Insecure people often falsify the past, in order to make the future pure.
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The present is an eternal attempt to separate the past from the future.
MOKOKOMA MOKHONOANA I have made good judgments in the past. I have made good judgments in the future.
DAN QUAYLE We fall back into the past, we jump ahead into the future, and in this we lose our entire lives.
THICH NHAT HANH Winners live in the present tense. People who come up short are consumed with future or past. I want...
ALEX RODRIGUEZ All the things that are in the past are in the past.
PABLO SANDOVAL There's no sustenance in the past.
VIOLETTE LEDUC When you live in the present, the past is forgotten & the future takes care of itself.
MANDY HALE Time that is spent dwelling on the past will surely continue in your present moment - and the future...
MICHELLE CRUZ-ROSADO In order to encounter a better future, one must walk past their past
REZA FARIVAR I had a best friend once 20 years down the line a friendship that you just do not get now, i regarde...
GARY F EVANS... How much past has the universe crossed in order to dream our future?
SORIN CERIN For as much as you can, build the past and the future that you can carry yourself.
MARIANA FULGER Only after the last tree has been cut down,only after the last river has been poisoned,only after th...
THE CREE PEOPLE In magic - and in life - there is only the present moment, the now. You can't measure time the way y...
PAULO COELHO The hardships that I encountered in the past will help me succeed in the future.
PHILIP EMEAGWALI Jesus came into the world not to condemn the world, but to save the world. When we come with condemn...
TONY CAMPOLO There is no present or future, only the past, happening over and over again, now
EUGENE O'NEILL My future is in my past and my past is my present. I must now make the present my future.
VLADIMIR HOROWITZ I try to learn from the past, but I plan for the future by focusing exclusively on the present. That...
DONALD TRUMP The present is the necessary product of all the past, the necessary cause of all the future
ROBERT GREEN INGERSOLL To get over the past, you first have to accept that the past is over. No matter how many times you r...
MANDY HALE Just because you believe something was true in the past does not mean it will be true in the future.
JEFFREY FRY The pure present is an ungraspable advance of the past devouring the future. In truth, all sensation...
HENRI BERGSON I feel less often compelled to do the work than I was in the past.
DANIEL DAY-LEWIS I have always wished the present to resemble memory: because the present can be flat at times, and b...
LYDIA MILLET To have the time to reminisce is one of the futures gifts. Don't think to much, don't live to fast, ...
CALVIN WILSON We are the masters of our own destinies we shape and mould our lives into to the circumstances surro...
GARY F EVANS... I can't re-examine work I did in the past with pride.
DANIEL DAY-LEWIS What happened in the past is just that, the past. Champion or not.
STEVE NASH What you're doing now, or have done in the past, need not determine what you can do next and in ...
KEN ROBINSON Everything born has to die, in order to make room for the future.
JOAN D. VINGE Why should we look to the past in order to prepare for the future? Because there is nowhere else to ...
JAMES BURKE Why should we look to the past in order to prepare for the future? Because there is nowhere else to ...
JAMES BURKE Essendo alla ricerca di un futuro per me stessa, mi piace sapere le possibilità degli altri.
KATHRYN STOCKETT The past was nothing to her; offered no lesson which she was willing to heed. The future was a myste...
KATE CHOPIN Well," I say, "we're practically there."
"Where?" says Jefferson.
"The future.
CHRIS WEITZ The past is behind, learn from it.The future is ahead, prepare for it.The present is here, live it.
THOMAS S. MONSON Yesterday's the past, tomorrow's the future, but today is a gift. That's why it's called the present...
BIL KEANE aimed at developing Christian professionals who will use their skills to transform urban communities...
TONY CAMPOLO Jesus refers to the poor over and over again. There are 2,000 verses of Scripture that call upon us ...
TONY CAMPOLO America is false to the past, false to the present, and solemnly binds herself to be false to the fu...
FREDERICK DOUGLAS Shallow men speak of the past; wise men of the present and fools of the future
MADAME MARIE DU DEFFAND The past, the present, the future: migration is what matters.
GUILLERMO ALONSO Deployed upon that plain they moved in a constant elision, ordained agents of the actual dividing ou...
CORMAC MCCARTHY Congratulations, to the people which made gotham series, still need some more and extra work!
DEYTH BANGER I decided not to let my past rule my future so I decided to change my present in order to open up my...
DR. ANA M GUZMAN Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.
BUDDHA I haven't had that one great love, which is good. I don't want that to be in the past - I wa...
TAYLOR SWIFT I am not interested in the past, except as the road to the future.
GIANNI VERSACE In order to plan your future wisely, it is necessary that you understand and appreciate your past.
JO COUDERT In order to make the egoism non-existent [zero], the Gnani Purush [the enlightened one] establishes ...
DADA BHAGWAN I have had shoulder injuries in the past, but usually it's from training.
WARREN CUCCURULLO I mean, I've been stupid in the past, and I've learned from that.
AIDAN QUINN That's history. I say history because it happened in the past.
MURRAY WALKER “In order to better ensure our chosen future, we must first learn from and understand as well as r...
DR.'S RICK AND SUSANN CRAWFORD People who live in the past generally are afraid to compete in the present. I've got my faults, ...
SPARKY ANDERSON We cannot change the past. We can only take action in the present and, therefore, change the future.
KEN POIROT Fear is caused by the uncertainty of the future. Sorrow is caused by the remembrance of the past. Tr...
