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Related I want to coach high school football, and that's always what I've wanted to do. J. J. WATT I just wanted to play tennis. I started because I wanted to pick up another sport and then as I was ... JANA NOVOTNA I was well motivated. What I wanted to do was work for myself. I had twenty two jobs before I starte... BARBARA CORCORAN You know, I wanted to get married, and so I - but I, you know, I realize no matter what you want, it... NELLIE MCKAY I like to work; I like to be creative. I work in the entertainment industry where work may come up, ... LOUISE NURDING I never wanted to be famous. It was amusing at first, but now I hate it. I just wanted to be respect... CAITLIN MORAN I have no deep-seated desire to be famous; that's not what's driving me, so if it's some... CAM When I was really little, I wanted to be a wrestler so I could be like the girls I looked up to. My ... AJ LEE I can't tell if I want to be a rapper who's funny because I kind of enjoy just doing really ... AWKWAFINA I plan to coach at University of Louisville for as long as I can maintain the passion I have for the... RICK PITINO Sometimes I want to yell on this track; I want to yell the whole song, and I don't think nothing... SLIM JIMMY I wrote stories from the time I was a little girl, but I didn't want to be a writer. I wanted to... JOAN DIDION I just want to make music, I don't want people to talk about me. All I've ever wanted to do ... ADELE I never wanted to be a brand director. I didn't want that kind of stamp. I wanted to be more lik... RON HOWARD I never wanted to be that fad type of artist. When I looked up to artists, watching TV, I wanted to ... TYGA Everything I did is because I wanted to do it. If I weren't playing this arena, if I were playin... EDDIE VAN HALEN I never wanted to stay in one genre; I never wanted to be pigeon-holed or defined as the actor who o... DWAYNE JOHNSON I want a world without war, a world without insanity. I want to see people do well. I don't even... TOM CRUISE I think - you know, I want to intimidate people when I'm on the field. I want people to be scare... CARLI LLOYD I'm fortunate: I can play as long as I want to play. There's no coach or trainer who is goin... LLEYTON HEWITT I remember in high school thinking that I wanted to be a lawyer, and now I realize I saw that movie ... AARON DOUGLAS I started classes and it wasn't because I was like, 'I want to be an actor!' - I was rea... CAITY LOTZ If you had asked me back in grade school what I wanted to be when I grew up, I would have said my fi... VIN DIESEL If you want to coach, then that should be what you do, ... You have to want to wake up in the mornin... JAMES MCKEAN Anything you can do to express yourself is a form of art. That's why I love my craft so much. I ... EMILY RIOS I don't want to get married - I've been there and done that. So I know what I'm talking ... LONI LOVE In the Army, because the stakes are so high - right? - you can't just be a yes-man and say, '... H. R. MCMASTER There was a point when I was 15 or 16 that I realized that my father wanted me to be a loner. I deci... MARK VONNEGUT I can't sculpt. But if I were a sculptor, as you start to get something that actually looks like... STANLEY A. MCCHRYSTAL That's what I love about acting. There's never a set role. You can be a firefighter, you can... RYAN GUZMAN I want to be a great player. I don't want to play for the money. I don't want to play for fa... GAINES ADAMS I've always had a career. I have been working hard since I was 15 years old. Being someone's... ADRIENNE BAILON I've always said I've wanted to be around forever. I never wanted to be the latest, greatest... GARY ALLAN I didn't want to be an actress. I wanted to be a dentist, but you never know what life will brin... SOFIA VERGARA You can't compete with hip-hop. That doesn't mean I don't want to be as big as a rap sta... BRANDON FLOWERS I wanted to be a film student again, as a man in my 60s. To go someplace alone and see what you can ... FRANCIS FORD COPPOLA I wanted to create a heroine that was flawed. I wanted her to be a real person. She's selfish, s... AMBER BENSON I'm the champ that puns the camp! That's what I always wanted. I