Veronica Roth quote: "I fell in love with him. But I don't just stay with him by default as if there's no one else available to me. I stay with him because I choose to, every day that I wake up, every day that we fight or lie to each other or disappoint each other. I choose him over and over again, and he chooses me."

If you actually succeed in creating a utopia, you've created a world without conflict, in which ...
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It's not that I ever sat down and outlined a trilogy, but I always have a sense of what size an ...
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Seeing people who are actually reading your book and listening to the wide variety of reactions they...
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I always appreciate people's opinions, but sometimes I have to take a step back and remember why...
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I really like the group tour better than going it alone. First of all, it kind of takes the pressure...
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I think it's fascinating to look at a world that an author has created that has sort of stemmed ...
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I think everyone's a little afraid of being part of a trend, because you get compared to each ot...
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I love 'Harry Potter.' I'm a huge nerd - I would dress up if I could.
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I know exactly what it's like to stand on top of a tall building or in a high place and look dow...
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When you're a teenager, everything seems like the end of the world, and I don't think that&#...
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I don't really think about what's 'age appropriate' for my audience because I think ...
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I want people to come away from my book with questions. Questions about virtue and goodness. Not ans...
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If utopian fiction became the new trend, I wouldn't read it.
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People make me key chains... someone attached a Dauntless symbol to a silver pen. That one is what I...
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When you're a writer, you hear your internal critic, and that's really hard to get over. And...
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'Divergent' was my utopian world. I mean, that wasn't the plan. I never even set out to ...
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There's really no way to be perfect. Perfectionism is a silly trait to have, so in a lot of ways...
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I think it's a human tendency that's been around for a while to try to be as good as possibl...
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Maybe it's a little depressing to think that my vision of a perfect world is actually so messed ...
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Cruelty does not make a person dishonest, the same way bravery does not make a person kind.
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I tell myself, as sternly as possible, that is how things work here. We do dangerous things and peop...
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Human reason can excuse any evil.
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We believe in ordinary acts of bravery, in the courage that drives one person to stand up for anothe...
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Two things you should know about me; The first is that I am deeply suspicious of people in general. ...
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But I think that no matter how smart, people usually see what they're already looking for, that's al...
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No matter how long you train someone to be brave, you never know if they are or not until something ...
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I touch her cheek to slow the kiss down, holding her mouth on mine so I can feel every place where o...
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We are not people who touch each other carelessly; every point of contact between us feels important...
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...there is power in self-sacrifice.
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The Amity exchange smiles. They are dressed comfortably in red or yellow. Every time I see them, the...
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A son says to his Mother: "Mother, today I fought with my friend."
His Mother says: "Why did yo...
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I'm not abnegation, I'm not dauntless, I am Divergent
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Can you tell me where to find Tobias'? I ask. When I imagine his face, affection for him bubbles up ...
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Can I be forgiven for all I've done to get here?
I want to be.
I can.
I believe it.
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Knowledge is power. Power to do evil...or power to do good. Power itself is not evil. So knowledge i...
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Lies require commitment.
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I could never hurt him enough to make his betrayal stop hurting. And it hurts, in every part of my b...
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A brave man acknowledges the strength of others.
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Sleep,” he says. “I'll fight the bad dreams off if they come to get you.” “With what?” “...
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I think you're still the only person sharp enough to sharpen someone like me.
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I belong to the people I love, and they belong to me--they, and the love and loyaty I give them, for...
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Some things are hard to let go of.
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Fear doesn't shut you down; it wakes you up
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Tris," he says. "What did they do to you? You're acting like a lunatic."
"That's not very nice ...
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Can you be a girl for a few seconds?"
"I'm always a girl" I frown.
"You know what I mean. ...
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When her body first hit the net, all I registered was a gray blur. I pulled her across it and her ha...
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There are so many ways to be brave in this world. Sometimes bravery involves laying down your life f...
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You don’t believe things because they make your life better, you believe them because they’re tr...
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We believe that preparation eradicates cowardice, which we define as the failure to act in the midst...
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What did you do?” I mumble. He is just a few feet away from me now, but not close enough to hear m...
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Becoming fearless isn't the point. That's impossible. It's learning how to control your fear, and ho...
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Then I realize what it is. It's him. Something about him makes me feel like I am about to fall. Or t...
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I have something I need to tell you," he says. I run my fingers along the tendons in his hands and l...
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Ich habe sie Erfahrung gemacht, dass die Menschen aus vielen verschiedenen Schichten von Geheimnisse...
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Dead people can be our heroes because they cant disappoint us later; they only improve over time, as...
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I feel like myself, strong and weak at once - allowed, at least for a little while, to be both.
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As a teenager, I put a lot of pressure on myself, and a lot of that, for me, was about finding a mor...
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I didn't know that idiocy caused people to just start spontaneously bleeding from the nose.
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There is a difference between admitting and confessing. Admitting involves softening, making excuses...
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Caleb," I say, "I love you."
His eyes gleam with tear as he says, "I love you, too, Beatrice.
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I don’t know how long it takes for me to realize that isn’t going to happen,
that she is go...
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Pride is what killed Al, and it is the flaw in every Dauntless heart. It is in mine.
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It's what you deserve to hear," I say firmly, my eyes going cloudy with tears. "That you're whole, t...
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Sometimes I still forget to look for the gentler parts of her. For so long all I saw was the strengt...
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Take a person’s memories, and you change who they are.
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But that wasn´t the first time I ever saw her. I saw her in the hallways at school, and at my mothe...
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I love you" I say.
"I love you, too" he says. "I'll see you soon.
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Yeah, sometimes life really sucks," she says. "But you know what I'm holding on for?"

