It's your version of whatever that is. We use those words because they are kind of empowering. Try to get back into your life and get back on track with dreams you have. There's nothing more attractive than a person who likes herself.

There's nothing wrong with sending a quick note if you're busy or just want to flirt, but it's hard to have any real interaction over text. In the buffet of communication, text messaging should be a side dish, not the entree.

I do think that you can dress yourself out of a problem. The way that a haircut and a new pair of pants can make you feel is better than any therapist, because when you look in the mirror, you see a different person - you are a different person. It's superficial change that can lead to real change.

Uncool is a cool resting place. The pressure's off me,

Most comics worship music on some level. It's more rock-n-roll to get up there for an hour and make people laugh.

Send her a quick note while you're stuck in a long meeting. A lighthearted chat definitely makes the time go faster.