Andrei Tarkovsky
Related C. JOYBELL C. A person of value have skill, a vision & a deep desire to achieve what they dream for. Happiness com... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA C. JOYBELL C. E.M. FORSTER Life is not a game. Still, in this life, we choose the games we live to play. J.R. RIM His life seemed like a deck of cards, and in the midst of all those two’s and three’s someone ha... TEKOA MANNING DEYTH BANGER HENRY JAMES ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH GEORGE R.R. MARTIN NANETTE L. AVERY How lucky I am to have known somebody and something that saying goodbye to is so damned awful. EVANS G. VALENS LAUREN MYRACLE She buys "mixed salad greens" for seven dollars a bag, triple-washed with who knows what. And to get... RUDOLPH DELSON STEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY (All the grief she had suffered over her lifetime had moulded her face into a mask of eternal sadnes... JEAN SASSON STEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY That one moment when you know you are not a sad story. You are ALIVE. STEPHAN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY There's nothing like the deep breathes after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore st... STHEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY CHARLES BUKOWSKI I'm a thinker. That is what I do, in great depth and detail, every waking moment of the day. I like ... BRIAN HERBERT Unification of differences is power. SHESH NATH VERNWAL I like the word 'fuck'. The word means what it means, but it also means whatever you need it to mean... LISA GLATT GEORGE R.R. MARTIN The more a person tries truly to correct the world, the more number of people get often into the act... ANUJ SOMANY During times of sour or bad relationship a good person will always exhibit a pleasant character. DAVID ATTA (A.K.A DAVIED ATTLARS & MR DAIN) People themselves makes a lots of mistakes and still loves himself,
and they never forget a single m... OM BENIWAL Sometimes trying to know someone so well is not always good. UZOMA NNADI BRIAN BLESSED If you think that life is a celebration full of party poppers and merry go rounds it's not it's a ga... GARY F EVANS... DEYTH BANGER DEYTH BANGER To trust someone you must firstly remember that it is a two way street that will go all the way if y... GARY F EVANS... ARTHUR MILLER Look to your heart and soul first, rather than looking to your head first, when choosing. Rather tha... JEFFREY R. ANDERSON Plunging in “truths” about God is like walking on the bottom of a sea that is not there, searchi... MARIANA FULGER JOHANN VON GOETHE CHLOE THURLOW I don't know how else to say it: I'm a better person for knowing him. The world was a better place w... LISA KNAPP CHARBEL TADROS CRAIG GROESCHEL STEPHEN CHBOSKY STEPHEN CHBOSKY DALE CARNEGIE DAVID LEVITHAN NANETTE L. AVERY ERICH FROMM NICHOLAS SPARKS STEPHEN CHBOSKY NICHOLAS SPARKS NICHOLAS SPARKS HARPER LEE HARPER LEE We all have three sides. We show one when we're with our friends and another when around our family.... KAYLA RAE DAISAKU IKEDA TERESA COLLINS CHARLIE CHAPLIN Different people weather trauma differently. A person with a strong faith may be able to draw on tha... HILARY WEAVER The Biggest Threat to our Democracy, Freedoms and Future is Leadership that fosters and Appeases the... MICHAEL HARRIS Obedience is bondage, if God wants to be adored he should make himself more loving. LAURA WHITCOMB FRIEDRICH NIETZSCHE Life is a divine blessing for those who live life to add values in the lives of others. SEEMA BRAIN OPENERS A great future starts with what you can see SOTONYE ANGA LAURENCE J. PETER ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH For me, my life is a journey. JAY ELECTRONICA SARAH J. MAAS JEFFREY FRY SUNDAY ADELAJA CRAIG GROESCHEL Never give up on you. In order to make a difference you would have to somehow be different. JOHNNIE DENT JR. C. JOYBELL C. She had felt a collision with him and known that she had wanted this her whole life: to crash for ju... ALI SHAW A substantiated proof that the world has a vast majority of people only fools is that the history sh... ANUJ SOMANY In the real world, they told you who to be, not the other way around. RHODA BELLEZA DAVID LYNCH UNKNOWN As far back as history records people thinking, thinking people
have been befuddled by the mysteries... LEWIS N. ROE JALALUDDIN MEVLANA RUMI SAM HARRIS Life is a risk. CARMELO ANTHONY LAO TZU The scientific method gives us
information by testing and repeating observable things so that we