I r...
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The first step to loving someone else is to recognize the evil in ourselves, so we can forgive them.
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If I don't survive," I say, "tell Tobias I didn't want to leave him.
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The person you became with her is worth being.
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Change, like healing, takes time.
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You're not very nice," I say, grinning.
"You're one to talk."
"Hey, I could be nice if I t...
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I'll say it one last time: Be brave.
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She taught me all about real sacrifice. That it should be done from love... That it should be done f...
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I wonder if fears ever really go away, or if they just lose their power over us.
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I suppose a fire that burns that bright is not meant to last.
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In my own relationships, I know that I should break up with someone who doesn't encourage me to ...
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I regret..." Tobias tilts his head, and sighs. "I regret my choice."
"What Choice?"
"Daunt...
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I have realized that part of being Dauntless is being willing to make things more difficult for your...
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Human reason can excuse any evil; that is why it's so important that we don't rely on it.
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For a few minutes we kiss, deep in the chasm, with the roar of water all around us. And we rise, han...
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People tend to overestimate my character," I say quietly. "They think that because I'm small, or a g...
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You think giving you a hug would give away too much?" he says.
"You know," I say. "I really don...
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One Choice

One Choice, decided your friends.

One Choice, defines your beliefs....
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Human beings as a whole cannot be good for long before the bad creeps back in and poisons us again.
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You know, most boys would enjoy being trapped in close quarters with a girl." I roll my eyes.
"...
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I feel his heartbeat against my cheek,as fast as my own.
"Are you afraid of me, too, Tobias?" VERONICA ROTH

Somewhere inside me is a merciful, forgiving person. Somewhere there is a girl who tries to understa...
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Four flips the gun in this hand, presses the barrel to Peter's forehead, and clicks a bullet into pl...
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Who cares about pretty? I'm going for noticeable.
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Moths," repeats Will. "You're afraid of moths?"

"Not just a cloud of moths," she says, "...
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Sometimes, the best way to help someone is just to be near them.
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I feel like someone breathed new air into my lungs. I am not Abnegation. I am not Dauntless.
I...
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It must require bravery to be honest all the time.
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Politeness is deception in pretty packaging.
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You think my first instinct is to protect you. Because you're small, or a girl, or a Stiff. But you'...
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I am selfish. I am brave.
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Sometimes crying or laughing are the only options left, and laughing feels better right now.
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Peter would probably throw a party if I stopped breathing.'