JEFFREY FRY Remembering something from the past? you are creating it right now as evidence for who you are now.
FREDERICK DODSON In the past, people were born royal. Nowadays, royalty comes from what you do.
GIANNI VERSACE I used to like humorous people in the past, but these days, I like serious people more.
PARK SHIN-HYE Man can and must prevent the tragedy of famine in the future instead of merely trying with pious reg...
NORMAN BORLAUG Too often in the past, Scotland has been sidelined and ignored in the Westminster corridors of power...
NICOLA STURGEON When people get disillusioned and get insecure and content about the future, they tend to brood abou...
DAVE DAVIES The unfortunate thing is that, sometimes, we slip, but, fortunately, consciously or unconsciously, w...
ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH Honesty,moral standards ,and principles all partner up with truth be the best you can be. In this wo...
GARY F EVANS... A ship does not sail with yesterday's wind.
LOUIS L'AMOUR No matter what they wish for, no matter how far they go, people can never be anything but themselves...
HARUKI MURAKAMI Being clingy may work for puppies, but not for you.
OSCAR AULIQ-ICE Try to learn from the past when is still present. Future seems often not obey the same laws.
MARIANA FULGER The past is an old armchair in the attic, the present an ominous ticking sound, and the future is an...
JAMES THURBER He who spends time regretting the past loses the present and risks the future
QUEVEDO The past is behind, learn from it.
The future is ahead, prepare for it.
The present is here,...
THOMAS S. MONSON Learn the past, watch the present, and create the future.
ALBERT EINSTEIN The flesh endures the storms of the present alone, the mind those of the past and future as well as ...
EPICURUS Life can be found only in the present moment. The past is gone, the future is not yet here, and if w...
THICH NHAT HANH I can feel guilty about the past, apprehensive about the future, but only in the present can I act. ...
ABRAHAM MASLOW Past is story, present is moment to act & future is ray of hope.Therefore don’t lament for past to...
DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA What we wish upon the future is very often the image of some lost, imagined past.
GRAHAM SWIFT In the beginning, I was very insecure. I hated how I looked in pictures.
THE WEEKND Don't grieve over the past,
It's all gone!
Don't worry about the future, It may never com...
MOULOUD BENZADI [Defenders say she can easily navigate from past to future.] I would quote her husband who often sai...
HAROLD ICKES Living in the past is a Jethro Tull album, not a smart poker strategy.
RICHARD ROEPER Children have in the past and continue to influence policy makers.
CAROL BELLAMY Your past, is your past, it has come and gone so stop worrying about it
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STEVEN A. COULTER In the past, people worked together only when some great disaster threatened.
WALTER ULBRICHT But it’s almost wonderful when it’s fine and still almost bearable when it isn't.
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MARCEL PROUST You can't judge the present by the past. Each day is different, and you live it differently.
MARTY RUBIN Beautify your breath – beautify your life.
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SHANNON L. ALDER Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neith...
SHANNON L. ALDER People that have been consistently hurt by others in life will only see the one time you hurt them a...
SHANNON L. ALDER victim
noun \ˈvik-təm\
1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorder...
SHANNON L. ALDER Feelings are something you have; not something you are.
SHANNON L. ALDER The greatest thing a father can do for his children is to respect the woman that gave birth to his c...
SHANNON L. ALDER A heart worth loving is one you understand, even in silence.
SHANNON L. ALDER Perspective is as simple as answering this question: If I had 5 months to live would I experience th...
SHANNON L. ALDER Whenever you can’t balance what you see with what you believe you have conflict.
SHANNON L. ALDER Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you fin...
SHANNON L. ALDER Do not conform to seek the seekers, but leave the leavers. Wisdom comes from facing what you do not ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-e...
SHANNON L. ALDER Honesty is vulnerability. Sadly, not everyone can handle someone’s honesty. However, lying allows ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Regardless of your faith, you can never escape uncertainty.
SHANNON L. ALDER Half of the time, the Holy Ghost tries to warn us about certain people that come into our life. The ...
SHANNON L. ALDER The only person that should wear your ring is the one person that would never…
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SHANNON L. ALDER Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it.
SHANNON L. ALDER It is not the hand that rocks the cradle that rules the world; it is the woman that holds the keys t...
SHANNON L. ALDER When I was a child, an angel came to say,
A true friend is coming my warrior to sweep you away,...
SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love dies, you are given the gift of "second chances". Their eulogy is a reminder t...
SHANNON L. ALDER One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many pe...
SHANNON L. ALDER Her wounds brought her a great source of power because they lived in the same place as her heart.
SHANNON L. ALDER You're only a victim to the degree of what your perception allows.
SHANNON L. ALDER Your most important “want” should be the one you can control!
SHANNON L. ALDER If he emotionally cheated on you remember this before you take him back. It was a choice to do it an...
SHANNON L. ALDER The number of chances you give someone doesn't tell the world how loving you are without telling the...
SHANNON L. ALDER A deceitful man will go as far as to trample all over a woman’s reputation and spirit, in order to...
SHANNON L. ALDER Be leery of silence. It doesn't mean you won the argument. Often, people are just busy reloading the...
SHANNON L. ALDER I am tired of people saying that poor character is the only reason people do wrong things. Actually,...
SHANNON L. ALDER Temptation goes both ways. Sometimes, you can be tempted to live a half life because it pleases some...
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