In a world of status, independence is key, because a primary means of establishing status is to tell others what to do, and taking orders is a marker of low status. Though all humans need both intimacy and independence, women tend to focus on the first and men on the second. It is as if their lifeblood ran in different directions.
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Related Empathy is the new measurement of everything. It doesn't matter what religion you have, what God you... C. JOYBELL C. We want to resolve the status as soon as possible. Independence is coming. LUTFI HAZIRI Life is not a game. Still, in this life, we choose the games we live to play. J.R. RIM It is a lie. ARTHUR MILLER She was scarcely a year older than I was, dark-haired, slender, with a face that would break your he... GEORGE R.R. MARTIN How do you know if something is real? That’s easy. Does it change you? Does it form you? Does it g... C. JOYBELL C. The best thing you can do for your kids is to show them God working in you on a daily basis. CRAIG GROESCHEL The opportunity to decieve others is ever present and often tempting, and each instance of deception... SAM HARRIS The boss must first distinguish between action information and status information. He must disciplin... FREDERICK P. 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A new day is here! yesterday is gone! tomorrow is preparing to come! but why is today here? ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH We all are wearing many hundred glasses of different colors. Therefore, everyone sees the world in d... MUDITHA CHAMPIKA Unpredictability means what it means. I don't know how you define it. It is what it is. MICHAEL KEATON Love isn't the work of the tender and the gentle; Love is the work of wrestlers. The one w... JALALUDDIN MEVLANA RUMI Life is a risk. CARMELO ANTHONY I am losing precious days. I am degenerating into a machine for making money. I am learning nothing ... JOHN MUIR Startups need to focus on building a foundation for their company culture early, and then they need ... LEAH BUSQUE You must have traveled all night,” she heard herself say. “I had to come back early.” Sh... LISA KLEYPAS The issue isn't whether he loved you, it's how much. Too much. Love can be poison SARAH J. MAAS I am broken and healing, but every piece of my heart belong to you. SARAH J. MAAS He thinks he'll be remembered as the villain in the story. But I forgot to tell him that the villain... SARAH J. MAAS Night gathers, and now my watch begins. It shall not end until my death. I shall take no wife, hold ... GEORGE R.R. MARTIN Hodor," said Hodor. GEORGE R.R. MARTIN You do what you love, what you need SARAH J. MAAS I turned. Rhysand leaned against the archway into the sitting room, arms crossed, wings nowhere... SARAH J. MAAS The love you get, is equal to the love you give. BEN OAK Now I don’t know how many people like to drive a Beetle at that kind of speed (on purpose) but I k... CHRISTINA ENGELA Setting our living standards and expectations based on the status of others is like wishing that app... JACINTA MPALYENKANA Humans have always used animals to depict ideas about themselves: ideas about their status, about th... ALISON GOLDFRAPP Life is a matter of choosing what is good for you. NAPZ CHERUB PELLAZO Peace does not walk up to our doorsteps and press the calling bell! We have to go out there and sear... AVIJEET DAS Men love war because it allows them to look serious. Because they imagine it is the only thing that ... JOHN FOWLES Don’t let the enemy try to keep you bound with fear. The devil is a liar. Stay in faith and trust ... GERMANY KENT What good is social class and status? Truthfulness is measured within. Pride in one's status is like... SRI GURU GRANTH SAHIB To separate children from others of similar age and qualifications solely because of their race gene... EARL WARREN Some people never take a chance and never know what it's like to live life to the full. CHLOE THURLOW Without music, life is a journey through a desert. PAT CONROY Life is a journey. When we stop, things don't go right. POPE FRANCIS A status symbol is a symbol, not status. UNKNOWN The world is a beautiful place to be born into if you don't mind happiness not always... LAWRENCE FERLINGHETTI We should be working together with Iowa as we have in the past to protect the status and relevance o... JEANNE SHAHEEN For no continuity of social act is possible without a corresponding social status and the many diffe... KENNETH BURKE Status in itself is criminal for those with the means to move, and the means to weave communion betw... DAVE EGGERS A mother isn’t the person who births you; it’s the person who rears you and shows you love. RAQUEL CEPEDA Never give up on you. In order to make a difference you would have to somehow be different. JOHNNIE DENT JR. I think Portia's election definitely changes the status quo because it's never been done before, and... MARLON HILL A school has a different status. There are only about seven schools of dance in the country, and it ... JORY HANCOCK It (full-time status) should be a requirement because their mind is set as a student primarily. 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DEBORAH ABBOTT The heritage of the state is very agricultural. Re-energizing agriculture is the key to Indiana's ec... DEBORAH ABBOTT The goal is to create a new use for the manure that's surrounding the town ? as a biofuel. DEBORAH ABBOTT The goal is to create a new use for the manure that's surrounding the town ? as a biofuel, DEBORAH ABBOTT My problem is that I want to smoke the cigar and for someone else to light it. I want to blow out sm... DEBORAH LEVY I think differently, I think it's about reaching everybody on every different plane and every di... DEBORAH COX I take it to be from the greatest extremes, both in virtue and in vice, that the uniformly virtuous ... DEBORAH SAMPSON One sees more and more people who are miserable and demented and you feel it would be both kind and ... DEBORAH MOGGACH The best way to insure you achieve the greatest satisfaction out of life is to behave intentionally. DEBORAH DAY I would love to be bilingual. I think having a second or third language at my bidding would open up ... DEBORAH RANEY The biggest surprise, which is also the best, is that I didn't know I would love motherhood as m... DEBORAH NORVILLE Once upon a time, about 10 years ago, I thought maybe I could write a mystery series about a midwife... DEBORAH HARKNESS A government that operates under the guise of capitalism does not necessarily mean it is free of the... DEBORAH SIMPSON Ninety percent of board members said they were there to make a difference in the organization. DEBORAH HECHINGER Accessories in general add warmth to a room, but you can switch out your accessories to showcase onl... DEBORAH CARPENTER I teach 18- to 21-year-olds - the 'Harry Potter' generation. They grew up as voracious reade... DEBORAH HARKNESS In choosing where to live or vacation, we may be setting the stage for the play of ourselves, treati... DEBORAH TALL We always see a few orders for wedding invitations with wedding dates around college graduation time... DEBORAH GOMIA My mind became agitated with the enquiry - why a nation, separated from us by an ocean more than thr... DEBORAH SAMPSON U.S. gasoline may be rattling people's cages. We're going to see another steep draw. That, Nigeria a... DEBORAH WHITE I always thought that it was every performer's dream. That's the epitome of being an artist,... DEBORAH COX 'Tulip Fever' did change my life. It did that thing that sometimes happens when a book takes... DEBORAH MOGGACH It's not a failure if a marriage or partnership ends after a certain number of years. I think, i... DEBORAH MOGGACH It's a very quick place to come in. I'm not going on 21 at lunchtime for anything unless it's a dire... DEBORAH DURHAM They said the wreath is still on the door. DEBORAH ROBERTS In whatever I may be thought to have been unnatural, unwise and indelicate, it is now my most ferven... DEBORAH SAMPSON The song came out to be a gem, just came out to be a really, really interesting rendition of it. DEBORAH COX