'Well,' he says, 'I would onl...
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I have a theory that selflessness and bravery aren't all that different.
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Living without virtues is to live divorced from society, seperated from the most important thing in ...
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I don't need to relive my fears anymore. All I need to do now is try to overcome them.
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The opinions of others cannot damage you.
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It isn’t right to wish pain on other people just because they hurt me first.
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Since I was young, I have always known this: Life damages us, every one. We can’t escape that dama...
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She said that everyone has some evil inside them, and the first step to loving anyone is to recogniz...
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What do you think they're going to do to us when they find us guilty?" she says after a few minutes ...
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What has become clear is that lies are just a temporary solution to a permanent problem. Lying to sp...
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I believe in ordinary acts of bravery, in the courage that drives one person to stand up for another...
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Awkwardness aside, it's nice to be liked.
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This body had carried me through a hard life. It looked exactly the way it was supposed to.
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Soft hearts make the universe worth living in.
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I might be in love with you." He smiles a little. "I'm waiting until I'm sure to tell you, though.
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But when I do feel all the strength go out of me, and I fall to my knees beside the table and I thin...
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Grief is not as heavy as guilt, but it takes more away from you.
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Part of me wonders if this is a suicide mission disguised as a game.
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I’m not important. Everyone will do just fine without me,” I say.
“Who cares about everyo...
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Like a wild animal, the truth is too powerful to remain caged.
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Got that gun?” Peter says to Tobias. “No,” says Tobias, “I figured I would shoot the bullets...
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People, I have discovered, are layers and layers of secrets. You believe you know them, that you und...
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His hands shift to my shoulders, and his fingers brush over the edge of my bandage. He pulls back wi...
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With four? Doing a little... Addition? Multiplication?
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He bends over to untie his shoes. “So, have you been ostracized from your little crowd of devotees...
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Why do you say vague things if you don't want to be asked about them?
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Sorry, am I being rude?" she asks.
"I'm used to saying whatever is on my mind. Mom used to say ...
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Any idiot can stand in front of a target. It doesn't prove anything except that you're bullying him....
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We've all started to put down the virtues of the other factions in the process of bolstering our own...
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Learning how to think in the midst of fear is a lesson that everyone needs to learn.
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Looks like someone had a mood swing.” She rolls her eyes. “Like you don’t want to
know wh...
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Do remember, though, that sometimes the people you oppress become mightier than you would like.
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He told me once to be brave, and though I have stood still while knives spun toward my face and jump...
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The truth has a way of changing people's plans.
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We both have war inside us. Sometimes it keeps us alive. Sometimes it threatens to destroy us.
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All three combined is...a different kind of stupid formerly unheard of by humankind.
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My natural tendency toward sarcasm is still not appreciated.
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Lynn, she saved half our faction from this stuff," says Marlene, tapping the bandage on her a...
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His absence will haunt their hallways, and he will be a space they can't fill. And then time will pa...
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That our world is so massive that it is completely out of our control, that we cannot possibly be as...
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. . . in the distance I hear a train rushing over the rails, but we are moving away from this place ...
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How many different kinds of ruin do you have to see, before you resign yourself to calling it all 'r...
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She is a woman of muscle twisted around bone.
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This concept could easily have gone awry. Stories about love tend to go that way sometimes. They wan...
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It's stupid to miss a thing when there are so many people to miss instead, but I miss this train alr...
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Everything - our houses, our clothes, our hairstyles - is meant to help us forget ourselves and to p...
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What did you do?" I scream.
"You die, I die too.
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His fingers slide into my hair, and I hold on to his arms to stay steady as we press together like t...
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There's a reason why she left them, Lauren," he says. His voice is deep, and it rumbles. "What's you...
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I deposited Drew at the infirmary a half hour ago.
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I would like to experience this 'date' phenomenon.
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And don't call me 'Four', okay? It's nice to hear my name again.
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I push open the door just as Tobias, who is sitting on the floor with one leg stretched out, hurls a...
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I have a scar - a faint gouge in my knee from when I fell down on the sidewalk as a child. It's alwa...
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In them we find administrators and teachers and counselors and leaders and protectors. In them we fi...
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I have to get out.
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Today you will choose your factions. Until this point you have followed your parents’ paths, your ...
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she sighs, then breaks a piece off the muffin in my hand. 'Hey. There are plenty more just five feet...
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Dauntless,' he says. 'I was born for Abnegation. I was planning on leaving Dauntless, and becoming f...
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His eyes search the crowd until they find my face. My heartbeat lives in my throat; lives in my chee...
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If we stay together, I'll have to forgive you over and over again, and if you're still in this, you'...
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Tris," Tobias says, crouching next to me. His face is pale, almost yellow.
There is too much I ...
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You die, I die too.
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Whoa there, Tobias," says the man to my left. "Weren't you raised a Stiff? I thought the most you pe...
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I fit my mouth to his and he tastes like water and smells like fresh air. I drag my hand from his ne...
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Come on,'he says.' I have something else to show you.
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Why is your heart racing Tris?
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You don't have to tell me everything right away, but I have to tell you everything right away? Can't...
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Your daughter is doing well here. I've been overseeing her training."
Since when does "overseei...
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I'll be your family now," he says.
"I love you," I say. (....)
He stares at me. I wait wi...
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People are supossed to aspire to become their fathers, not shudder at the thought.
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Sometimes, all it takes to save people from a terrible fate is one person willing to do something ab...
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Now she looks pale and small, but her eyes make me think of wide- open skies that I have never actua...
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I understand why she did all those things, but that doesn't mean we aren't still broken.
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In the days that follow, it's movement, not stillness, that helps to keep the grief at bay.
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All I can do is stand still- I feel like if I just stand still, I can stop it from being true, I can...
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I keep finding myself stifled by the company of others and then crippled by loneliness when I leave ...
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Simulation Tobias kisses my neck.

