If you can just stop loving her then you never really loved her at all. Love doesn't work that way. If you ever truly love someone, then it never goes away. It can become something else. There are all different sorts of love. It can even become hate- a thin line and all that- and, really, hate is just another kind of caring.

There was a time when I thought I loved my first wife more than life itself. But now I hate her guts. I do. How do you explain that? What happened to that love? What happened to it, is what I'd like to know. I wish someone could tell me.

Nothing can be love or hated unless it is first known.

The past is what’s in your mind, the present is what’s happening, and the future is to what is to come. You never will have what is to come unless you forgive and let go of the pain of the past. Then and only then you will be able to live in the present. Your future is still unclear, but now you know that there will be one.

We hated each other so well and loved each other so badly...

In order to get people to love you, you've got to get some people to hate you