If you dont understand the MOTIVE, don't judge the means!

Why didn't you kill me like you did that guy back there? Billy? Or does it even make any sense to ask? Are you beyond why?'

Oh shit, we're all beyond why, you know that.

To judge individuals before understanding them is a form of human rejection and feeds upon itself.

George feels that, even if all this double talk hasn't brought them any closer to understanding each other, the not-understanding, the readiness to remain at cross-purposes, is in itself a kind of intimacy.

When my daughter looks at me, she sees a small old lady. That is because she sees only with her outside eyes. She has no chuming , no inside knowing of things. If she had chuming, she would see a tiger lady. And she would have careful fear.

And that might just be the root of the problem: we’re all afraid of each other.