I gathered poets around me and we all wrote beautiful erotica. As we were condemned to focus only on sensuality, we had violent explosions of poetry. Writing erotica became a road to sainthood rather than to debauchery.
Anaïs Nin
Related It's a lie to think that you are not good enough. It's a lie to think that you are not beautiful. It... DISON ARNIBAL See the world as it is, not as you wish it would be E. LOCKHART What will happen if we go to 0 day? ... Everything has been wipe out from the techno... DEYTH BANGER In practice, attempts to sort out good erotica from bad porn inevitably comes down to: What turns me... ELLEN WILLIS People who label erotica writers as sluts/men-whores remind me of the mob that once condemned smart ... ANNA BAYES What is classical music if not the epitome of sensuality, passion and understated erotica that popul... LARA ST. JOHN What is classical music if not the epitome of sensuality, passion, and understated erotica that popu... LARA ST. JOHN I'm writing a new book right now that is like an erotica manifesto. SUSIE BRIGHT Each of us views life through a different lens. What we think is colored by the baggage we carry, an... LAURIE BUCHANAN, PHD As a techdomme I love to take control of your digital life, your PC and of course that will have REA... MISTRESS HARLEY Why do I write? Out of fear. Out of fear that the memory of the people I write about might go lost. ... FABRIZIO DE ANDRé The Language Poets are writing only about language itself. The Ashbery poets are writing only about ... ROBERT MORGAN We should stop trying to find differences between one another, and focus on our similarities. BEN OAK Erotica is pornography I am willing to publicly admit I like. SPIDER ROBINSON An editor asked me what led me to write erotica. I replied, "A dirty mind, excess words, and an over... FIERCE DOLAN The island is ours. Here, in some way, we are young forever. E.LOCKHART اگر میخواهید جایی زندگی کنید که مردمش از موش ها نمیترسن... EMILY LOCKHART You hate cake doughnuts." "Of course," says Mirren. "But we didn't get the cake, we got glazed ... E.LOCKHART There are parallel universes in which different events have happened to the same people. An alternat... E. LOCKHEART There is not even a scrabble word for how bad I feel. E. LOCKHEART He was contemplation and enthusiasm. Ambition and strong coffee. E. LOCKHART Johnny, he is bounce, effort, and snark. Mirren, she is sugar, curiosity, and rain. Gat, h... E.LOCKHART Everything doesn't seem like anything when you love someone. Especially when you're young. E. LOCKHART Air is approximately 21% oxygen, our brains feed off of oxygen. So basically we are all airheads. ANDONI GARCIA Inspired By Beauty In Creation We Are One DANIEL GILMAN And when I saw you kissing that girl My heart, it shattered and my eyes, they watered And ... KATE NASH Most of us think we're too busy or too important to rest for a day. CRAIG GROESCHEL The difference between pornography and erotica is lighting. GLORIA LEONARD I know what you might be thinking here on your own, but those thoughts won’t last for ever,’ I s... SARAH MOORE FITZGERALD The writer is the duelist who never fights at the stated hour, who gathers up an insult, like anothe... ANAïS NIN We are far from perfect but willing to be different. CRAIG GROESCHEL Destiny consist in the moments that we experienced, and not in the choices we have to do. DANIEL MELGAçO When someone says we need to talk , what he or she usually means is you will listen . An... JAMES ANDERSON She is sugar, curiosity, and rain. E. LOCKHART When I taught at the University of Houston in the Creative Writing program, we required the poets to... EDWARD HIRSCH There is a perfection in everything that cannot be owned. ANAïS NIN An Error is like Salt and A 'Sincere' Apology is like Water and a ''Repeated Same Error'' is like a ... ANUROOP TYAGI The words you can’t find, you borrow. We read to know we’re not alone. We read because w... GABRIELLE ZEVIN suffer. you could say it means endure, but thats not exactly right E. LOCKHART Suffer. You could say it means endure, but that's not exactly right E. LOCKHART Sleep is an eight-hour peep show of infantile erotica. J. G. BALLARD Pornography is about dominance. Erotica is about mutuality. GLORIA STEINEM As for myself: I had come to the conclusion that there was nothing sacred about myself or any human ... KURT VONNEGUT Love is purpose and we all have love so we all have a purpose PARKER LOUIS SEELY The fact is that if the writer's attention is on producing a work of art, a work that is good in its... FLANNERY O'CONNOR The market is still waiting for HSBC results, which will have a big impact on the direction of the m... ANDREW TO Property shares had a technical rebound, but interest rate concerns will still affect properties unt... ANDREW TO Bank of China's results were quite good; double-digit growth can be taken as good results for a bank... ANDREW TO The index tried to challenge 18,000 but failed, so that triggered profit taking. Tokyo's slide also ... ANDREW TO Trading seems to be focusing on selective counters because investors