It's not unusual for the bikers not only to take on their rivals, but to eat their own.

The hatred between these two groups has been quite longstanding.

Very tough, but never able to take a foothold in Canada because the Hells Angels -- through a combination of bribes, bluster and often bullets -- have always crushed them.

How can families harm us when they love us? Very easily, unfortunately. Most of us overlook one important fact when we think love is enough: Love and respect aren't the same thing.

Love is fusion. As a baby, you belong to your parents, you're extension of them.

Respect is differentiation: you belong to yourself, and you're an extension of no one.

Differentiation is essential for happiness of adults.

If you're sitting in a corporate boardroom in one of the other 50 states deciding where to put 100 stores, you want to pick the best 100 places. When I say, 'Lady Lake, Florida,' no one jumps.

The effort of learning. It's the same when you approach any new skill or technique, from a dance step to driving a car. The effort of learning stops you, at first, from doing it well.