If someone's life is not enriched by their time with you, then you're not doing something right.

If I can't trust your word, I can't trust you.

You think embracing the longing while waiting for the right man is impossible? Well obviously you didn't get the memo.

Hold on to the thought that no emotion lasts forever, no matter how wonderful or how terrible the emotion may be. The tears may last a little longer than you would like, but it will get better. I promise.

When was the last time you had a good belly-shaking-tear-jerking-snot-producing laugh?
That long?

And don't tell me debt is not a big deal. Debt will cut off your legs and laugh at you as you grovel in the dirt begging for mercy. If you don't need it, don't get it. If you can't afford it, don't get it. If you're already in debt, get out quickly. If you think you'll never get out, you're right, you won't.