are cautious amid interest rate... ANDREW TO We're seeing a minor technical rebound after Wall Street rebounded from two days of losses. The key ... ANDREW TO Some investors have returned to pick up the stock at bargain prices. ANDREW TO I think the take-up for the placement is not too good and other property developers may be discourag... ANDREW TO We are afraid that our freedoms and liberties will be infringed in the future. ANDREW TO I think there was some minor selling pressure on telecom stocks as the market continued to see a wea... ANDREW TO Erotica is using a feather, pornography is using the whole chicken. ISABEL ALLENDE Erotica is using a feather; pornograpy is using the whole chicken. ISABEL ALLENDE The Bible consistently and directly indicates that when we give generously, we're serving, honoring,... CRAIG GROESCHEL Maybe Gloria Steinem can tell the difference between pornography and erotica at a single glance. I c... JOANNA RUSS I think we were all relieved that we had something we could focus on. ADAM CARTER We actually wrote the record in and out of Canada, where we live, in sort of cottage country. ... We... ADAM GONTIER It changed poetry for ever in the UK. It led to readings all over the country. You suddenly got more... ADRIAN MITCHELL I only wrote prose before I met you. My musings were superfluous and serious as well. Bu... KAMAND KOJOURI My hearing loss was essentially due to noise exposure during my military service. I was on an anti-s... NORM CROSBY 35. God is entitled to a portion of our income—not because He needs it but because we need to give... JAMES C. DOBSON We are all disciples of the light. STEVEN MAGEE Never eat anything bigger than your ass. E. LOCKHART We are Sinclairs. Beautiful. Privileged. Damaged. Liar. We live, least in the summertime, on a priva... E. LOCKHART I quickly scoop up the rest of my personal life on display on the sidewalk and I'm relieved that I h... VI KEELAND All right. Have it your own way. Road to hell paved with unbought stuffed dogs.Not my fault. ERNEST HEMINGWAY We have some goats, some chickens, and we used to have pigs. There used to be two ostriches as well,... JESSICA SPRINGSTEEN Writing it was kind of hard, ... I wrote a lot of it on the road, and I don't really enjoy writing o... DIERKS BENTLEY People see what they want to see SUSAN BETH PFEFFER Who cares what are you eating?? Who cares where are you? Who cares what are you posting??<... DEYTH BANGER We dream that we're all different. The reality is that we're all not. ANTHONY T. HINCKS . . .because we had survived sisters and brothers, daughters and sons, we discovered bones... LISEL MUELLER Whatever we focus on determines how we feel. And how we feelour
state of
mindpowerfully
influences o... ANTHONY ROBBINS Richie came to see one of my shows. Afterwards he made a point of meeting me and saying: "I'm the gu... JON BON JOVI The show was very emotional. We all have so much experience that we were trying to trick ourselves i... CHRIS CORNELL Broken down into manageable chunks, the biggest projects become easy to conquer. MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN By giving yourself less time, you'll work faster, concentrate more intensely, and perform at peak ef... MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN It takes almost as much effort to NOT do something, as it does to do it. MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN Often our biggest distractions are not external, but come from within. Get out of your own way! MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN Focus isn't just working with single-minded devotion to a purpose. It's also working ONLY on things ... MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN Some people spend a lifetime chasing the wrong goals. They work with extreme focus - but it doesn't ... MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN Your ability to sustain focus depends on how enjoyable and productive it is. MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN Take power breaks every hour. Schedule tougher tasks for the time when you are most productive. MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN Find your true passion. Tap into the endless inspiration & energy it provides. Your focus will o... MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN Focus can become an obsession... But your ability to sustain the drive to focus will depend upon how... MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN Prostitution, perversion, and pornography are intertwined with independence and radical politics in ... PATRICK CALIFIA-RICE We came in and had a set goal in mind. We knew what we had to do was control the tempo. I knew I had... DENA SANTORO There's no "i" in we, but it is in egoic. When you think about we instead of me, then and only then ... CELESTINE L. GRAY A Ritual to Read to Each Other If you don’t know the kind of person I am and... WILLIAM STAFFORD [The maiden Olympics had more to protest about than mere war, though. Central to its ethos was a rej... ADRIAN MITCHELL ...she knew right away she was entering a new world. One she had never witnessed or played a part in... TALON P.S. Your "Not To Do" list is also important. MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN But in the early 1970s, we were not birdwatching. We were birding, and that made all the difference.... KENN KAUFMAN If it isn't contributing to getting you where you want to be a year from today, then don't put it on... MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN He looks up and the loss in his Noise is so great it feels like I'm standing on the edge of an abyss... PATRICK NESS I am aware that everyone that exists has a story, and we all exist because that story is important f... ARZELL
