It was my view then, and still is, that you don't make war without knowing why. Knowledge of course, is always imperfect, but it seemed to me that when a nation goes to war it must have reasonable confidence in the justice and imperative of its cause. You can't fix your mistakes. Once people are dead, you can't make them undead.
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Related It is what it is, it is what you make it. JAMES DURBIN the thing is you can get used to anything you think you cant you want to die but you dont you cant y... ELIZABETH SCOTT If you cant play tug-o-war with your tampon than your vagina might be a little loose NERISSA IRVING It is not the dead rather the ones who lives through war have seen the dreadful end of the war, you ... PUSHPA RANA A big sacrifice is coming, and you won't have the courage to make it. That will cost you dearly. It ... RICK RIORDAN To stand on the brink of what is coming, feeling eager, optimistic anticipation—with no feeli... ASK AND IT IS GIVEN Tim also has enough confidence so that it always looks like a Tim Burton film, but it really is coll... HELENA BONHAM CARTER Its strange how people choose you and when you come to choose them ,they cant accept that OMAR ASHRAF EZZELDIN What is it that makes you so angry, bothers you so deeply, that you're compelled to act? CRAIG GROESCHEL The human heart knows thing the eyes cant see, and feels the things the mind cant understand.. but i... VANESSA SCHIFFER Why do you eat? Why to sleep? If you cant be a trustworthy person, cant be a true lover, cant be a g... WRITER GRADED I think for any player, once you make a couple (shots), your confidence just goes up. And it was the... BRITTANY WINNER Sex is a very important part of a relationship but its not the foundation. A relationship cant last ... NERISSA IRVING A professional soldier understands that war means killing people, war means maiming people, war mean... GEN. H. NORMAN SCHWARZKOPF Its hard because you went through camp with these guys and you cant be with them when you win, you c... GERALD HAYES You get to the point where you're like, 'I'm just doing me, and if people don't like... BEBE REXHA You must be the person you have never had the courage to be. Gradually, you will discover that you a... PAULO COELHO Well, as you know, there are many things in life that are not fair, that wealthy people can afford a... JIMMY CARTER I cant help it you see
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DARREN O'DONNELL All the possibilities of your human destiny are asleep in your soul. You are here to realize and hon... JOHN O'DONOHUE If you are different from the rest of the flock, they bite you VINCENT O'SULLIVAN We do not need to grieve for the dead. Why should we grieve for them? They are now in a place where ... JOHN O'DONOHUE To love without ownership, to love with total trust and faith in that very love, to love with the sa... JULIEANNE O'CONNOR My feeling on the subject of sex with a man is - don't give it up unless you're willing to give him ... JULIEANNE O'CONNOR Life is surreal. When you step back and really take a look at it, the irony is absolute. JULIEANNE O'CONNOR Ladies, you have a ton of power if you just understand the fundamental differences between men and w... JULIEANNE O'CONNOR When it was dark, you always carried the sun in your hand for me. SEáN O'CASEY You cannot borrow half of who you are from someone else, yet people try to do it all of the time, th... JENNIFER O'NEILL For Equilibrium, a Blessing: Like the joy of the sea coming home to shore, May the relief ... JOHN O'DONOHUE Sometimes, when people speak, I cease listening to their words and zoom in instead on the cadence, a... ROSIE O'DONNELL It was a great mistake, my being born a man, I would have been much more successful as a seagull or ... EUGENE O'NEILL It could be a meeting on the street, or a party or a lecture, or just a simple, banal introduction, ... JOHN O'DONOHUE The world rests in the night. Trees, mountains, fields, and faces are released from the prison of sh... JOHN O'DONOHUE Your noble friend will not accept pretension but will gently and very firmly confront you with your ... JOHN O'DONOHUE The ego is the false self-born out of fear and defensiveness. JOHN O'DONOHUE If you try to view yourself through the lenses that others offer you, all you will see are distortio... JOHN O'DONOHUE Love allows understanding to dawn, and understanding is precious. Where you are understood, you are ... JOHN O'DONOHUE We do not need to go out and find love; rather, we need to be still and let love discover us. JOHN O'DONOHUE Beauty is the illumination of your soul. JOHN O'DONOHUE Real friendship or love is not manufactured or achieved by an act of will or intention. Friendship i... JOHN O'DONOHUE When love awakens in your life, in the night of your heart, it is like the dawn breaking within you.... JOHN O'DONOHUE No one else has access to the world you carry around within yourself; you are its custodian and entr... JOHN O'DONOHUE Your beloved and your friends were once strangers. Somehow at a particular time, they came from the ... JOHN O'DONOHUE Your soul knows the geography of your destiny. Your soul alone has the map of your future, therefore... JOHN O'DONOHUE If you send out goodness from yourself, or if you share that which is happy or good within you, it w... JOHN O'DONOHUE Every friendship travels at sometime through the black valley of despair. This tests every aspect of... JOHN O'DONOHUE All you can ever achieve is a sense of your soul. You gain little glimpses of its light, colors, and... JOHN O'DONOHUE You are as young as you feel. If you begin to feel the warmth of your soul, there will be a youthful... JOHN O'DONOHUE Behind your image, below your words, above your thoughts, the silence of another world waits. JOHN O'DONOHUE