In order to be responsible, you need some discipline in your life. For a while I lost mine.

Fashion is a weapon that you can use when you need it.

Scent is very important. Strong fragrances suit some men, while citrus types suit others. I like my men to smell fresh and woody, but also like a man.

Some men look great unshaven; others just look like they forgot to shave. Beards and mustaches can be really distinctive if you go for an earthy, rock-and-roll look like the Kings of Leon or the Killers.

Plus-sized women shouldn't think of themselves as a size. They should think of themselves as women with rich goals in life. Size doesn't mean, really, anything. You can carry your size with pride and dress in a way that you like.

I do think that exercise is important, not only to keep you in shape but also for your state of mind. However, I am not fanatical about it.