More Anaïs Nin
I often see how you sob over what you destroy, how you want to stop and just worship; and you do sto... ANAïS NIN We are going to the moon that is not very far. Man has so much farther to go within himself. ANAïS NIN In chaos, there is fertility. ANAïS NIN In the world of the dreamer there was solitude: all the exaltations and joys came in the moment of p... ANAïS NIN Do not seek the because - in love there is no because, no reason, no explanation, no solutions. ANAïS NIN Man can never know the loneliness a woman knows. Man lies in the woman's womb only to gather strengt... ANAïS NIN I am an excitable person who only understands life lyrically, musically, in whom feelings are much s... ANAïS NIN Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by... ANAïS NIN The possession of knowledge does not kill the sense of wonder and mystery. There is always more myst... ANAïS NIN Reality doesn't impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shack... ANAïS NIN Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back, a new life, a... ANAïS NIN We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect. ANAïS NIN We travel, some of us forever, to seek other states, other lives, other souls. ANAïS NIN Everything with me is either worship and passion or pity and understanding. I hate rarely, though wh... ANAïS NIN What we call our destiny is truly our character and that character can be altered. The knowledge tha... ANAïS NIN Someone told me the delightful story of the crusader who put a chastity belt on his wife and gave th... ANAïS NIN I must be a mermaid, Rango. I have no fear of depths and a great fear of shallow living. ANAïS NIN We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are. ANAïS NIN Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies ... ANAïS NIN We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; ... ANAïS NIN And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to bl... ANAïS NIN I hate men who are afraid of women's strength. ANAïS NIN I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, w... ANAïS NIN The monster I kill every day is the monster of realism. The monster who attacks me every day is dest... ANAïS NIN How wrong is it for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it... ANAïS NIN Societies in decline have no use for visionaries. ANAïS NIN Then at certain moments I remember one of his words and I suddenly feel the sensual woman flaring up... ANAïS NIN She lacks the core of sureness, she craves admiration insatiably. She lives on reflections of hersel... ANAïS NIN I don't hear your words: your voice reverberates against my body like another kind of caress, anothe... ANAïS NIN This great handsomeness I took into myself later when he desired me, but I took it as one breathes a... ANAïS NIN His life rushes onward in such torrential rhythm that...only angels and devils can catch the tempo o... ANAïS NIN And sometimes I believe your relentless analysis of June leaves something out, which is your feeling... ANAïS NIN I love her for what she has dared to be, for her hardness, her cruelty, her egoism, her perverseness... ANAïS NIN I'm sick of my own romanticism! ANAïS NIN I want to make my own discoveries…….penetrate the evil which attracts me ANAïS NIN What can I do with my happiness? How can I keep it, conceal it, bury it where I may never lose it? I... ANAïS NIN I will always be the virgin-prostitute, the perverse angel, the two-faced sinister and saintly woman... ANAïS NIN Sometimes we reveal ourselves when we are least like ourselves. ANAïS NIN There are two ways to reach me: by way of kisses or by way of the imagination. But there is a hierar... ANAïS NIN If I fall asleep, it is because I am overloaded. I sleep because one hour with Henry contains five y... ANAïS NIN But I lie. I embellish. My words are not deep enough. They disguise, they conceal. I will not rest u... ANAïS NIN The impetus to grow and live intensely is so powerful in me I cannot resist it. I will work, I will ... ANAïS NIN He, who had done more than any human being to draw her out of the caves of her secret, folded life, ... ANAïS NIN I don’t really want to become normal, average, standard. I want merely to gain in strength, in the... ANAïS NIN All those who try to unveil the mysteries always have tragic lives. At the end they are always punis... ANAïS NIN You have a right to experiment with your life. You will make mistakes. And they