It is better being the victim then the victimizer.

I don't know why I fell - I hadn't been drinking, honest! But it hurt like hell

Playing victim to situations you can walk away from is disrespectful to people who face positions where they can’t.

Certainly we struggle as victims of other people’s unkindness. We have been sinned against. But we cannot excuse our sinful responses to others on the grounds of their mistreatment of us. We are responsible for what we do. We are both strugglers and sinners, victims and agents, people who hurt and people who harm.

We are not a victim of our emotions or thoughts. We can understand our triggers and use them as tools to help us respond more objectively.

A victim is someone who buys in to the one who plays the victim.