can... LEWIS N. ROE Man is about to be an automaton; he is identifiable only in the computer. As a person of worth and c... WILLIAM ORVILLE DOUGLAS blackmagic on a person
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blackmagic on a pe... ASTRODOST If I didn't know you I would say I don't know you. JAIME CABRERA FREDERICK BUECHNER It’s something I never knew about her. How bizarre that you can know your entire life, see their m... KELSEY SUTTON
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ANDREI PLATONOV I want my word to be up to the scale of the feat of arms performed by the Russian soldier. ANDREI PLATONOV I lived and languished. ANDREI PLATONOV I have a trend of my own. ANDREI PLATONOV Happiness will come from materialism, not from meaning. ANDREI PLATONOV From our ugliness will grow the soul of the world. ANDREI PLATONOV Does the world have nothing inside but sorrow? ANDREI PLATONOV At the time of the Revolution, dogs howled day and night all over Russia. ANDREI PLATONOV A man who's never seen war is like a woman who's never given birth - soft in the head. ANDREI PLATONOV He's pretty confident right now. Somehow he found the right shots, he got the lines and match point ... ANDREI PAVEL If I play to my best form, I could beat anyone. I dream to win this tournament, although it is diffi... ANDREI PAVEL Without the support of the crowd today I would have been the victim, ... He played unbelievably well... ANDREI PAVEL I did not have anything to offer in the final and to be honest David was just too good. ANDREI PAVEL I went to the toilet in Saturday's match with (Tommy) Haas because I was tired and not feeling too g... ANDREI PAVEL It is hard to win in front of your supporters, but I am happy that in the end I gained victory. ANDREI PAVEL I didn't expect to be in the final. I'm very happy. ANDREI PAVEL I think that tiebreak was the key of the match. After that he got a little bit tired. I think someho... ANDREI PAVEL That topspin lob was the key to the match. That was my chance there. ANDREI PAVEL I think that tie break was the key of the match. After that, he got a little bit tired. I saw that h... ANDREI PAVEL Accusations of powerful Jews behind the scenes are part of the most dangerous traditions of modern a... ANDREI MARKOVITS It would happen, even if the guy were Italian. But the very fact that the guy is American is just in... ANDREI MARKOVITS That's like Larry Brown being cited before Congress for only bringing home a bronze from the Athens ... ANDREI MARKOVITS It's a clash between the new and the old in Germany. There is a real cleavage between the left, libe... ANDREI MARKOVITS There are very few cases of a young, educated, middle-class North Korean defector who would get a go... ANDREI LANKOV They (the U.S.) could do nothing but wait until the regime collapses, or they could attack, which co... ANDREI LANKOV For decades, this country was second only to Albania, or even second to none, for keeping out all in... ANDREI LANKOV The 2002 reforms were just a recognition of changes that had happened already. It's not reform in an... ANDREI LANKOV There are no visible signs of economic reform, There's a big difference. ANDREI LANKOV Energy weapons are being used against neighbors. ANDREI ILLARIONOV Russia will deliver energy supplies only to those it likes, only to those regimes who are friendly w... ANDREI ILLARIONOV These quasi-state corporations are in fact driven by private interests while taking advantage of the... ANDREI ILLARIONOV I considered it important to remain here at this post as long as I had the possibility to do somethi... ANDREI ILLARIONOV This year, Russia has become a different country. It is no longer a democratic country. It is no lon... ANDREI ILLARIONOV It is one thing to work in a partially free country such as Russia was six years ago. But it is quit... ANDREI ILLARIONOV This is a state model with the participation of state corporations, which although they are public i... ANDREI ILLARIONOV Neo-imperialist trends in foreign policy have strengthened, and energy has been used as a weapon to ... ANDREI ILLARIONOV The main outcome of this year is the formulation of a new, corporatist model for political, economic... ANDREI ILLARIONOV Alexander Nikolayevich was a defender ? a defender of our country, of democracy, of freedom of peopl... ANDREI ILLARIONOV Every night, whisper "peace" in your husband's ear. ANDREI GROMYKO An exchange of ideas occurs when you take an idea to your boss and you come back with his idea. ANDREI