are right too. No, I... ANAïS NIN Last night I wept. I wept because the process by which I have become woman was painful. I wept becau... ANAïS NIN I see enormous loves growing immense and finally crushing me. ANAïS NIN There is a perfection in everything that cannot be owned. ANAïS NIN You live like this, sheltered, in a delicate world, and you believe you are living. Then you read a ... ANAïS NIN Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstasy. ANAïS NIN I had a feeling that Pandora's box contained the mysteries of woman's sensuality, so different from ... ANAïS NIN I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my fe... ANAïS NIN There is not one big cosmic meaning for all; there is only the meaning we each give to our life, an ... ANAïS NIN When your beauty struck me, it dissolved me. Deep down, I am not different from you. I dreamed you, ... ANAïS NIN I’m restless. Things are calling me away. My hair is being pulled by the stars again. ANAïS NIN No man and woman know what will be born in the darkness of their intermingling; so much besides chil... ANAïS NIN The potion drunk by lovers is prepared by no one but themselves. The potion is the sum of one's whol... ANAïS NIN His entire body was pleading for reassurance, and if her whole love was not enough what else could s... ANAïS NIN And it is that which draws me to you, too, for you are the tropics, you have the sun in you, and the... ANAïS NIN The magic beauty of simultaneity, to see the loved one rushing toward you at the same moment you are... ANAïS NIN Every word spoken in the past accumulated forms and colors in the self. What flows through the veins... ANAïS NIN So many broken promises, each day an aborted wish, a lost object, a misplaced unread book, clutterin... ANAïS NIN In this instant of danger they realized they were each other's reason for living, and into this inst... ANAïS NIN When you're in my arms, I know you're mine. But your feet are so swift, so swift, they carry you as ... ANAïS NIN You are that to me, an oasis. You drug me and at the same time you give me strength. ANAïS NIN Love the great narcotic was the revealer in the alchemist's bottle rendering visible the most untrac... ANAïS NIN When you trust, you are tender and delicate, but when you doubt, you are dangerous and destructive ANAïS NIN At first she beckoned and lured one into her world; then, she blurred the passageways, confused all ... ANAïS NIN Paul, Paul, this is the claim you never made, the fervor you never showed. You were so cool and ligh... ANAïS NIN The fascination exerted by one human being over another is not what he emits of his personality at t... ANAïS NIN Ali Baba protects the lovers! Gives them the luck of bandits, and no guilt, for love fills certain p... ANAïS NIN They had reached a perfect moment of human love. They had created a moment of perfect understanding ... ANAïS NIN Every lover could be brought to trial as the murderer of his own love. When something hurts you, sad... ANAïS NIN I have raged at the wall growing between myself and others. I expect intuitive, miraculous understan... ANAïS NIN I looked at it [revolver] as if it reminded me of a crime I had committed with an irrepressible smil... ANAïS NIN At first I protested and rebelled against poetry. I was about to deny my poetic worlds. I was doing ... ANAïS NIN If what Proust says is true, that happiness is the absence of fever, then I will never know happines... ANAïS NIN You cannot save people. You can only love them. ANAïS NIN I must know, he thinks. It must be clear to me. There is a world which is closed to him, a world of ... ANAïS NIN The writer is the duelist who never fights at the stated hour, who gathers up an insult, like anothe... ANAïS NIN ..he made me understand something very important. Whether because I am a Latin, or because I am a ne... ANAïS NIN June, you have killed my sincerity too. I will never again know who I am, what I am, what I love, wh... ANAïS NIN Don't wait for it," I said. "Create a world, your world. Alone. Stand alone. Create. And then the lo... ANAïS NIN A big enough artist, I say, can eat anything, must eat everything and then alchemize it. Only the fe... ANAïS NIN I only feel close to people who arouse my energy, who make enormous demands of me, who are capable o... ANAïS NIN She makes use of the soft of the bread for a napkin. She falls asleep at times with shoes on, on unm... ANAïS NIN The other night we talked about literature's elimination of the unessential, so that we are given a ... ANAïS NIN I palliate the sufferings of others. yes I see myself as softening the blows, dissolving acids, neut... ANAïS NIN The two men who have done the greatest harm to the world are Christ and Columbus. Christ taught us g... ANAïS NIN The struggle to emerge out of the past, clean of memories; the inadequacy of our hearts to cut life ... ANAïS NIN Sex must be mixed with tears, laughter, words, promises, scenes, jealousy, envy, all the spices of f... ANAïS NIN Ordinary life does not interest me. I seek only the high moments. I am in accord with the surrealist... ANAïS NIN I can elect