If you came back twice and you have not changed your behavior, obviously, we are not doing what you need. You need to go somewhere else.

They don't really know who they are until someone sits them down and gives them the chance to think about it.

When you force a person to be in a place they don't want to be, they'll find a way to get out of there. We try to show them that they're loved, that they're important.

Behavior is what a man does, not what he thinks, feels, or believes.

The basic idea that incentives can be used to motivate behavior is a powerful one. It works for employees, and it has a clear place in parenting, as anyone who has tried to potty-train a recalcitrant toddler with sticker rewards knows.

This is typically Iraqi behavior,