GROMYKO [The world may end up] under a Sword of Damocles on a tightrope over the abyss. ANDREI GROMYKO Thank you, Comrade President. ANDREI GROMYKO Comrades, this man has a nice smile, but he's got iron teeth. ANDREI GROMYKO My personality doesn't interest me. ANDREI GROMYKO But at the same time, the political process must not be interrupted and it is very fragile in Sudan. ANDREI DENISOV The important thing is that five permanent Security Council members demonstrated a common approach. ANDREI DENISOV When you speak about a threat to international peace and security, you must have strong, clear and l... ANDREI DENISOV We'll meet from time to time but we didn't discuss any proposals to arrange the meeting of the whole... 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The article very quickly be... ANDREI SAKHAROV I grew up in a large communal apartment where most of the rooms were occupied by my family and relat... ANDREI SAKHAROV For me, the moral difficulties lie in the continual pressure brought to bear on my friends and immed... ANDREI SAKHAROV My father played the piano remarkably well, in particular Chopin, Grieg, Beethoven and Scriabin. Dur... ANDREI SAKHAROV I worked under conditions of the highest security and under great pressure, first in Moscow and subs... ANDREI SAKHAROV Both now and for always, I intend to hold fast to my belief in the hidden strength of the human spir... ANDREI SAKHAROV We must make demands of reason and create a life worthy of ourselves and of the goals we only dimly ... ANDREI SAKHAROV We have repeatedly stated to our European partners that restrictive policy toward Belarus is groundl... ANDREI POPOV We told our European partners that their policy towards Belarus is groundless and useless. 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ANDREI CAPUSAN Definitely, this is a step in the wrong direction. It runs counter to the [International Atomic Ener... ANDREI KRIVTSOV This opinion is invariable, and it will be reaffirmed at the upcoming talks. ANDREI KRIVTSOV The time has come for these changes to be put into practice and not only talked about. ANDREI KOZLOV The family was a team. All the children were very good. He maybe had a chance for two children to be... ANDREI KOZLOV Physicists have known that dark energy could become negative and the universe could collapse sometim... ANDREI LINDE The standard vision at the moment is that the universe is speeding up, so we were surprised to find ... ANDREI LINDE The universe may be doomed to collapse and disappear. Everything we see now, and at a much larger di... ANDREI LINDE It's great to win and I think we did a pretty good job, especially in the second half. We were being... ANDREI KIRILENKO We are a real inconsistent team and a performance like this makes us happy. We need to continue to d... ANDREI KIRILENKO All we tried to do, ... was just play on him ? involve him in any pick-and-roll, and let him do what... ANDREI KIRILENKO There were like three seconds before the shot-clock violation, and I thought he was gonna shoot and ... ANDREI KIRILENKO Definitely Greg. He doesn't always say [much], but people listen to him. ANDREI KIRILENKO Nobody knows what's going to happen. I hope it (weight) protects me because in my career, the last s... ANDREI KIRILENKO I think we are still playing part good and part bad, ... When we executed our offense, we got a lot ... ANDREI KIRILENKO He is one of the three best point guards in Europe, and without a doubt he will strengthen our team.... ANDREI KIRILENKO Having Jon on our side has made the team so much stronger. It has made us real contenders for the Eu... ANDREI KIRILENKO Yeltsin's delivery during his oath and the fact that he made no speech indicated that he was unwell,... ANDREI KORTUNOV They want to make sure that the question is not resolved, that they continue to fight. And they will... ANDREI KORTUNOV The impeachment results do not necessarily mean that the president is strong. He is not. The results... ANDREI KORTUNOV In order to get anything through sometimes you have to bribe, sometimes you have to co-opt a bureauc... ANDREI KORTUNOV The prices of $51 for 2006 and $46 for 2007-2008 are considered a more realistic option. Because the... ANDREI KLEPACH If the situation does not change, price growth for diesel will amount to 20% by spring this year. ANDREI KLEPACH Is it abusing children? Is it practice? Is it military? ANDREI KOZLOV Sometimes he screamed at them too much, but it was coming from his heart. ANDREI KOZLOV We are currently carrying