something I love and absorb myself in it. ANAïS NIN Since desire always goes towards that which is our direct opposite, it forces us to love that which ... ANAïS NIN I am aware of being in a beautiful prison, from which I can only escape by writing. ANAïS NIN If I love you it means we share the same fantasies, the same madnesses ANAïS NIN I would like to have your sureness. I am waiting for love, the core of a woman's life." Don't w... ANAïS NIN I have no brakes on...analysis is for those who are paralyzed by life. ANAïS NIN In my childhood diary I wrote: “I have decided that it is better not to love anyone, because when ... ANAïS NIN To think of him in the middle of the day lifts me out of ordinary living. ANAïS NIN Ordinary life does not interest me. I seek only the high moments. I am in accord with the surrealist... ANAïS NIN I disregard the proportions, the measures, the tempo of the ordinary world. I refuse to live in the ... ANAïS NIN The role of a writer is not to say what we can all say, but what we are unable to say. ANAïS NIN He was now in that state of fire that she loved. She wanted to be burnt. ANAïS NIN I am the most tired woman in the world. I am tired when I get up. Life requires an effort I cannot m... ANAïS NIN The drug of love was no escape, for in its coils lie latent dreams of greatness which awaken when me... ANAïS NIN We are like sculptors, constantly carving out of others the image we long for, need, love or desire,... ANAïS NIN Woman’s role in creation should be parallel to her role in life. I don’t mean the good earth. I ... ANAïS NIN You don't find love, it finds you. It's got a little bit to do with destiny, fate, and what's writte... ANAïS NIN With her eyes alone she could give this response, this absolutely erotic response, as if febrile wav... ANAïS NIN Anything I can not transform into something marvelous, I let go. ANAïS NIN Beware of allowing a tactless word, a rebuttal, a rejection to obliterate the whole sky ANAïS NIN Question: I am interested in so many things, and I have a terrible fear because my mother keeps tell... ANAïS NIN Like the Baron, Mathilde developed a formula for acting out life as a series of roles—that is, by ... ANAïS NIN They courted the face on the screen, the face of translucence, the face of wax on which men found it... ANAïS NIN Life is a full circle, widening until it joins the circle motions of the infinite. ANAïS NIN The man who was once starved may revenge himself upon the world not by stealing just once, or by ste... ANAïS NIN And in his eyes he had the look of the cat who inspires a desire to caress but loves no one, who nev... ANAïS NIN I feel a little like the moon who took possession of you for a moment and then returned your soul to... ANAïS NIN You do not know what you are missing by your microscopic examination of sexual activity to the exclu... ANAïS NIN Coming near him like a ballet dancer she took a leap towards him, and he, frightened by her vehemenc... ANAïS NIN I'm restless. Things are calling me away. My hair is being pulled by the stars again. ANAïS NIN Good things happen to those who hustle. ANAïS NIN To hell, to hell with balance! I break glasses; I want to burn, even if I break myself. I want to li... ANAïS NIN Our life is composed greatly from dreams, from the unconscious, and they must be brought into connec... ANAïS NIN I sat there for three hours and did not feel the time or the boredom of our talk and its foolish dis... ANAïS NIN I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don't know why, some people fill the gaps and others empha... ANAïS NIN I have such a fear of finding another like myself, and such a desire to find one! I am so utterly lo... ANAïS NIN Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to... ANAïS NIN I take pleasure in my transformations. I look quiet and consistent, but few know how many women ther... ANAïS NIN Something is always born of excess: great art was born of great terror, great loneliness, great inhi... ANAïS NIN When we blindly adopt a religion, a political system, a literary dogma, we become automatons. ANAïS NIN Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ANAïS NIN There is no bleaker moment in life of the city than that one which crosses the boundary lines betwee... ANAïS NIN Last night I wept. I wept because the process by which I have become woman was painful. I wept becau... ANAïS NIN There were always in me, two women at least, one woman desperate and bewildered, who felt she was dr... ANAïS NIN I am not always just living, just following all my fantasies; I come up for air, for understanding. ANAïS NIN What I cannot love, I overlook. ANAïS NIN He never treated her as a wife. He wooed her over and over again, with presents, flowers, new pleasu... ANAïS NIN Luxury is not a necessity to me, but beautiful and good things are. ANAïS NIN Dreams are necessary to life. ANAïS NIN To commit suicide is easy. To live without a god is more difficult. The drunkenness of triumph is gr... ANAïS NIN I am like a snake who has already bitten. I retreat from a direct battle while knowing the slow effe... ANAïS NIN