It's really been quality, not quantity - that's been a big thing for us.

There's a lot more room to be naughty in our relationship now. The trust is there. We can talk about it and it opens up a whole bunch of doors.

It was just another thing on my list of things I had to take care of.

I hear a lot about people trying to come to terms with what used to be and what is now. And we struggle with that too.

Twelve of us started on this trip, but nine made it to the summit. One became very ill even before we reached base camp. That?s not uncommon; many climbers attempting to scale this mountain became very ill and many have died. But after this, nothing is too challenging. Especially after what we saw in the villages of Tanzania where many people have nothing and are just struggling to live. It?s given us a fresh perspective on life.

You have to give Rapids a lot of credit, they took us out of everything we like to do. Early on they were disciplined and did what they wanted and we struggled. I'm proud of the way the girls battled and found a way to win a game we shouldn't have won.