If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.

There's nothing wrong with sending a quick note if you're busy or just want to flirt, but it's hard to have any real interaction over text. In the buffet of communication, text messaging should be a side dish, not the entree.

I do think that you can dress yourself out of a problem. The way that a haircut and a new pair of pants can make you feel is better than any therapist, because when you look in the mirror, you see a different person - you are a different person. It's superficial change that can lead to real change.

Uncool is a cool resting place. The pressure's off me,

Most comics worship music on some level. It's more rock-n-roll to get up there for an hour and make people laugh.

Send her a quick note while you're stuck in a long meeting. A lighthearted chat definitely makes the time go faster.