Again I take a taxi to Clichy address, but feel that I do not want to go on loving Henry more active... ANAïS NIN At five o'clock Paris always has a current of eroticism in the air. ANAïS NIN How well I know with what burning intensity you live. You have experienced many lives already, inclu... ANAïS NIN Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive. ANAïS NIN And the time came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to b... ANAïS NIN I believe that men are generally still a little afraid of the dark though the witches are all hung, ... ANAïS NIN I walked into my own book, seeking peace. It was night, and I made a careless movement inside t... ANAïS NIN There is a fissure in my vision and madness will always rush through. ANAïS NIN There are many ways to be free. One of them is to transcend reality by imagination, as I try to do. ANAïS NIN If you do not breathe through writing, if you do not cry out in writing, or sing in writing, then do... ANAïS NIN Each contact with a human being is so rare, so precious, one should preserve it. ANAïS NIN The truly faithless one is the one who makes love to only a fraction of you. And denies the rest. ANAïS NIN My attraction to drugs is based on an immense desire to annihilate awareness. ANAïS NIN She is suspicious of words. She lives by her senses, by her intuition. We don’t have a language fo... ANAïS NIN The only abnormality is the incapacity to love. ANAïS NIN I postpone death by living, by suffering, by error, by risking, by giving, by losing. ANAïS NIN I believe one writes because one has to create a world in which one can live. ANAïS NIN I want to love you wildly. I don’t want words, but inarticulate cries, meaningless, from the botto... ANAïS NIN When one is pretending, the entire body revolts. ANAïS NIN Writers do not live one life, they live two. There is the living and then there is the writing. Ther... ANAïS NIN People living deeply have no fear of death. ANAïS NIN From the backstabbing co-worker to the meddling sister-in-law, you are in charge of how you react to... ANAïS NIN Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is t... ANAïS NIN The secret of joy is the mastery of pain. ANAïS NIN She lacks confidence, she craves admiration insatiably. She lives on the reflections of herself in t... ANAïS NIN For too many centuries women have been being muses to artists. I wanted to be the muse, I wanted to ... ANAïS NIN The enemy of a love is never outside, it's not a man or a woman, it's what we lack in ourselves. ANAïS NIN When I first met him, he did not care if a friend did not fit into his world, because at that time h... ANAïS NIN You carry away with you a reflection of me, a part of me. I dreamed you; I wished for your existence... ANAïS NIN Also, I do not like the companionship of women. They are petty and personal. They hang on to their m... ANAïS NIN A man fell in love with Jeanne, and she tried to love him. But she complained that he uttered such o... ANAïS NIN I am only responsible for my own heart, you offered yours up for the smashing my darling. Only a foo... ANAïS NIN You cannot do any more for me," I said. "Since I have begun to depend on you I feel weaker than ever... ANAïS NIN In the world of the dreamer there was solitude: all the exaltations and joys came in the moment of p... ANAïS NIN We don't see the world as it is, we see it as we are ANAïS NIN Stories are the only enchantment possible, for when we begin to see our suffering as a story, we are... ANAïS NIN I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don’t know why, some people fill the gaps and others emp... ANAïS NIN I want to do things so wild with you that I don't know how to say them. ANAïS NIN Pain is something to master, not to wallow in. ANAïS NIN [Y]ou have to learn to intake, to imbibe, to nourish yourself and not be afraid of fullness. The ful... ANAïS NIN Shame is the lie someone told you about yourself. ANAïS NIN Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age. ANAïS NIN I write emotional algebra. ANAïS NIN She was truthful, or I was the greatest dupe who ever existed. I can only believe in our ecstasy. I ... ANAïS NIN The only abnormality is the incapacity to love. ANAIS NIN The dream was always running ahead of me. To catch up, to live for a moment in unison with it, that ... ANAIS NIN How wrong it is for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it... ANAIS NIN Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds o... ANAIS NIN Each contact with a human being is so rare, so precious, one should preserve it. ANAIS NIN I postpone death by living, by suffering, by error, by risking, by giving, by losing. ANAIS NIN There are many ways to be free. One of them is to transcend reality by imagination, as I try to do. ANAIS NIN What I cannot love, I overlook. Is that real friendship? ANAIS NIN Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age. ANAIS NIN Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ANAIS NIN The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say. ANAIS NIN Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It d... ANAIS NIN