It is an unfortunate truth of experiential reality that choices are not clear-cut, and the event window for choice may vanish before the information enabling the choice is present

The reality is you must realize that this was a choice made by the impostor. We all have choices, and there is always a better solution than to steal. They have chosen to sacrifice you for their own needs.

When I said confront, I meant that you need to confront the reality of your situation. You've made certain choices over your time here, and only you know why you made them. All of that, all of those decisions, have led you to where you are now.

There are always choices. But sometimes there are no good ones.

Given the choice between being an optimist and a pessimist, I choose to be a realist! Simply put, a realist doesn't have to lie!

Look for your choices, pick the best one, then go with it