out IPO work at the ministerial level. I believe we'll submit the IPO prop... ANDREI KOSTIN We are now working with the Federal Property Ministry, Finance Ministry, and the government apparatu... ANDREI KOSTIN We are planning a public share offering in the near future, most likely on the Russian market. ANDREI KOSTIN We plan to offer a significant number of the shares to members of the public. Interest exists there.... ANDREI KOSTIN I see 2006 as a year of integration and improvement of our network. ANDREI KOSTIN By 2010, we want to gain at least 10% market share in terms of assets and other key indicators. ANDREI KOSTIN Such short-sighted actions are ineffective. They aggravate mutual relations, not help improve them. ANDREI POPOV The risks of corruption are real when decisions are made on individual cases. But unlike a unified p... ANDREI SHARONOV The whole oil and gas industry in Russia is strongly undervalued and will stay so for quite a long t... ANDREI IVANOV Energy weapons are being used against neighbors. The move toward a policy of imperialism ... has a c... ANDREI ILLARIONOV They were placed in a hotel, their freedom within the village is not limited, and there was no decis... ANDREI ORLOV So far the actions of these tourists is unclear, so to speak, and an investigation is being conducte... ANDREI ORLOV The two foreigners were spotted and detained by border guards. ANDREI ORLOV We will probably ask the court to postpone hearings to review the documents and thoroughly prepare f... ANDREI MIRONOV We are working closely with U.S. lawyers to resolve the situation. At the same time, we are consider... ANDREI MIRONOV We cannot take any action until the factual side of the case becomes known [to us]. ANDREI MIRONOV Memo did a great job in the overtime. ANDREI KIRILENKO It did not look like it was my match, but somehow in the best-of-five matches there is always a chan... ANDREI PAVEL We started to push the ball and beat Denver at their game. They like to run a lot and sometimes they... ANDREI KIRILENKO This may seem unreal now, but six years ago the price was $16 per barrel. ANDREI SHARONOV Our position as regards the restrictions imposed by the European Union remains unchanged -- these sa... ANDREI POPOV Sometimes you get streaks in a game. Cold and hot streaks and I think we just found that streak and ... ANDREI KIRILENKO Изморось поливала прохожих: награждала их гриппами; вм... ANDREI BELY From the line I was concentrating. I was a machine. I like scoring, especially from the free throw l... ANDREI KIRILENKO What is the most precious, the most exciting smell awaiting you in the house when you return to it a... ANDREI SINYAVSKY He's amazing and I think he's the guy that won the game tonight. ANDREI KIRILENKO When I took the job, we spoke about pursuing a liberal economic policy. Now, the state has evolved i... ANDREI ILLARIONOV The state can be inept, irrational and pursue strange interests, but those interests were always see... ANDREI ILLARIONOV I wouldn't say Dwayne Wade won the game, I'd say Miami won the game. They really played as a team. T... ANDREI KIRILENKO The working class is my home country, and my future is linked with the proletariat. ANDREI PLATONOV Se obișnuiește a considera aristocrația ca fiind fragilă, nepractică, neadaptată vieții, nepu... ANDREI BITOV We are playing as a team and executing very good. We just executed so well. In the fourth quarter we... ANDREI KIRILENKO De ce crezi că nu-i iubim pe evrei? Pentru că, în orice împrejurare, ei sînt evrei. Uite, cîte... ANDREI BITOV Real artists free of the tedium of money can use, now, all of society as an idea factory. ANDREI CODRESCU O masses, o masses! When will you assume the image and likeness of your avant-garde? ANDREI PLATONOV We hate our squalor. ANDREI PLATONOV It is the job of the market to turn the base material of our emotions into gold. ANDREI CODRESCU An exchange of ideas occurs when you take an idea to your boss and you come back with his idea. ANDREI A. GROMYKO [The world may end up] under a Sword of Damocles on a tightrope over the abyss. ANDREI A. GROMYKO Thank you, Comrade President. ANDREI A. GROMYKO Comrades, this man has a nice smile, but he's got iron teeth. ANDREI A. GROMYKO My personality doesn't interest me. ANDREI A. GROMYKO The world may end up under a Sword of Damocles on a tightrope over the abyss. ANDREI A. GROMYKO
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Empathy is the new measurement of everything. It doesn't matter what religion you have, what God you... 
