Id go over frequently and visit with her.

Charlie just didn't go out and put the program together and then come and visit, he's visible every night. I don't see him miss too many nights, except if there's a team function. He takes 200 kids off the streets, puts them with young men who volunteer and teaches them more than basketball - he teaches them respect.

I don't know if its the laundry soap. But I can walk in there and it gets me.

I grew up right there at the prison.

Ask yourself if you would feel reassured leaving your loved one there. And then visit again. Make a second visit without an appointment, maybe on another day of the week or time of day. See if your first thoughts are still the same.

Marriage is like paying an endless visit in your worst clothes.