In marriage, is it cheating when one spouse prefers to be with another person. Or, is it just being honest?

The reason why couples divorce is because one person wants the freedom to do as he or she pleases and the other doesn't want them to enjoy that freedom.

People don't care what you do or say UNTIL they feel that YOU care about them.

Bushwhacked, I examine my hands. Same hands. Rings still there but no longer valid.

I have a new mantra, which I chant softly to myself: "Oh My God Oh My God.

So many events and moments that seemed insignificant add up. I remember how for the last Valentine´s Day, N gave flowers but no card. In restaurants, he looked off into the middle distance while my hand would creep across the table to hold his. He would always let go first. I realize I can´t remember his last spontaneous gesture of affection.