It’s not enough to be friendly. You have to be a friend.


R.J. Palacio

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"To go outside, and there perchance to stay
Or to re...
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when your heart touched mine,I knew then we were one.
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To be rich simply means to be beneficial to others.
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More than any woman I ever knew, she comforted.' -Mrs. Huxley about Emma
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That's silly,' said Martha. 'Friends should always tell each other the truth.
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in spite of everything,
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unless it...
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How to be perfect;Think nothing,say nothing & do nothing.
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Be soft enough not to break; be kind enough to not get angry.
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Make a place to sit down.
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Well, I have lost you; and I lost you fairly;
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Say...
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Because I want to be remembered.
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You have enough time to do everything God wants you to do.
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stop looking for job, create one.
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I give away examples!
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I've got to be honest, there's no pleasure when you're working.
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This is your moment. You're meant to be here.
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The Serpent will never be a friend no matter how friendly it pretends to be
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I have to be honest - I don't love guns.
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The game is meant to be fun.
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You must remember that you are my prime treasure (and always have been).'
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Ah, much deluded! lay aside
Thy threats, and anger misapplied!
Art not afraid with sounds ...
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I know now: what is is all that matters. Not the thing you know is meant to be, not what could be, n...
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I judge the world by my own lights
and I come by my own hand.
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The gamecock proudly stepped into the slaughterhouse.
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I'm often uncomfortable with girliness, to be honest.
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