easy. To live without a god is more difficult. The drunkenness of triumph is gr...
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I am like a snake who has already bitten. I retreat from a direct battle while knowing the slow effe...
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Again I take a taxi to Clichy address, but feel that I do not want to go on loving Henry more active...
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At five o'clock Paris always has a current of eroticism in the air.
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How well I know with what burning intensity you live. You have experienced many lives already, inclu...
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Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive.
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And the time came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to b...
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I believe that men are generally still a little afraid of the dark though the witches are all hung, ...
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I walked into my own book, seeking peace.
It was night, and I made a careless movement inside t...
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There is a fissure in my vision and madness will always rush through.
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There are many ways to be free. One of them is to transcend reality by imagination, as I try to do.
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If you do not breathe through writing, if you do not cry out in writing, or sing in writing, then do...
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Each contact with a human being is so rare, so precious, one should preserve it.
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The truly faithless one is the one who makes love to only a fraction of you. And denies the rest.
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My attraction to drugs is based on an immense desire to annihilate awareness.
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She is suspicious of words. She lives by her senses, by her intuition. We don’t have a language fo...
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The only abnormality is the incapacity to love.
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I postpone death by living, by suffering, by error, by risking, by giving, by losing.
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I believe one writes because one has to create a world in which one can live.
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I want to love you wildly. I don’t want words, but inarticulate cries, meaningless, from the botto...
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When one is pretending, the entire body revolts.
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Writers do not live one life, they live two. There is the living and then there is the writing. Ther...
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People living deeply have no fear of death.
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Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is t...
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The secret of joy is the mastery of pain.
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She lacks confidence, she craves admiration insatiably. She lives on the reflections of herself in t...
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For too many centuries women have been being muses to artists. I wanted to be the muse, I wanted to ...
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The enemy of a love is never outside, it's not a man or a woman, it's what we lack in ourselves.
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When I first met him, he did not care if a friend did not fit into his world, because at that time h...
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You carry away with you a reflection of me, a part of me. I dreamed you; I wished for your existence...
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Also, I do not like the companionship of women. They are petty and personal. They hang on to their m...
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A man fell in love with Jeanne, and she tried to love him. But she complained that he uttered such o...
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I am only responsible for my own heart, you offered yours up for the smashing my darling. Only a foo...
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You cannot do any more for me," I said. "Since I have begun to depend on you I feel weaker than ever...
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In the world of the dreamer there was solitude: all the exaltations and joys came in the moment of p...
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We don't see the world as it is, we see it as we are
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Stories are the only enchantment possible, for when we begin to see our suffering as a story, we are...
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I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don’t know why, some people fill the gaps and others emp...
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I want to do things so wild with you that I don't know how to say them.
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Pain is something to master, not to wallow in.
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[Y]ou have to learn to intake, to imbibe, to nourish yourself and not be afraid of fullness. The ful...
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Shame is the lie someone told you about yourself.
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Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age.
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I write emotional algebra.
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She was truthful, or I was the greatest dupe who ever existed. I can only believe in our ecstasy. I ...
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The only abnormality is the incapacity to love.
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The dream was always running ahead of me. To catch up, to live for a moment in unison with it, that ...
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How wrong it is for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it...
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Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds o...
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Each contact with a human being is so rare, so precious, one should preserve it.
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I postpone death by living, by suffering, by error, by risking, by giving, by losing.
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There are many ways to be free. One of them is to transcend reality by imagination, as I try to do.
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What I cannot love, I overlook. Is that real friendship?
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Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age.
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Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.
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The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say.
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Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It d...
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