wanted to be seen as a main... BECKY LYNCH I want to get away from couture just being done for a picture or for a single moment on the red carp... RAF SIMONS I wanted to do 'Oh Shenandoah' because that's the town I was born in - as a tribute to m... CHARLIE HADEN There's no rule I want to break or ever wanted to break - I find the conventional life gratifyin... EDITH PEARLMAN I really knew I wanted to be Adam, because Adam was the first man. Ant I chose because, if there'... ADAM ANT My daughter's wanted to be an actress since she was six years old, but I didn't want her to ... RICKY SCHRODER For me, in terms of personal satisfaction, the mission's already accomplished. I already won. As... EDWARD SNOWDEN I don't want music to be a job for me; I want it to be something I'm doing for fun. As long ... ASTRO I don't want to play earnest. I'd rather play somebody who's kind of sleazy. It's mu... JACK COLEMAN I always wanted the films to play in malls, and I wanted as many people as possible to see them. I n... HARMONY KORINE If I wanted to make a quick buck, there's far easier ways of doing it. What I want is to provoke... AVICII I hope somebody falls in love with me - other than my fiancee. But that's what you want. As a pl... ROBERT GRIFFIN III That's where I got my start and where I'll continue to work, but I can't tell you the nu... KELLY LYNCH Often, if there's something that I want to do, but somehow can't get myself to do, it's ... GRETCHEN RUBIN I used to say that if something happened to my mother, I wanted to die with her. That's because ... STEVIE WONDER When I turned 12 or 13 years old, even as a dad, you can't make a kid play anymore, but up until... BILLY BUTLER So, from a very young age, my mom tells me that I wanted to be Michael J. Fox. I didn't want to ... PATRICK J. ADAMS I'm a piece of work, man. I will do what I want, at all times, always. Nobody's going to per... ACTION BRONSON If you think that by threatening me you can get me to do what you want... well, that's where you... VAL KILMER Maybe I wanted to have kids because you want to leave behind lessons, leave behind everything that m... MATTIE STEPANEK Even as a kid in drawing class, I had real ambition. I wanted to be the best in the class, but there... DAMIEN HIRST So many times, people want you to stay the way you were, be as you were before because they want to ... MAXWELL I didn't want to play a rancher. I didn't want to have a cowboy hat on; I wanted to get away... TIM MCGRAW When I was a kid I didn't know what I wanted to be when I grew up, but I did know what I didn... JODY WILLIAMS It's not that I wanted to be an actor; it's that I didn't want to be a dancer! I was tra... ZIYI ZHANG I was gonna be a cosmetologist. I didn't really want to. I wanted to be in a band. It kind of wo... BRENDON URIE System of a Down is the music that I wanted to buy but couldn't find at the store. It's the ... DARON MALAKIAN If I wasn't serving in Congress, I've always wanted to be a high school teacher. Specificall... BRAD SCHNEIDER You can do anything and be a star. You can dress like however you want, and you can do whatever you ... ALESSIA CARA I've still not written as well as I want to. I want to write so that the reader in Des Moines, I... MAYA ANGELOU The 'Sports Illustrated' cover was the last thing I shot. That week, I told my agent, 'Y... BROOKLYN DECKER I don't just want to be someone who hits the ball 100 per cent every time. You can play with fre... LAURA ROBSON No one knows for sure if you can inherit a stammer, and so I worry that my baby might. It's why ... GARETH GATES I kind of got my big break with 'The Princess Diaries' and during the press rounds for that ... ANNE HATHAWAY If it's a whole show of my own, I'll do more of what I think Del Shannon is. But for shows l... DEL SHANNON I'm on Facebook anonymously. I wanted to see how people use it, what's going on there, but I... PATRICK WHITESELL I don't want fame as far as the tweeting or the image of it. But, the idea of being famous is ac... EMILY MEADE I came in after the seventh and coach asked me if I wanted to finish. And of course I said yes becau... DAN DELUCIA If what you do is being threatened as a profession, that could be scary. But that's the