By the side of the everlasting Why there is a Yes--a transitory Yes if you like, but a Yes. 
I believe that there is a Matrix and... to be more accurate I am in the Pornography Matrix. 
You must save what you can of your life; you musn't lose it all simply because you've lost a part. 
the room of the spirit is the mind and the seat of the spirit is the heart. What we give room to muc... 
She was scarcely a year older than I was, dark-haired, slender, with a face that would break your he... 
Be careful of relying on the opinion of others, these are the same people that like liver. 
Mother Superior jump the gun...
She wasn't bitter. She was sad, though. But it was a hopeful kind of sad. The kind of sad that just ... 
I love my mom so much. I don't care if that's corny to say. I think on my next birthday, I'm going t... 
Ambos dijeron que tomara asiento y parecían hablar en serio, así que me senté. 
I'm fucking the grave, I thought, I'm bringing the dead back to life... 
Life is a re-discovery. 
Life Is a Misconception. 
It is a lie. 
Since Time is not a person we can overtake when he is gone, let us honor him with mirth and cheerful... 
Some people never take a chance and never know what it's like to live life to the full. 
Find that person who will make your whole world tremble with a few words. Apprentice yourself faithf... 
You release the pain of the past and press on. It's a new day, and God is doing a new thing. He want... 
arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who ca... 
She is no longer a person in his life; instead, she is a person that other people will remind him of... 
Daring to dream is not difficult, it's making them come true that is hard... 
Love is not primarily a relationship to a specific person; it is an attitude, an ordination of chara... 
Eventually I came across another passage. This is what it said:
As these images were going through my head, my breathing suddenly went still. I looked at Jamie, the... 
You don't have to learn much out of books, it's like if you want to learn about cows, you go milk on... 
It is much more valuable to look for the strength in others. You can gain nothing by criticizing the... 
Be grateful for every moment and every breath. 
What do you want a meaning for? Life is a desire, not a meaning. 
If thinking is your fate, revere this fate with divine honour and sacrifice to it the best, the most... 
an employee’s relationship—by blood, marriage or acquaintance—with a person above him in the h... 
You're still lovely," Mor said a bit gently. 
Do no look for that ideal person to be with, be that ideal person. 
If he is a God of sound judgment, that sound mind must be revealed in people who identify themselves... 
If you had a friend you refused to talk to, eventually you couldn't keep calling that person a frien... 
The cinema is really built for the big screen and big sound, so that a person can go into another wo... 
At work, the authority of a person is inversely proportional to the number of pens that person is ca... 
Love isn't the work of the tender and the gentle;
The opportunity to decieve others is ever present and often tempting, and each instance of deception... 
If a person seems wicked, do not cast him away. Awaken him with your words, elevate him with your de... 
You use your real voice with those you love, and you cannot be phony with those who know you well. 