I try to think. I have to face the fear. I have to take...
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He slides his hand over my cheek, one finger anchored behind my ear. Then he tilts his head down and...
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Okay, okay.” I set my hand on top of his and guide it to my chest, so it’s right over my heart. ...
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Resisting is worth doing.
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Someone shouts, "Enough!" and I think too much and nothing at all.
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I want to be brave, and selfless, and smart, and kind, and honest.
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One thing I know: For helping me forget how awful the world is, I prefer her to alcohol.
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I never used to understand why people bothered to hold hands as they walked, but then he runs one of...
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It isn't just brave that she died for me; it is brave that she did it without announcing it, without...
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One choice can transform you.
One choice can destroy you.
Once choice will define you.
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It is more important for you to be safe than right, for the time being. Understand? (...) But please...
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Every faction conditions its members to think and act a certain way. And most people do it. For most...
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My name is Four,” I say. “Call me ‘Stiff’ again and you and I will have a problem.
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And I'm the kind of person who does not let inconsequential things like boys and near death experien...
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He turns toward me. I want to touch him, but I’m afraid of his bareness; afraid that he will make ...
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Yeah, well," I say, "I left Abnegation because I wasn't selfless enough, no matter how hard I tried ...
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Okay. Then...I can talk. Ask me something."
"Okay." He laughs shakily in my ear. "Why is your h...
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You nearly died today,' he says. 'I almost shot you. Why didn't you shoot me, Tris?'
'I couldn'...
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I release the trigger of my gun and drop it. Before I can lose my nerve, I turn and press my forehea...
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We believe in ordinary acts of bravery, in the courage that drives one person to stand up for anothe...
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Now i remember why I chose Dauntless. Not because they were brave or anything. But because they were...
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The knife will only hurt for a moment. Then your choice will be made, and it will all be over.
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Killing you is not the worst thing they can do to you," I say. "Controlling you is.
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But you should know that about Dauntless- girl, guy, whatever, it doesn't matter here. What matters ...
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I fell in love with him. But I don't just stay with him by default as if there's no one else available to me. I stay with him because I choose to, every day that I wake up, every day that we fight or lie to each other or disappoint each other. I choose him over and over again, and he chooses me.

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