same rea... MARILYN MANSON I actually have a life I said I wanted to have. I wanted to tell stories I want and be with my famil... HELEN HUNT I don't set goals. Like, that's what I want to be doing however many years from now. I do wh... AYUMI HAMASAKI It sounds kind of stupid, but I've never not wanted to be a musician. It's been inside me si... ZOLA JESUS You know what I want? The answer is, I truly don't know what I want. I don't want to do a te... MICHAEL J. FOX I can't do the same movies all my life. I'm conscious of that. But it's a trade-off. ... CHANNING TATUM As early as I can remember, I wanted to be a snowplow driver. When you grow up in the Rocky Mountain... KIP THORNE I like working. I wish I could say I made a deliberate choice to comedy, but it's just what came... JOHN C. REILLY I definitely see myself continuing to transition into more acting roles. I'll always be a coach.... RANDY COUTURE If you are given a chance to be a role model, I think you should always take it because you can infl... TIGER WOODS I gave up writing children's books. I wanted to escape from them as I had once wanted to escape ... A. A. MILNE You can't delete racism. It's like a cigarette. You can't stop smoking if you don't ... MARIO BALOTELLI Honestly, I don't look at it as work because I have way too much fun on set to actually classify... BILLY UNGER When I was a kid, I wanted to be a clown. I didn't want to be an actor, I wanted to join the cir... ERIC STONESTREET Everything I do, I want to be A.J. Styles. When you see a guy come out with dry, long hair, I want y... A.J. STYLES I do what I do to inspire people. They can't be inspired by an ego, a big-headed person. It does... LA'PORSHA RENAE Before acting, I wanted to become a journalist. I also toyed with the idea of being a chef - but tha... IAN MCKELLEN Sometimes I'm happy - you can tell via Twitter. Sometimes I'm pissed off - you can tell via ... WALE I've always wanted to be a fighter pilot. But I don't want to kill people. I'd hate to. MAX IRONS I didn't want to be a writer. First I wanted to act, and then I wanted to be a painter like my b... GAIL CARSON LEVINE I wanted to be looked at for the skateboarder that I was. I didn't want to be the 36-year-old sk... JASON LEE I don't want to put myself in any kind of a box as far as my sound goes, because being an artist... LUKE COMBS I always wanted to be a comedic actor - that's what I wanted from the job - to do comedy and to ... ADAM DEVINE Back in the day, when the D.J. would be playing a record, I'd be on the mic trying to hype up th... FLAVOR FLAV I don't choose something unless I think I have a personal understanding and something I can offe... RON HOWARD
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JOYCE CAROL OATES It isn't the subjects we write about but the seriousness and subtlety of our expression that determi... JOYCE CAROL OATES Literature, art, like civilization itself, are only accidents. JOYCE CAROL OATES ; so too, her glazed ceramics and her macramé are interchangeable with those executed by her women ... JOYCE CAROL OATES Love is somthing that can not be explained - the force that drives us to protect the ones we care ... ADAM Good people eat all their veggies and all the fruits, but they still have good grades. I call this, ... ADAM Sometimes the world seems like a big hole. You spend all your life shouting down it and all you hear... ADAM DURITZ Holiday binge-buying has deep roots in American culture: department stores have been associating tur... ADAM DAVIDSON I auditioned in Chicago for Juilliard and didn't get in. I was basically living in a back room o... ADAM DRIVER When I was getting started, I was so busy just fighting my way through, and I was under contract at ... ADAM WEST There is a very thin line between confidence and arrogance. ADAM PEATY When you wear a mask and create a character, nothing will pigeonhole you faster. ADAM WEST You may love football, but that doesn't mean you have any business trying to play the sport. It&... ADAM GREEN Once people take ownership over the decision to receive feedback, they're less defensive about i... ADAM GRANT So many people witness atrocities and can't take their eyes away from them, but that doesn't... ADAM LEVINE