I have noticed even people who claim everything is predestined, and that we can do nothing to change it, look before they cross the road.

It matters if you just don't give up

When one's expectations are reduced to zero, one really appreciates everything one does have

Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you'll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you'll find that you have more of it.

My expectations were reduced to zero when I was 21. Everything since then has been a bonus."

[The Science of Second-Guessing (New York Times Magazine Interview, December 12, 2004)]

Intelligence is the ability to adapt to change.